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RE: Owned by two Doms - 3/15/2011 3:46:34 PM

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... because we all know how guys are.

Oh? Go ahead and enlighten us. Tell us how guys are. Right after that, tell us your opinions on blacks and gays. And yeah, I find such statements bigoted and offensive whether or not you happen to be male.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 3/15/2011 3:58:00 PM

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Is it any more fun if they're both bisexual Doms?

Greetings,

Ooh, my luck doesn't get that good! But the idea of two men has its appeal somewhere in the recesses of my head.

Namaste,

~porcelaine

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 3/15/2011 11:29:50 PM

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Honestly, it wouldn't bother me... unless I caught the girl playing favorites. With my sense of honor (yeah, I have one) it wouldn't matter if *I* was the favorite, either - which can do more harm than good; as they say, god save an honest man from himself. I've been in similar situations enough to know this.

It would take a very unique girl to pull it off. If she's got what it takes to balance her life with two men in it, then I wouldn't turn her away. But I have low expectations of ever meeting one who could do the reality, and not the fantasy of it.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 3/16/2011 2:15:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: oceancurrent5

I think the dominant MfM relationship is the most common form of polyandry. This is often where men who are siblings marry the same woman. Though this may seem great for the female on surface, she is often in a worst situation than most monogamous or polygyny relationships, because unlike the women of the last two relationships (mf or mff+) there is one woman taking care of multiple men in a polyandry relationship, because we all know how guys are.

You think???? YOU THINK???!!!!! Listen pansy face, this load of drivel just shows you are incapable of rational thought. ....Your throway comment about we all know how guys are is offensive,, I'd just once to get people like you alone in a room and watch you crawl out after 10 minute\s of my special attention .. Furking grow up and try to think ere you scrawl your next post.... Try living in a poly homer, a well run poly home before you spew your shit from you pie hole next time..

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 3/16/2011 6:48:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

It would take a very unique girl to pull it off. If she's got what it takes to balance her life with two men in it, then I wouldn't turn her away. But I have low expectations of ever meeting one who could do the reality, and not the fantasy of it.

In this instance I believe the male quotient is paramount. You'd need to eliminate a desire to compete and place two complementary persons together that are rather opposite in their nature. But when combined they bring out the best in one another. Since they're the controlling element they'd need to have their act together to alleviate chaos. The woman will merely follow their lead. She just needs to be a willing vessel.

Namaste,

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 3/24/2011 4:29:51 PM

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Thanks so much for this discussion, i learned alot from it. Been having some trouble finding homes in my area.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 4/6/2011 1:25:26 AM

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i would think the whole scenario is a bit of a fantasy... maybe one might realise it if you are really lucky... or with extremely crafty planning...
two manage two men seems better done from the top than the bottom

i myself have been lucky enough to have been taken by two men, it was a chance encounter... oh it was ace, i still wank off to it on occasion

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 4/8/2011 4:03:33 PM

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We are a poly household with 2 Domme and as of currant have 1 sub. he spends most of his time waiting on the Domme that lives with him and the Domme that lives outside the home comes over once a week and does the sexual stuff with him and yes there are things that need to be worked on but not at this time. We are still working out the bugs.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 4/8/2011 4:40:07 PM

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i myself have been lucky enough to have been taken by two men, it was a chance encounter... oh it was ace, i still wank off to it on occasion

I had a dominant (but not Dom) FWB who liked to orchestrate us with an additional man, yum yum yum.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 4/9/2011 7:19:35 AM

ranja

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i don't know what a FWB (friend with balls?) is, but it sounds good

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 4/9/2011 8:38:56 AM

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Friend With Benefits. There's more of a relationship than FB - Fuck Buddy - but no boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/7/2011 12:57:33 PM

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Maybe a Dom and a switch or married couple that are both dominate. Two Doms? I agree with the others who answered. No matter how you look at it the more Dominates you ad, the more trouble. Each Dominate has there own rules. The chance of finding all compatible seems a long shot. Anyone that has this situation...is very fortunate.

Good Luck in your search
Mz Bree

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/9/2011 3:00:18 AM

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i have a Mistress and She is married to a Dom but i am only owned by my Mistress. She dosent share well. now i am also married to my vannila wife she is fully aware of it and gives consent.

What do you mean with she doesn't share well?

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/10/2011 3:10:29 PM

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I too am curious about this topic. I have been owned and married to MH 10+ yrs. He has had his other girl for almost 4 yrs now. With his permission i am looking at serving Another Master, in addition to my service with him. However the other Master will not be under the same roof, any more than MHs other girl lives under our roof. While she does visit and we do 'family' things together on occasion like holidays/ dinners and the like- we have separate abodes.

I know a few poly families where There is a M/s/s under the same roof...and it works well. But i have not statistically seen where a M/M/s works.

Not sure that i am even making sense as i have a killer headache today. :S

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/10/2011 3:14:39 PM

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Also wanted to add, that i dont think it is fair to say that Two Guys or Two Dominants CAN'T co-habit without taking each other's heads off. Thats like saying women can not live under the same roof, because they are territorial and jealous.

Granted that might be true for SOME people- male or female; but i dont think it is based on gender. Its based upon the person's involved.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/10/2011 3:20:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: ranja

quote:

ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

i have a Mistress and She is married to a Dom but i am only owned by my Mistress. She dosent share well. now i am also married to my vannila wife she is fully aware of it and gives consent.

What do you mean with she doesn't share well?

It means we don't share power. MP has no authority over clip and there is no D/s dynamic between the two of them. There is no service, no submission given to MP. Nothing over and above would My husband also like something to drink while clip is up fetching Mine.

We've had people who have wanted to join the household if both MP and Myself would be Dominant over them. I have reason to believe it wouldn't work well in our home, so I refuse to participate. I wrote a thread to the effect quite some time ago.

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/13/2011 7:28:04 AM

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I'm in two D/s relationships. At school, I live with one D. And, when I come home, I submit to another. They know each other and while it is not a overly friendly relationship it is cordial. Terri

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RE: Owned by two Doms - 5/13/2011 12:00:49 PM

WestBaySlave

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I don't know how many straight or bi male dominants are into this, but I have known dozens, literally dozens of gay male dominant couples seeking a submissive third. Not being poly I've never been involved with any of them, but I know for certain there are many out there either living it or wanting to!

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