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skinlover -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 8:35:31 AM)

Hi as a new person I found it a bit messy,but not that bad it needs being attacked over.It is an interesting subject as it brings together so much history and pain for some people on both sides,and I guess it could be a bit like face slapping,horses for courses.



TheIBFA -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 8:48:04 AM)

Hi and welcome (even though you've been here longer than me),

Very true comment. Thanks for helping to balance out the negativity my post created. Have a great day!

Best Regards,
D




naughtysubK -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 10:31:54 AM)

for purposes of this topic, does non white Dom=African American, or does that include anyone who is not caucasian? Just wondering



BLKMANSHAND -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 10:37:50 AM)

WELL I AM new to the site but I'd like to get in on this one



TheIBFA -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 11:46:14 AM)

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for purposes of this topic, does non white Dom=African American, or does that include anyone who is not caucasian? Just wondering


Hi naughtysubK,
I'm not really sure, the term "non-white" was dropped by someone who replied much earlier. I may have used it also, I don't remember. I hope I didn't because it sounds too 1920's to me. The original term I used was "ethnic". Maybe ethnic can be open to interpretation, but to me it doesn't only refer to people of African descent. To me it refers to all minority groups.

Thanks for asking and have a great day!
D

quote:

WELL I AM new to the site but I'd like to get in on this one


Hi and welcome BLKMANSHAND (I'm new also),
All I can say is "thread" lightly, lol
D



naughtysubK -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 12:02:56 PM)

I was just kind of wondering, since you specified both 'interracial' and 'white subs' in your thread title.



TheIBFA -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 12:17:32 PM)

Hi again,

Ok, I think I know what you mean now. To me "Interracial BDSM with White female subs" = Interracial BDSM with White female subs and Ethnic Doms

Since if it's interracial with a White sub, the Dom has to be from an ethnic group.

I can now see how so much misinterpretation was caused by my choice of words, thank you.
D



Wheldrake -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 1:19:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TheIBFA

Hi again,

Ok, I think I know what you mean now. To me "Interracial BDSM with White female subs" = Interracial BDSM with White female subs and Ethnic Doms

Since if it's interracial with a White sub, the Dom has to be from an ethnic group.

I can now see how so much misinterpretation was caused by my choice of words, thank you.
D


Strictly speaking, of course, we white people belong to ethnic groups as well (one can be ethnically Polish, or French, or whatever). I'd suggest "non-white doms" as the best term for what you seem to be looking for.

I don't think there's anything wrong with putting together a site that focuses on non-white male dominants and white female submissives. Since I'm a white male submissive it's obviously not my thing, but the world needs more high-quality BDSM websites of every variety. You might consider looking at Japan as a source of content, although I don't know how routinely the dominant men there get their hands on white women.



DesFIP -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 2:42:14 PM)

You said free to advertisers which implies payment by others.
And if you don't want us to know your name, then don't use it in your screen name.

As far as minority doms go, I'd suggest talking to Dark Steven. He's a member of a minority religion. Or does that not qualify for whatever it is you want, which after three pages, no one still knows. Almost unique in your ability to be incomprehensible for so long, while blaming it on us the whole time.

And yes, I'm with January. You've been here one whole day and people are blocking you. Is this a record?



domiguy -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/26/2010 2:54:04 PM)

The IBFA..."Taking fat white chicks off of white dudes hands for twenty years."

God bless the work of the IBFA! Is there a place I can contribute and support their efforts?



Charles6682 -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 12:20:56 AM)

Everyone does have their preference.It's the diversity of this lifestyle that make's it so unique.I would hope people in this lifestyle were more aware of people's cultural diversity.I know for me,I wouldn't want someone to discriminate against me because I consider myself to be a submissive.I have a preference for African American Domme's.However,I appericate the beauty of all Women,regardless of color.It just mean's that I have a preference.



ranja -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 1:19:46 AM)

Ha domiguy, i thought you might be a member even... nonwhite too on account of the black Jesus, see how easy a nonblack (recently slim) chick can jump to a (wrong?)conclusion



SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 1:45:44 AM)

As far as ethnic groups are concerned, per recent numbers white people are a minority group (about .80 billion of the population, Asians 1.6 billion and those of african american decent 1.2 billion So your theory that ethic means non white is destroyed twice over.

I get your into being a black dom and white sub, there are several hundred groups and places on a wonderful little site for you. its really simple as well...

the site is www.google.com



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 3:30:13 AM)

Well I guess I'm an 'ethnic' dominant. (Hate that word-I get labelled ethnic and so does my dad's Guyanan best friend and my Venezuelan ex and my Tamil schoolfriend, etc etc. None of the common denominators between us have anything to do with our origins. Why lump us all together like that?)

I suppose it's...nice (?!) that you want to give me resources before anyone else, but most of us do just fine. I don't feel I need extra tuition from someone who feels that the 'quality' of ethnic doms needs to be improved.

Actually writing that last sentence out was unpleasant. Your word choice in the OP was poor at best.

Also:

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ORIGINAL: TheIBFA

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...Oh yeah, and writing your name backwards doesn't make you unique.


...Writing my name backwards isn't intended to be unique. The purpose of it is discretion. Do you not respect the discretion and privacy of the users here?


I narrowly avoided an unfortunate orange juice/keyboard collision at this.  Your idea of discretion is writing your name backwards? That's one of the least discreet attempts at discretion I've ever come across. Either that or you think we're so stupid it's borderline offensive. I don't think you get to attack DesFIP for not respecting your privacy, because that wasn't exactly keeping anything private.

Edit cuz I forgot to remove a word.



crazyml -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 3:34:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Well I guess I'm an 'ethnic' dominant.



Swoon. You know, if I ever were to switch it would be to a pitta scoffer.



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 3:35:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: crazyml


quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Well I guess I'm an 'ethnic' dominant.



Swoon. You know, if I ever were to switch it would be to a pitta scoffer.


If you're not careful I'll take that as an offer [8D]



Twoshoes -> RE: Interracial BDSM with White females subs (9/27/2010 4:53:24 AM)

Goodness, I don't even remember where I'm from anymore.

I do have enough passports to work just about anywhere except North Korea, though.



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