Andalusite -> RE: Whiplashed (6/9/2010 6:20:31 PM)
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For some people, BDSM play is very directly sexual, or they aren't happy with doing S/M or bondage without sex. For me, it's like dancing - it can be incredibly erotic with the right person, but not at all with someone I'm not attracted to. It really sounds like the two of you may have incompatible boundaries about involving other people. It's worth discussing with her to see if you can find common ground, but I agree that it doesn't really sound like a switching issue, unless you're only interested in playing with other people because you need to switch.
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