PeanutTigerinBox
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ORIGINAL: Miyani "But if you don't feel right putting things on hold with others yet, tell him that. "I really like you, and I'd love to see where this is going, but it's a bit too early to be 'under consideration,' for me. Let's just keep doing what we're doing, and see where it goes." His reaction to that will also give you some of the information you need to make your choice about him. This is an excellent Idea, thank you :) Yep, that's what I wanted to say as well.... I sometimes put in my profile that I am not looking, but this is then the case when "I" want to give my attention to one guy in particular at that moment and NOT because he says so, as I am not good in genuinely dating several people at the same time, for me it is a fair bit kind of one person after another...also it does not mean that I am in general unable to get to know others during that time either, however IF I get to know others during that time, then they know that right now my main focus won't be with them...that can potentially change at a later time (and happened in the past) but I simply found for myself to put it in when I feel that I want to take him serious for now and want to give him my full attention and also helps to avoid answering every fool who doesn't bother to read my proifle in the first place that I am not looking and so can just delete it without and answer . But yep...it can certainly tell you a lot depending on his reaction when you would take it out
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