KYGuy -> RE: How do I get a man to submit? (5/22/2010 1:03:47 PM)
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MzPeachz, Start with the best question, do you like the guy? If yes, read on... Touch him romantically, tell him how much you like it when he comes to attention for you. Then gaze in that direction and smile. Touch his face and feel the smoothness of his skin, comment how much you like how he feels to you. Look for the widening in the pupils. The point, reel him in and then start backing off a bit, by suggesting he rub your feet or something. keep going as long as he looks like he is liking it. The process should soon lead to him getting hard just to follow your commands and fo him to yearn for both your touch and your cruelty. Make sure to do your homework about him and his secrets, open him up with your understanding and when he admits to being into something probe for why. Teach him how to really please you in and out of the bedroom and as he gets good, reward him some, but not to te same degree as this isn't about things being equal, remember you are the dominant partner so he needs to continue to strive to get better if he wants even some back. This will make him feel fantastic that he can please you so and that you are really liking him for it. Use his birthday or yours to improve your spanking skills, after all shouldn't he take your swats for you. When you spank him for your birthday make sure to tell him you are really going to unleash on him for any swat representing a difficult time in your life. For instance if when you were 13 it was a tough year, really give him a harsh swat. If he bucks a bit tell him, I know it was a tough year for me too. Ask him if he likes getting to know about your past this way. won't you be surprised when he says yes. Tell him if he ever misbehaves for you that these harsh swats will feel like nothing, that you just couldn't stand for him to disappoint you after you put so much time in training him. Make sure when he does something for you or strives to please you that you help him get better, that you are honest with him, and that there is connection, that you really care. Give rewards, and be creative with both punishment and rewards. Make him feel a bit uneasy or unsure of himself around you and watch what topics his conversations go toward. Remember your goal is to keep the upper hand and he will generally talk about what keeps him sexually excited or what he knows a lot about. Keeping him on topics that interest you both, help improve his service to you, or are general topics will help ensure you stay in control. Ask him why he thinks that from time to time and he will kept off balance a bit and will get in the habit of explaining himself to you. The rest will take care of itself. You will both have a lot of fun learning and training him to your liking. Best of luck to you.
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