SimplyV
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ORIGINAL: funhippykid Hey all, I was just wondering if any other switches have ever had an indecisiveness (aka "greed") problem. As in, you'd really like to top your partner, but at the same time you'd really like to submit to them. I'd like to do both at the same time, but obviously that's not very logistically possible. Just speaking for myself, I'd say switches are the most greedy, insatiable, and arguably unreasonable of the lot. Any fellow switches know what I'm talking about? Maybe it just takes me a little time to get into either sub or dom space (in the meantime I'm in "smartass sadomasochist space"-it seems to amuse both doms and sub partners and, just as importantly, myself), but its like having to choose between delicious surrender and delicious your partner's surrender and not being able to "commit" to one for the scene because you want both. Any other switches have this problem/similar experiences? Well of course with the right person.. then yes flip it as it may.. any time.. Yin-Yang thing.. When one of you switches to sub the other Doms.. and vice versa. It would take a lot of communication and understanding, but it could work. with the right person. But there are very few people who would be capable of that. Many switches, while they like D or s .. usually only like being D with one person and s with someone else, and would never dream of switching roles with those partners. Finding someone who is capable of Dominating and submitting to you will be hard, since you as well need to be able to Dominate and submit to them. Though if you seek long enough, you may find one. I'm not sure switches are any more greedy or insatiable than anyone else. I'm pretty sure some of the "true Masters" out there have us beat on that. I tend to see us as people who love giving as much as recieving. But then I also like to wear my rose-colored glasses to alter reality too. As for indecisiveness, I am the Queen. I come from a long long line of indecisive people. I also come from a long line of packrats.. wonder if one has something to do with the other.. Hmmm
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