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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 9:24:37 AM

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Sorry to hear that things didn't work out this time. Every experience is an opportunity to refine, though -- so hail the refinement.

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 10:04:22 AM

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all I can say that no matter what path you take or how long takes to get there.... if you really want it... it will be worth it! I know it was for me!

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 10:55:31 AM

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What I find somewhat annoying is the assumption that she is fake because she no longer speaks with you. She could just as easily assume you are fake because you are pushing someone you have never met to say they are owned by you. If my Lord had expected me to say I was owned by him before we ever met face to face, then we never would have met face to face. I guess he might have considered me fake, but I certainly would not have the respect for him that I do now, if he expected me to be his before ever validating who he is in person.

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 11:26:47 AM

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I'm curious why the hell you wanted her to add 'now owned' when you haven't met her. If I was her, that would be big red flag to me about you. She knows nothing about the rules she would be submitting to because she hasn't met you.

Perhaps next time actually do move slowly and don't be so quick to slap ownership status on someone you don't even know. For all you know, she is real and got scared off by your eagerness.

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 3:47:49 PM

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I have to say that I agree with the fine gals above. Huge difference between some fun chats over a couple of weeks and actual ownership. If anything, the gal in question probably though you were fake for not taking such a status seriously. Would you really want to own someone that you've never met?

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 4:55:20 PM

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This whole thing is pretty weird. I know who belongs to me; It isn't because they say so, and I don't need it written on their profiles. $.02

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 5:58:59 PM

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sorry folk, I should not have said those things. I am terribly sorry for doing so. The message has been deleted. I regret saying those things. I am sorry.

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/27/2010 9:13:51 PM

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Well.... damn.... now I'm curious what you said!

But, IMHO, you continue to show your character by apologizing and removing it. For what it's worth, I remain of the opinion that you have the potential to find a stable poly relationship. Simply that you and yours have some more learning to do - which is not meant as an insult in any way, shape or form. Only an encouragement to keep at it and to continue to learn from those who have come before you.

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/28/2010 12:49:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Sorry for the off topic here, but isn't the *block number ability available on any cell phone? I get that not everyone has a cell, but a very high percentage of people do. Doesn't *67 work for both cell and land lines?

another option is buying a prepaid calling card like VOX. when you use them your number does not come up as it goes through a routing station.

I used to use them alot when i was first meeting people online.

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RE: Hunting Unicorns - 11/28/2010 7:13:12 PM

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Greetings Detrix:

In reading this thread, it appears you tend to vacillate in regards when others disagree with a position you might hold. I agree, it is a good trait to acknowledge an error committed, either overly or otherwise.

However, I do not agree to repeatedly shift from a position on a subject to gain approval of others. I question why you choose to apologize to total strangers who simply have a different perspective AND cannot at all know who you and your wife/slave are as human beings NOR can anyone deem what is best for your personal needs or preferences etc., etc..

I do not pretend to know what is best for you and your Household. I have a willingness to share what works for my Household, yet I know what works for one man does not necessarily work for the next man.

Further, I do not have the right to intrude into your personal matters. I realize you asked for input from others, which rightfully is your decision to make. I simply differ with your choice to act out an ongoing pattern of excessively apologizing for what I clearly believe is altogether unnecessary.

You are the Husband and Master of your wife/slave, no other is! I encourage you to proceed forthwith to accomplish what you deem right and the highest best for you and your Household. If you decide to never meet prior to claiming whatever with whomever or whatever you decide to act upon, then so be it! I need no apology. I am not nor is anyone else the Master of you nor your Household, you are!

I say, govern yourself and your Household as you know and only you know and deem to be for the highest best for all included within your Household. At the same time endeavor to aim toward never forgetting that only you can decide what is the way to forge forth on your pathway to all that you desire as is related to that which is best for yours and yours alone, aye!

Blessings to you and your Household.

Take care!

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