Collarchat.com

Join Our Community		 Collarchat.com

Home  Login  Search 

RE: BDSM Bucket List


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: BDSM Bucket List Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 10:58:25 AM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		I don't really think it's doable but it would be fun seeing how much he could get in. Without needing an ER visit after.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 1:20:41 PM   
Shadow-tiger


Posts: 1775
Joined: 6/8/2008
From: California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

Abduction fantasy. Er... too soon to bring that one up again?

My bucket list is a mile long, since I've only been playing for a little over a year. But I do intend to try everything I can think of (that isn't a hard limit) at least once.

*edited because I'm a compulsive perfectionist
*abducts juju*

I don't really have a list, as that would require quantifying the things I want most into specific acts. Some involve being flexible like a gymnast, others involve playing way out in the deep end to the point I pause before considering going out there.


_____________________________

Just some guy (profile)
Just a tiny bit evil
My kind of love song

(in reply to jujubeeMB)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 1:33:18 PM   
sweetbiggal


Posts: 62
Joined: 6/27/2010
Status: offline 		What a great question!  Hmmm, there are somethings that I really want to try, but they are either just plain stupid, too risky or scare me but yet they excite me.  They are:
1.  Bound between to 2 trees and whipped with a bullwhip.
2.  Whored out.
3.  Blindfolded and sex with anonymous men.

I think I could do the following:
1.  Used as a piece of furniture, say a coffee table.
2.  Leash around my neck and paraded around like a puppy.
3.  Domestic slave where there's no sex involved, just me taking care of my owner's needs.
3. 

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 1:50:42 PM   
LanceHughes


Posts: 4737
Joined: 2/12/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetbiggal
What a great question!  Hmmm, there are somethings that I really want to try, but they are either just plain stupid, too risky or scare me but yet they excite me.  They are:
1.  Bound between 2 trees and whipped with a bullwhip.
2.  Whored out.
3.  Blindfolded and sex with anonymous men.

I think I could do the following:
4.  Used as a piece of furniture, say a coffee table.
5.  Leash around my neck and paraded around like a puppy.
6.  Domestic slave where there's no sex involved, just me taking care of my owner's needs. 

Fixed as to numbers so following makes sense.

Other than the gender issue and the side of the kneel, ALL numbers 1-6 are on my bucket list.

That is, I'd like to be skillful enuf with bullwhip to do your #1 with a margin of safety built in.  #2: I'd love to whore out a man under my hand.  (Of course, he'd be protected by his pimp.) #3: We have a men's only group that might be able to accomadate you (except for that nasty, nasty, gender thingie.LOL)  My #3 is to have 6 or 8 boys gathered around me, all stimulating me with their mouths and hands.  Blindfold? Sure! Sounds like fun.

4 & 5 Easy 'nuff.  Gender for me is probably okay.

6 - SURE - but I want it 24 / 7, so how does it fit into the bucket?  Not very well.... So we need a limit on time you'd be willing to do your #6.

Other items on my bucket list?  Like LadyPact, I'd like to give lectures, demos, etc. - - but out-of-state.  The expert is the one that gets paid and had to travel more than 100 miles. LOL!

_____________________________

"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong

10 fluffy points
50 nz points

Member: VAA's posse

(in reply to sweetbiggal)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 3:45:32 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

Abduction fantasy. Er... too soon to bring that one up again?

My bucket list is a mile long, since I've only been playing for a little over a year. But I do intend to try everything I can think of (that isn't a hard limit) at least once.

*edited because I'm a compulsive perfectionist


I used to have the abduction fantasy... I don't want to embarrass myself with what happens once I am taken (I am slightly shy that way...lol)

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to jujubeeMB)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 3:57:03 PM   
mstrjx


Posts: 2045
Joined: 11/27/2005
Status: offline 		I'm going to have to be contrary (to the thread). Please don't take it to be a hijack.

I've done a lot within wiitwd. There might be some things I haven't tried that could end up on a short list, but I really can't think of any.

Oddly enough for me, I would say my list (of indeterminate length) is not a what, but a 'who'. Nuff said.

Jeff

_____________________________

Know thyself. It's the best gift you can ever give yourself.

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:09:57 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		Actually others have already said that....

I do not think having a bucket list and being with someone I value are mutually exclusive ideas, and I mainly started this thread because I thought it would be fun. There are many people who complain about the lack of BDSM focused discussions here, and I was really attempting to foster one

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to mstrjx)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:17:16 PM   
Tantriqu


Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline 		I feel really lucky/grateful/smug that I've done everything on my list except one.
The one thing on my 'done' list I want to re-visit is a mmF threesome.
The one thing I haven't done is Take then fist a good man in a sex swing, in a safe club for preference, yet WITHOUT some perv whining, coughing or criticising within earshot. I guess that's why it's called a fantasy!

