My girl is gaining more experience in anal play and we want to get her a plug that she can wear for longer periods of time. So far she can easily take a pyrex dildo we have, and we have a rubber plug with two bulbs; she can take the 1.5 inch one easily, but just barely can't take the 2 inch bubble. We're working on that part. :)
The real question here tough is that I want a metal plug that she can wear for extended periods. We would work up from scratch, first going an hour, and then two, with the eventual goal of going either overnight, or during the day while going about her vanilla life. I read on another thread here (yes, I searched first :)) that, for extended use, a longer "shaft" connecting the bulb to the base is preferred, but there were no further details offered. I am curious about the reason and also how long, exactly, is "longer"
I have found the perfect plug, but the stem is only .3 inches long. Another (more expensive) option comes in 1.25, 1.4, and 1.6 inches.
Any suggestions on what would be best for longer use? Also, is it preferable to have a bulb/egg that is smaller than the "maximum" size one can take. For example, during play, she says the 1.5 inch bubble "isn't enough," but I'm thinking that if she's going to be wearing it outside of the bedroom, that stretching her to her max for hours at a time would be uncomfortable. Should we go with something in the 1.5 to 1.75 inch range for longer wear?
Thanks in advance. I realize a lot of these questions depend on the person in question. If there is any more info I can give, I'll be happy to. I just want to get as much info as possible to reduce the chances I spend $60 on something that doesn't work and can't be returned. :)