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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:25:42 PM

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I'm still confused by what kind of knowledge a nonwhite male dom needs that is not also needed by a white male dom or a white female domme or a nonwhite female domme. How to handle implements? That is not impacted by your ethnic background. How to be empathetic? Also something that is important regardless of race.

Could you be specific because we really don't understand?

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:26:06 PM

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Excuse my forum ignorance, but what does OP mean?

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:45:04 PM

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 6:45:22 PM

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I've no problem with color, as long as you keep it real, which, I'm having problems with now, cuase she lies to me about relationships with others.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 7:01:28 PM

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I'm still confused by what kind of knowledge a nonwhite male dom needs that is not also needed by a white male dom or a white female domme or a nonwhite female domme. How to handle implements? That is not impacted by your ethnic background. How to be empathetic? Also something that is important regardless of race.

Could you be specific because we really don't understand?

Sorry, but I'm just not sure how to better explain it to you. It's not about any one group needing knowledge that another group doesn't need. We all need knowledge. For example, if you wanted to donate to the needy, you probably wouldn't start by donating to the needy in oil rich middle eastern countries. Even though they have many needy people there. You'd probably donate first to the needy of third world countries, especially if you happen to come from one. You'd probably want to help lift your poor nation out of poverty 1st. That doesn't meant you feel they are the only ones who need help. It also does not mean that you don't care about people outside of your poor nation.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 7:16:03 PM

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This has to be the most active forum in which I've posted. Thanks for the info and comments that you all have given. Again I'm not just looking for what many may consider as porn. Actually, I don't see quality BDSM as porn at all. Maybe because I see it as educational instead of entertainment. I've used porn to squeeze one off, the idea of using quality made BDSM in that manner would be like using a thick juicy steak as a door stop, what a waste!

Anyway, I must say that the creators of this forum(and this community) are very fortunate to have active members like you all. I can only hope to duplicate this type of activity on my site.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 7:22:22 PM

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Yeah, like DesFIP, I'm not understanding quite what you are looking for here, either.

Do you want to gather information to put on another website? Have us do the leg-work? Like provide links to certain forms of "high-standard" video clips depicting certain acts between certain people? Or are you recruiting actors for movies you will be making?

Or do you want to gather similar people with similar interests to your already extant site? Perhaps a pay site? And you are simply advertising here?

You might have better luck getting what you want if you could formulate your request in forthright terms. Your odd analogies to donating to third world countries smacks of condescension. Not a good idea, as most folk here don't think they are inferior.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 7:33:37 PM

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 8:00:21 PM

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Greetings Dom D,

Welcome to the site. In terms of the question posed, you may have greater success finding persons like yourself through other venues such as Fetlife. They have several groups devoted to the subject matter and a host of people willing to discuss the topic in great depth. Best of luck to you.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/25/2010 8:16:19 PM

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I wanna play! Your request reminds me of myself and my favorite play-partner.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 1:08:37 AM

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Yeah, like DesFIP, I'm not understanding quite what you are looking for here, either.

Do you want to gather information to put on another website? Have us do the leg-work? Like provide links to certain forms of "high-standard" video clips depicting certain acts between certain people? Or are you recruiting actors for movies you will be making?

Or do you want to gather similar people with similar interests to your already extant site? Perhaps a pay site? And you are simply advertising here?

You might have better luck getting what you want if you could formulate your request in forthright terms. Your odd analogies to donating to third world countries smacks of condescension. Not a good idea, as most folk here don't think they are inferior.

January, Yes I want to put information on my website, No I don't want anyone doing legwork for me. I merely asked if anyone knows of a websites that contains the content I want. I never suggested someone should look for it on my behalf. Yes inform me of a site that may have "high-standard" video clips......No I'm not recruiting actors(I'm not a film maker), Yes I do want to gather interested people, No it's not a pay site(it's 100% free to members and advertisers), yes I suppose I'm advertising here in a way, but not as blatently as you advertise your book in your signature line. Yes I'd probably "have better luck.....". I wasn't attempting to be condescending by using the 3rd world comparison(it's not an analogy, I won't attempt to explain the difference because I'm sure you'd see that as condescending), and the inferior thing...too funny.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 1:10:45 AM

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Greetings Dom D,

Welcome to the site. In terms of the question posed, you may have greater success finding persons like yourself through other venues such as Fetlife. They have several groups devoted to the subject matter and a host of people willing to discuss the topic in great depth. Best of luck to you.

Hi porcelain, and thanks for welcoming me to the site. Thanks also for suggesting Fetlife, I am a member there but hadn't yet checked it out in depth, I'll do that. Have a great day and thanks again for your reply.

Best Regards,
Dom D

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 1:21:48 AM

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I wanna play! Your request reminds me of myself and my favorite play-partner.