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:30:12 PM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		I've only got a very few in BDSM:Whore out a girl in my collar.
  • Watch a girl in my collar take half a dozen randy blokes.
  • Use an 8' bull whip on a slave without permanently damaging her.
  • Using a fire whip on a slave (male or female).
  • Do a mega needle play session using 1000+ needles in an intricate Celtic pattern front and back.
  • Do a demonstration of rigging at a top club.

Mundanely and more doable for me:
  • Buy and obviously fly a Gypsy Moth.
  • Have built and fly an Albatross of the same design as the legendary "Red Barron".
  • Fly a spitfire.
  • Take Neets hot air ballooning.
  • Take Neets for a Gondola ride on the Brisbane River whilst we have a gourmet dinner on board.
  • Take Neets for her first chopper flight.
  • Take Neets on both of our first sea plane flight around the Gold Coast..

Pretty lame and boring but then it tickles my fancy.


_____________________________

Iron Bear

Master of Bruin Cottage

http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:36:40 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Hot air ballooning is SUPER fun! I wanted to get a leaf from the top of a tree as a souvenir but they are VERY firmly attached!

I think that my bucket list is against the TOS. Or at best, TMI for this forum.

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]



(in reply to IronBear)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:36:52 PM   
laurell3


Posts: 6577
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder


There's nothing in bdsm that I can truly say I have to do sometime in my lifetime. My bucket list for bdsm was always to find a loving long term committed relationship with a dominant man.


Ditto.

_____________________________

I cannot be defined by moments in my life, but must be considered for by the entirety of my existence.

When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

(in reply to littlewonder)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:44:23 PM   
Lve


Posts: 114
Joined: 5/30/2010
Status: offline 		I want to travel to NYC and be used in Central Park at night.That is all

_____________________________

People who live in society have learned how to see themselves in mirrors as they appear to their friends. I have no friends. Is that why my flesh is so naked? You might say - yes you might say, nature without humanity.

(in reply to laurell3)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 4:52:11 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

WITHOUT some perv whining, coughing or criticising within earshot. I guess that's why it's called a fantasy!


People do that? Knowing what a bitch I can be I would probably look up at whomever did that and say "excuse me? We are trying to have fun here, Dildo Breath"

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to Tantriqu)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:09:58 PM   
Tantriqu


Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

WITHOUT some perv whining, coughing or criticising within earshot. I guess that's why it's called a fantasy!


People do that?


Yup, they do: but only once! When using a strapon, in private or public, I keep a spray bottle nearby with warm water to mist/refresh the Astroglide; I twist it to 'stream' and spritz the offender if within range without [cough] missing a stroke. Very funny if a whiny dom thinks he got jizzed in the eye!

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:40:38 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

I twist it to 'stream' and spritz the offender if within range without [cough] missing a stroke. Very funny if a whiny dom thinks he got jizzed in the eye!


How come i do not feel sorry for them

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to Tantriqu)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:51:50 PM   
marie2


Posts: 1690
Joined: 11/4/2008
From: Jersey
Status: offline 		I don't know if this is bdsmish or not, and I always take flack when I say this, but I'd love to be stalked. Not by a psycho killer, just by someone who is interested in me and in tormenting me a bit. I love intrigue, figuring out mysterious things, and feeling slightly creeped out and mentally stimulated at the same time.

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:53:52 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: marie2

I don't know if this is bdsmish or not, and I always take flack when I say this, but I'd love to be stalked. Not by a psycho killer, just by someone who is interested in me and in tormenting me a bit. I love intrigue, figuring out mysterious things, and feeling slightly creeped out and mentally stimulated at the same time.


Wouldn't you be afraid?

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to marie2)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:54:14 PM   
kyraofMists


Posts: 3292
Joined: 7/29/2005
Status: offline 		To understand one of mine you would have to have seen WhipMasterBob and Bootpig 'dance' with a single tail. I want to learn to use a single-tail well enough to have Alandra and I both have a whip in hand and using them on each other. I think it would be hot, hot, hot and fuck with people's heads on top of it.

I want to try needles. It is one thing that terrifies the hell out of me and he hasn't chosen to do them because of that and I can't stand having my fear control me.

I would also like to have a cutting of a cat done on my back and have the crossed swords on my thigh re-done.

Those are the ones that I can think of for now.

Knight's Kyra



_____________________________

"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus

(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:57:05 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

To understand one of mine you would have to have seen WhipMasterBob and Bootpig 'dance' with a single tail. I want to learn to use a single-tail well enough to have Alandra and I both have a whip in hand and using them on each other. I think it would be hot, hot, hot and fuck with people's heads on top of it.


I would love to see something like that, it would seriously be wicked to view.

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to kyraofMists)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: BDSM Bucket List - 7/30/2010 5:58:02 PM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline 		I'd like to be pierced with 1000 needles.. all over my body. I think this is totally doable and really hope to bring it in to my reality one day.

_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


(in reply to juliaoceania)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: BDSM Bucket List Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2024
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.437