Rochsub2009
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yes. The best way to become involved/have information supplied is through the local munch group. A good number of BDSM groups have an independent vetting process that allows the members of said organizations to know who should be put on the guest list or not. Exactly! i don't know how difficult it would be to find these types of events if i were NOT a part of the local BDSM community (although from reading this thread, it sounds like it is somewhat difficult). But i always found that being a known member of the local community helped immensely. Prior to each Femdom party, i would inevitably have several of the ladies approach me to make sure that i was planning on being there. Because they knew me, they knew that my presence would enhance their experience, not detract from it. But it is difficult for them to know that about a complete stranger. After all, if they are looking forward to a night of service and pampering, why would they want to potentially ruin that by allowing an unknown wanker who is expecting to have HIS fantasies serviced by a roomful of ladies? BTW, if you are part of a local BDSM group that doesn't sponsor events like this, try suggesting it to them. i have been a part of many BDSM groups, and all of them were constantly searching for new activities to provide for their members. Moreover, they ALWAYS needed people to help organize those activities. So suggest it, and then volunteer to help put it together.
< Message edited by Rochsub2009 -- 4/6/2010 6:06:10 AM >
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