Arturas
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel Okay, i wasn't going to post this but i can't stand it anymore: Arturas, Take this as you want but seriously, you come off like a woman who lives best as a slave. To me, it comes down to two things with regard to who is posting, either star is posting as you or you are. But the way you post, you post like a woman does when she challenges men and gain their attention because she wants to be a challenge for them. Which is why i and others think star is the one who actually posts. You see Arturas, many times most women who need to be slaves aren't exactly cooperative in their slavery. They like to challenge the men who would be their masters. They like to obtain their attention and toss their head with a silent -- prove it -- look. Prove you can be my Master. Now this isn't done with everyone and you don't do it with everyone. They however, do set their sights on certain men they react too. They will challenge these men, sometimes with their wit, sometimes negatively with passive-aggressive insults or induendos, sometimes with their sexuality, and they will interchange these approaches to get a reaction. Doesn't necessarily have to be the all out you are mine bitch reaction, but many times its the get the ball rolling reaction they need, the Man's attention. Your posts come across like the women i explained above Arturas. You are seeking the attention of Men and not to be insulting but you are doing it like women have done it for centuries. Now i know you and star are separate people, but if its not star posting for you on this forum all this time, then you come across like a woman. This is what has been nigging at me for a long time now. You seek the attention of men. The women you simply fob off with some insult, but the men, you engage, you flirt with them, you are passive-aggressive with them trying to gain more from them than what they are willing to give you. That to me is what women who need to be slaves do. They want more from men, and they utilize many different aspects of themselves to match those men they need. You don't have to agree with me, in fact, i didn't post this for any commentary, but i wanted you aware of it. Perhaps you need to stop and take a look at it, but i doubt you will. But that's what has turned my stomache with me as i watch you post over and over, because you are a man who is seeking the attention of men as women who need to be slaves at times do. Now your side kick is back with you and once again you both have turned this into a circus. Seriously, you did the same damn thing last year, give it up already. You seem very desperate to pit yourself against men, as i said above, there are two options with regard to posting -- either star is posting as you or you are posting. The movtives however behind the posts dont seem to change much -- you seem you have something to challenge men here with and you seek their attention. I don't get why. Are you that insecure in your life, are you really this sad you need to come on a mesasage board and challenge men to what Arturas? What exactly do you want from these Men because no, its not discussion you want, it's not commeraderie even of men, its damn straight not debate because all you do is speak of yourself and star as if people really care. The way you post just has me wondering what you really seek from these men, its almost like you are gleeful when you gain their attention. angel Greetings, Who did I challenge and how? Specifics, no waving of the arms and no using my reply to some fool who flamed me. Let's try and be fair. Yes. Really, after all, I am the OP. Angel, I am puzzled by this question: You ask me what exactly I want from these men. My honest response must be: I never "wanted anything from these men" as you put it. I've not made any statement addressing them, only those in reply. "These men" can participate in the thread or not as they please, I care not. The reactions here including your own suggest fear of the stranger, fear of new ideas, fear of new interpretations and fear of the unknown. This is understandable but the depth of that reaction is not. It is simply flaming attacks rather than debate and we both know it so don't give that activity some noble attribute that we all know it does not have. As for asking for something or being insecure, what would lead you to go in that direction? I would suppose being insecure would lead someone to lurk and not participate yet we all know I don't do that even though many of "the Men", actually 3 or so only, wish I would. I also would suppose being insecure would lead "These Men" to attack rather than debate as we have with nobel intent. So, you really should see what is obvious, I fear nothing here or ask for anything except a humble place to start a single thread (and the most active, I must suggest, about damn time, sheesh what a dead place.) and come in contact with those who might share or at least want to debate these views. In that we have been successful. Was this too much to ask? No matter, I will not ask even if I wanted to at this point. I will take. Along that line, we encourage more CMAIL from any who might want to converse with a real time Gorean House directly without being treated as a "stranger". We also are doing a Gathering this summer locally in the Southeast, it will be fun and we do encourage BDSM "distractions" on purpose, because we found them in the Sagas and hell, we like them. "Players of Gor" suggests again that a woman's sexual pleasure is sometimes increased by the application of terror which, in my role as a Leather Dom as well as a Gorean Master, I certify this is the objective of most BDSM activities. Players says "Terror mixing with the other feelings of the female, can be a powerful stimulant to PASSION" (my caps as we all know my feelings on Gorean passion). The Gathering theme is "Gorean Passion". It will be inside, I'm renting a nice place I've talked about in the past. All may write this account for the location and time. Well wishes and Live very well, Arthur.
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