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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 6:15:01 PM   
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The Forer effect, A.K.A the Barnum Effect, states that individuals will give high accuracy ratings to descriptions of their personality that supposedly are tailored specifically for them, but are in fact vague and general enough to apply to a wide range of people. Example many of the titles and labels used in the genre. To quote P.T.Barnum, "Come one, come all. The circus has something for everyone."

Do you think BDSM and the labels used in it were made deliberately vague so that the participants may supply their own interpretations? Since S&M was so dirty and carried stigmatization that BDSM and other Vague and pleasant phrases were used to justify actions or beliefs? Has the Forer Effect diluted the scene?


The "Forer Effect", as you note, describes the tendency of people to believe the accuracy of descriptions of their personality that are uselessly vague under certain conditions.  These conditions usually include stipulations like the description is largely positive with one or two colourful and romantic "blemishes" thrown in for good measure, the description is being offered by someone who claims some high level of credibility and authority, and the description is worded in such a way that even though it's vague each victim of the sham honestly believes it applies uniquely to them.  Horoscopes/Astrological traits are usually cited as the textbook example.  Note:  We Leos are aware that the traits of Leos (brilliance, ferocity, charisma, etc) really do apply to us.

In answer to your first question, I'd say "No, there was no deliberate effort to use the Forer Effect to water down 'the scene' (whatever that means."  However, I do think that as any given subbacultcha becomes a little more accepted and a little more potentially profitable, market forces do tend to come into play and appeals are made to a wider audience.  I don't think the process is a deliberate series of brilliant machinations, though, so much as it is a natural and gradual trend away from the dirty and taboo and toward the marketably taboo. See also:  The punk scene of the mid 90s vs the punk scene of the late 70s.

I don't think the "Forer Effect" has been deliberately used to dilute and market "the scene" to the masses.  But I do think that in any situation where broad descriptions of personalities are offered and people are invited to pick one as a self-identity, some people will over-identify with these broad descriptions and believe a bit too strongly in these identities as hard and fast rules.  But this is natural and inevitable and I don't think the quibble is with "BDSM" so much as it is, more broadly, with pop psychology and its emphasis on cookie cutter personality types.  In this sense, the Forer Effect is a useful critique of many of the popular ways people choose to describe the world and their place in it and it overlaps considerably with Karl Popper's principles of what constitutes a scientific theory to criticize Astrology, phrenology, huge swaths of pop psychology, etc etc.

I'd also hasten to add that at a certain point most of us (and most of the posters here) become sufficiently actualized that we no longer feel the juvenile need to plagiarize personae directly from pop culture handbooks and vague "personality type descriptions."  Our exploration of kink becomes a more individualized, richer, and altogether more interesting exploration of our own private theaters of urges and desires.  These urges and desires, unlike "the scene", are real.  I'd echo LA's statement that you seem bright enough and certainly outspoken and with less polemical posts it will be interesting to see what you have to say.



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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 7:34:46 PM   
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Maybe I should have served koolaid..  I comes in many flavors.

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So lighten up, Francis. You're giving us sadomasochists a bad name.


You give yourselves a bad name.. I hear that spanish inquisitors are looking for an acronym to hang their hats on. Maybe they could find a vague label that would include them into your diverse folds.. And my name isnt Francis.

Again you guys digress. How about lets try talking about marketing strategies and how it is useful to make a buck. Even your sacred Secretary tries to normalize kink and sell it to the mainstream. The ending was sweet and down right conventional, what bored housewife without a sense of adventure wouldn't love it. I am sure they wanted to rush out an buy the self help book that Lee was reading.

If you guys want to share your sacred whatever it is with nuns and priest who want to save your souls. So be it.. Not my cup of tea. But this topic is about making something that was once dark and mysterious, and then turning into total crap with romantic marketing.  I prefer being unique. I am not a sadist as was implied. I dont need a corny label. I am a man with masochistic urges..

Seriously,  the ad hominems and ad hominems by proxy wouldnt win you any debates in the preschool debate club and it really makes you guys look like the pompous asses that you claim me to be.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 7:44:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Masculus

The topic says it all... What says you?



I dunno... I like my hair pulled, my face slapped on occasion... some nice spankings at times... and I adore being face fucked. Do I have to come up with a "lifestyle" around the fact I like a man who can take charge in the bedroom on most nights, and likes to take charge out of it more often than not?

We are all here for our own purposes, and to be frank, I could give a rat's ass what your purposes are unless they intersect with my own... got it?

