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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 11:39:40 PM   
porcelaine


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For example, most white women would not take offense if you asked them if they were bi but many black woman would react with anger if asked the same question.


The ambivalence mentioned is largely related to cultural ideas about discussions of that nature. It isn't that bisexuality does not exist, but very few are willing to admit it unless they're among familiar company. The idea of doing such to a stranger is unfathomable for some. I use the term loosely because a lot of that is irrelevant or eradicated when they're exposed to different ideas.

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With all ethnic groups attraction to those outside of the groups seems to be associated with a type of freedom they can not get by being with one of their own group, the same goes with whites who want black men or Asians etc. Freedom from all the traditions you were expected to love but have grown stale with time.


You're speaking in absolutes and I don't believe your assessments are applicable to everyone, most for that nature. With all the sociological elements raised, in the end people like what they like. I think some of the ideas promoted by others are a mild attempt at explaining something that really doesn't require such.

Interracial dating does not stem from escapist behaviors, discomfort from ones background, or a dislike of the opposite sex in ones ethnicity. Maybe people do it because they find it appealing. Much like they choose a dish, a piece of clothing, or a person to befriend and relate to. Yet we don't see the same stigmas attached to each. Perhaps it isn't as complex as suggested and the truth is really simple, too simple for some to accept.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/13/2010 4:42:58 AM   
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None the less,much of what was said by the above mentioned poster is generally true.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 5/13/2010 4:43:36 AM >


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