Hi takemeforyourown,

I know what you mean. Maybe, the reason for my recent ability to piss off so many people by simply asking questions stems from the frustration of not being able to currently play. lol

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 5:48:46 AM

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nonwhite? hahahahahaha now we have white and nonwhite???? jeezz.... nonwhite; the new black dear oh dear

most people won't touch the entire race thing with a barge pole... if anybody happens to be in a relationship with somebody from another race than themselves it obviously has NOTHING to do with the race itself... imagine that it would... brrrr
that would be worse than.... a diaper fetish.... or an interest in scat surely

and unfortunately people are indeed that narrowminded

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 5:51:35 AM

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yes I suppose I'm advertising here in a way, but not as blatently as you advertise your book in your signature line.

Your responses to my questions are marvelously equivocating.

You ask for links and video clips, but that's not legwork! Your site is 100% free--for members. For members? Oh boy! You say you won't attempt to explain the difference between an analogy and a comparison, yet you do!

And then you add colorful sprinkles to your vanilla cone post: you bring up my sig line. Is that another non-blatant comparison?

Are you equating my completed BDSM fiction novella, which is dedicated to the collarme community, to your half-done website? You've been a member for a day, and feel compelled to educate a six year member? That seems so defensive. Snotty. Patronizing. Like the rest of your posts.

Here's hoping you'll take a calmer approach when you post on Fet. In the meantime, I'll be putting you on ignore.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 6:03:02 AM

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Look Gerald. As far as we can gather, you want us to do your research for you, for free. Yet once we've done so, you want us to join your website which we created by finding the info and links for, for money. Where I come from, that's defined as chutzpah and it's not a good thing. Oh yeah, and you propose to steal the stuff we find to use to make money yet not pay the site that created it and you stole from. If it were words it would be plagiarism, I don't know what the term is if it's film or video. Regardless, it's still wrong and it's still illegal.

Oh yeah, and writing your name backwards doesn't make you unique.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 6:13:49 AM

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Look Gerald. As far as we can gather, you want us to do your research for you, for free. Yet once we've done so, you want us to join your website which we created by finding the info and links for, for money. Where I come from, that's defined as chutzpah and it's not a good thing. Oh yeah, and you propose to steal the stuff we find to use to make money yet not pay the site that created it and you stole from. If it were words it would be plagiarism, I don't know what the term is if it's film or video. Regardless, it's still wrong and it's still illegal.

Oh yeah, and writing your name backwards doesn't make you unique.

What money are you talking about? 100% free means 100% free. No one pays anything, members, non-members, advertisers. The only money exchanging hands is me paying my web host, and I still have not even mentioned the site name in these posts. Are you attempting to lie on my behalf? Or do you feel that sites like youtube are wrong and illegal?

Writing my name backwards isn't intended to be unique. The purpose of it is discretion. Do you not respect the discretion and privacy of the users here?

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 6:37:48 AM

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Hello Gerald,

Welcome to Collar Me and the Chat Boards. There are a number of regular posters on the boards here who are in relationships similar to the one you describe. I expect that with a bit of time you will recognize who they are.

First, I'd like to point out that your responses have been pretty calm even when you have been put a bit through the ringer. I appreciate that. That says a lot about how you handle difficulties.

As far as "ethnic / white" porn goes, I have heard that there is a good bit of it on Spanish sites. I wouldn't know, I merely hear the rumors. *ahem*... which brings me to a point that I just want to remind you of - not all "ethnic" or "non-white" people are of African heritage (never mind that they aren't African-AMERICAN).

There have been a number of inter-racial videos put up on professional sites and on amateur sites. I'm not sure why you can't find them. My girlfriends tell me about them.

Good luck in your search (and enjoy looking at all those vids and such).
sunshine

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 6:44:43 AM

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Thanks to those of you that offered constructive comments and criticism. I did find what I was looking for on Fetlife. Discussing interracial issues or gathering info for a website from a website can both be as dangerous as discussing politics or religion. I suppose doing both of those things combined can be worse than discussing politics or religion. Especially with my apparent lack of tact, and inability to effectively communicate. Thanks again and I do see it as unfortunate that I have offended some. That was definitely not my intent. The bottom line is we all love or have an interest in the BDSM lifestyle and no matter or personal preferences or differences, we're united by that.

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RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs - 9/26/2010 6:55:58 AM

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Hi sunshinemiss and thanks for welcoming me here,

You're so right about ethnic not meaning that a person is of African descent. I didn't mean to imply that, but I believe I may have. You're also right about the Hispanic content. I have found some excellent content with Hispanic Doms, especially LezDoms. I believe it's becoming my favorite content. I'll enjoy looking and I hope you enjoy...hearing the rumors!

Thanks so much and have a great day!

Best Regards,
Dom D

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