nephandi
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This also implies that nearly all women out there are looking for a man that will not compromise the type of man that he is, and from that we can deduct that nearly all women are looking for a leader-type man in their live.
I think most woman are looking for a man who do not compromise who he is, but who know the difference between compromising who he is and making compromises in a relationship. Most women do not want a man who will accept nothing but his own way, the happiness of his woman meaning nothing, it is his way or the high way. Women want a man who can compromise and be a part of a relationship and take her feelings into consideration. However most women will not respect a man who will compromise so much that there is nothing left of him, or compromise on his true nature. I know I express myself terrible here. I hope however I manage to make my meaning understandable anyway.
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This also implies that nearly all women out there are looking for a man that will not compromise the type of man that he is, and from that we can deduct that nearly all women are looking for a leader-type man in their live.
I do not agree with nearly all women. Many women do not want a leader but want to lead them self. But I agree that most women want a man who is a leader and a protector.
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It isn't too imply that all women seek to be abject slaves to all men, but that all women seek to be in close relationships with those men who are capable of mastering her, should he choose to do so.
It is here I disagree with you. I do not think all women seek a man who can master her, many women seek a leader, but many also do not. There are no absolutes in this. One can speak of what is common, but not of what is true for all.
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As such the desire to keep me in slavery is not on my list of what I am looking for in a man.
Slavery might be the result because of the assessment of my personal nature by the type of man that I am looking for, but it isn't my goal. I belief that my status in the relationship with the type of men that I find attractive will always be determined by the man in question, and if he is what I am looking for in a man, the label he chooses to put on me, be that free or slave, has no bearing on the way I personally relate to him.
On this I agree with you. When I first me Aswad I knew he was the kind of man I was meant for. I have been his girlfriend, his sub, his slave and now his free companion. If he choose to make me a slave again, or his wife or anything else I would accept it. I want to be with him and I will let him decide how I am with him. All I know is that when I first spoke with him I felt like I had come come and there was a voice inside me which was just screaming, choose me, choose me. I would look for the same kind of man that be as a slave, a free companion or a wife. It is up to him to choose the place I might have with him.
I wish you well
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Whatever you think you can do or believe you can do, begin it. Action has magic, grace and power in it.--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Futon torpedoes, make love not war!--Aswad
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