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Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:33:04 PM   
lostsub26


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Status: offline 		Someone please help...I'm in a long distance relationship with a Dominant man who says he's going to train other female subs in his town and that the only way for me to stay in a relationship with him is to
a) remain faithful and loyal to only him, basically as his cuckold (female version), while he's screwing other women
b) that I take responsibility of training other women so that when he comes to town, we can all have a merry time.

I'm having a really hard time with both options.
Option a) i feel will create so much hatred, jealousy and resentment that I may end up having a nervous breakdown or cheat on him etc.
Option b) I'm only bicurious. I'm not really interested in being in a lesbian relationship or topping someone. It makes me feel kind of like the man in the relationship...a bit butchy. I want to be a woman!

I love him very deeply and feel very very dependent on him. He's very strong, dominant and has a manipulative way with words. I feel like a caged animal at times. I cannot accept the part of him that requires these things from me, but I don't know what other options I have. I'm lost and feeling desperate. Someone please help me understand the big picture.

Is it typical of a dominant man to set the rules and laws in the relationship and expect everyone around him to abide? Every time he considers another sub to bring into our relationship, I almost have this instinct that I need to protect her so she doesn't turn into his zombie, like I have. any other subs with similar experiences?

I wasn't always like this. Ok, maybe I was a control freak and untamed, but I did what I want. I had experiences in life. I had friends. Now I have none. I've changed drastically and might have developed some positive characteristics, I've ultimately lost my path in life, because it has been replaced with someone else's. I've always prided myself in being independent and living freely. Now I have no freedom and the mental barriers are what keep me locked up.
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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:36:52 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Wow. You joined just tonight and made this crazy post. Amazing you found this site with all that's going on with you.
I'd say if you're a zombie sub, you should sleep during the day and stay away from fire.
Good luck!

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:37:01 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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Status: offline 		And you think this Dom is the right Dom for you?

I mean this man is who you are going to surrender your will and life to and you have moral issues with what he is asking of you.

This sounds like a Fantasy, with very little basis of reality.

Finally BDSM should reflect BOTH partners needs not just the sexual desire of one person.

QSM

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:39:11 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
I'd say if you're a zombie sub, you should sleep during the day and stay away from fire.


Zombies don't sleep. Fire just leaves you with Flaming Slow Moving Zombies.

Get Ammunition.... and Aim for the head.

Invest in Swords, Machete's, and Shot Guns.

QSM

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:39:34 PM   
lostsub26


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Status: offline 		I don't know if he's the right Dom for me. I don't know any other Doms...

I have a hard time distinguishing between what it is HE wants and what I want.

This is my trouble..

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:41:16 PM   
smartsub10


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Status: offline 		I dunno.

This post seems a little too out there to believe.

If not, are you really that needy that you've changed your whole life for this guy?  Get some professional help.  I mean that kindly.


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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:41:18 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Well is he a zombie master? Or is more of a vampire or a werewolf?

You really shouldn't combine those things yanno.

BAD things can happen.

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:42:22 PM   
lostsub26


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Status: offline 		He's actually a very very powerful hypnotist.

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:43:28 PM   
Jasmineinbloom


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Status: offline 		Please ask yourself. Exactly what is it that you "love and depend" on him for? You're not expressing anything that indicates that this relationship is healthy for you whatsoever. What I tell my daughter is this.."Never make a man your priority when you're just an option for him."

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:43:28 PM   
AquaticSub


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Your options are very simple. Basically:

A) Obey
B) Attempt to negotiate
C) Leave

My advice: If obeying twists your gut, try B. If B fails, there is always C. If you'd rather obey than leave and he won't negotiate... well you've got your answer.

As for if it's typical... what is typical in these relationships is impossible to define. However, if he was going to require such of you, I'd say it's responsible of him to have made it clear from the get-go. The fact that you outright call him manipulative makes me wary though, for your sake. Remember there is a huge difference between a bully and a dominant and desire and love can blind you to that.

In the end, you have to do what makes you happy and, obviously, we don't have all the facts of the matter. I do hope that if you decide to obey that your dom will help you through this process.

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:44:45 PM   
xxblushesxx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan


quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
I'd say if you're a zombie sub, you should sleep during the day and stay away from fire.


Zombies don't sleep. Fire just leaves you with Flaming Slow Moving Zombies.

Get Ammunition.... and Aim for the head.

Invest in Swords, Machete's, and Shot Guns.