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 7:51:42 PM   
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You say it's crap. I say you are full of crap.

Your turn.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 7:57:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Masculus

But this topic is about making something that was once dark and mysterious, and then turning into total crap with romantic marketing.  I prefer being unique. I am not a sadist as was implied. I dont need a corny label. I am a man with masochistic urges..




What on earth are you so upset about? Romantic marketing??? Huh?
I think you are protesting a bit too much about being unique. If you were so unique, you would have such a strong sense of self and understanding of individual preferences, that you would cease to be shocked and amazed that others have different views than you.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 7:59:19 PM   
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You are absolutely right man. Abso-fucking-lutely right. We are all a bunch of losers. If I were you I wouldn't even fuck us anymore. That's what you should do man. Teach us all a damn lesson. Go away and don't ever come back, that'll show our asses.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:02:21 PM   
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I need some leather pants. Then I am gonna put my camera on the floor so I look like I am 6 feet tall.

Wait... I AM 6 ft tall....... nevermind

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:04:01 PM   
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Jeff please dont buy leather pants

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:05:12 PM   
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But, if I don't, how will people know I am DOMINATE!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:06:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron

You are absolutely right man. Abso-fucking-lutely right. We are all a bunch of losers. If I were you I wouldn't even fuck us anymore. That's what you should do man. Teach us all a damn lesson. Go away and don't ever come back, that'll show our asses.



LOL....and the post of the day award goes to LadyC!

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:07:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I need some leather pants. Then I am gonna put my camera on the floor so I look like I am 6 feet tall.

Wait... I AM 6 ft tall....... nevermind


LIAR! No anteater is six feet tall! Just put the damn camera on the floor and say cheese

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:07:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

But, if I don't, how will people know I am DOMINATE!!!!!!!!!!!

Well won't you be wearing a hello i'm Dominate name tag ?

Why don't you get a Dom tat on your forehead

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:11:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OrpheusAgonistes
I'd also hasten to add that at a certain point most of us (and most of the posters here) become sufficiently actualized that we no longer feel the juvenile need to plagiarize personae directly from pop culture handbooks and vague "personality type descriptions." Our exploration of kink becomes a more individualized, richer, and altogether more interesting exploration of our own private theaters of urges and desires. These urges and desires, unlike "the scene", are real. I'd echo LA's statement that you seem bright enough and certainly outspoken and with less polemical posts it will be interesting to see what you have to say.


Brilliant response, though so far it seems lost on our OP...

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subbacultcha


and a Pixies reference. Nice ;-)

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:13:10 PM   
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LA?.... perhaps you have heard?


Stanley Cup is coming to Chicago?..... A long sad summer for Montreal....sighsssss

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:17:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

LA?.... perhaps you have heard?


Stanley Cup is coming to Chicago?..... A long sad summer for Montreal....sighsssss


Meh, you win some, you lose some. Well the Montreal hockey widows here are happy ;-)

And besides, even better than hockey is soccer!

Btw, what role has the Forer Effect played on thread derailing in contemporary BDSM online forums? Enquiring minds wanna know.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:19:20 PM   
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I was merely demonstrating how allowing all sorts of people here has diluted the scene.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/9/2010 8:21:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I was merely demonstrating how allowing all sorts of people here has diluted the scene.


Just as long as you don't dilute my Martinis! ;-)

You have CMail Mr. Floofy.

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/10/2010 5:15:20 AM   
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I am a man with masochistic urges..


Unless you are going to fly to Italy so I can unleash my own sadistic urges on your ass (or whatever) who you are and what you do doesn't mean crap to me. THAT is the point.

Meh, yet another *good old days thread*. The topic has been done to death over and over already. So much for unique.



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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/10/2010 6:30:18 AM   
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I miss the Old Gourd.....sighsssssssss

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RE: What role has the Forer Effect played in contempora... - 6/10/2010 3:48:06 PM   
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What on earth are you so upset about? Romantic marketing??? Huh?


Because I didnt think of it first.. I would have loved milking koolaid drinkers for all they are worth. I hope yall  belong to the ' I have a job segment' I know its not as vague as 'I am a fat dom living with my mom segment', but much easier to milk.

Hey Jeffff.  5'3" has never looked so good from ground level.. It couild be worse. I could be a scarecrow  in glasses.. See, I can play your game. Kinda lame and doesnt really back my opinion. But what the fuck.. when in rome do as the romans do, have an open mind for a good brainwashing.. lmao





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