BonesFromAsh
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ORIGINAL: tewy01
I was once a slave to a Pro Domme for serveral years and then she moved to the west coast and I stayed behind. For the last couple years before she left, I was graduated to the title of Dom and was taught the art of domination by her and her other domme friends but still submitting to them for teaching me. I still do have sub tendencies but know most female subs want a total Dom to serve and a male switch presents problems.My question to you is this..Would having a relationship with a dom and a switch present issues/problem in the relationship? Or should I consider listing myself as a switch and seek a domme or switch?
I think what gets confusing, at least for me, is all the labels and roles being tossed around in this post...slave, dom, sub, switch.
I have no problem with having a relationship with a dominant man who has a desire to bottom (yeah, another label  )...that's just an act of recieving and not submitting, imo. In fact, given that I've decided to throw my hat back in the ring in regards to relationships and such, this type of scenario pretty much sums up what I'm looking for.
That being said, I would have a hard time understanding a man who has served as a slave in the past and yet now views himself as a dom. I see a slave as being cut from a slightly different cloth than a submissive person...a bit more deeper in their need to cede control, if you will.
I would suggest you ask yourself what each of these terms...slave/submissive/dominant/switch...mean to you and then accept yourself for who you are...an individual.
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