QSM


Oh yeah?!! How do you explain this then? "8. Light the zombie on fire. This is a sometimes underutilized zombie killing method. This is because a lot of people don't think that lighting a zombie on fire is enough to destroy the brain. That idea, however, is false. If you cover a zombie in gasoline and light it on fire, the heat will be enough to liquefy the brain and cause the zombie to die. The goal is to get a good amount of gasoline on the torso or head of the zombie so you can be sure a lot of the heat and reaction is focused there"

From: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2327370/how_to_kill_a_zombie_ten_best_ways.html?cat=2

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A nice girl with a disturbing hobby

My femdom findom blog: http://www.MistressAvarice.blogspot.com


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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:45:56 PM   
lostsub26


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Status: offline 		He told me this from the get-go and I thought I would be ok with it....That is, before I developed strong feelings for him.

Now, I just feel like another "option" for him. He's not an option to me though. He's become a part of who I am.

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:46:07 PM   
Jasmineinbloom


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ORIGINAL: lostsub26

He's actually a very very powerful hypnotist.


I doubt that. He's lying. He's a very very powerful liar.

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:47:36 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lostsub26

He's actually a very very powerful hypnotist.


OH NOT THIS SHIT AGAIN.

Okay... Ask yourself this simple question......

"Is anything he has to offer WORTH the way I am feeling right now?"

What he is asking of you is only worth it if YOU WANT to do it.

If you are only doing it to make him happy you are just a tool for his Penis.

It's a Crock of Shit Hun.... But it is also your life.

I don't think anyone... even Myself... is worth that crap.

QSM

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:47:50 PM   
lostsub26


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Status: offline 		That's the thing Jasmine, he want me "priority" to be to find other subs for us to share....

I cannot direct my focus off of him.

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:49:36 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lostsub26

He told me this from the get-go and I thought I would be ok with it....That is, before I developed strong feelings for him.

Now, I just feel like another "option" for him. He's not an option to me though. He's become a part of who I am.


That clarifies things. So he told you what he wanted, you entered into the relationship and now that you actually care about him strongly you no longer want the terms he already defined for you.

Basically you can either attempt to follow through or you can explain that you thought you'd be ok and you aren't.

Oh, and by the way, hypnotism only works on the willing. Consider that. Not saying it's bad. Just saying maybe you really want to believe he's very powerful.

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It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:49:59 PM   
Loric


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Status: offline 		also, I recommend becoming a walking tank to deal with a zombie infestation...in other words, gambeson, hauberk of leather with steel plates riveted to it, chainmail, and finally full plate armor...and carry a mace not a flanged one and not the spray stuff either, a plain round ball of steel on a handle will work for dashing in the zombie heads.  failing that, home made napalm will work

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:50:50 PM   
AQuietSimpleMan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan


quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
I'd say if you're a zombie sub, you should sleep during the day and stay away from fire.


Zombies don't sleep. Fire just leaves you with Flaming Slow Moving Zombies.

Get Ammunition.... and Aim for the head.

Invest in Swords, Machete's, and Shot Guns.

QSM


Oh yeah?!! How do you explain this then? "8. Light the zombie on fire. This is a sometimes underutilized zombie killing method. This is because a lot of people don't think that lighting a zombie on fire is enough to destroy the brain. That idea, however, is false. If you cover a zombie in gasoline and light it on fire, the heat will be enough to liquefy the brain and cause the zombie to die. The goal is to get a good amount of gasoline on the torso or head of the zombie so you can be sure a lot of the heat and reaction is focused there"

From: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2327370/how_to_kill_a_zombie_ten_best_ways.html?cat=2



This also requires you to get close enough to coat said Zombie and Ignite said Zombie.... Using a Flame Thrower proves to simply surround yourself with BURNING Zombies who still move toward you....

If you have to wait longer than 5 seconds to Kill a Zombie you are waiting too long. Do NOT be a target in the up comming Zombie Appoclypse. I will not hesitate to take you out.

Walking Inferno's is a BAD idea.

QSM

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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:50:59 PM   
LadiTrukDriver


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ORIGINAL: lostsub26

He's actually a very very powerful hypnotist.


Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa!!!!!
My Master is also a hypnotist & yes, a very powerful one, but even I know for a fact that You WILL NOT do under hypnosis what you will not do while you're awake. The hypnosis just takes away the inhibition.
I myself have always been VERY susceptible to hypnosis, & I know for a fact that my Master would NEVER in this life or any other do a single thing to hurt me, or anyone else for that matter.
Honestly, I have to say, I'm not believing a bit of this story, especially since we went from the 1st part explaining then later saying he's a hypnotist, what does that have to do with the rest of the story?
Yes, there are those who will use hypnosis for evil, and I had found that out several years ago 1st hand, but there are also several who are out to help people!
Lauri


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RE: Zombie sub. Please help - 7/9/2010 9:51:03 PM   
xxblushesxx


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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan


If you are only doing it to make him happy you are just a tool for his Penis.



That part...that's not supposed to be hottish is it?...

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