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cuckold exploration - 1/23/2011 10:12:05 PM

Kriss40

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Hello all. My preference is a local woman in the CO area ,reality is I would like to talk to any with experince or are curious about this lifestyle

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RE: cuckold exploration - 1/24/2011 4:39:24 AM

0ldhen

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Are you asking for info or running a personals ad here?

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RE: cuckold exploration - 2/5/2011 7:34:14 PM

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I've been involved as a 'Bull' or 'Boyfriend' in the Cuckold scene for a couple of decades. Mostly long term relationships, with just about every type of couple there is.

Questions? I'd be glad to help.

-----Hey, what's with the vanilla? I am anything but...

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RE: cuckold exploration - 2/6/2011 5:57:53 AM

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Good Luck in finding what you seek. Seems you already have someone who has been in the scene for a few decades able to help answer your questions. Hopefully by the time this thread is done for you, you will get to hear from a few other sides as well. An congratulations on your first forum post.

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RE: cuckold exploration - 3/1/2011 6:09:08 PM

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I LOVE IT.... tell Me is this your hair colour or just a wig? I have for years abused My hair no end to all intents and purposes cater for My whims... if this isn't your real hair I WANT ONE!!! lol. Did Messr Well Hung answer all your questions or do you have something specific you'd like to ask? I have been in the lifestyle for over 30 years now... sheesh, doesn't seem that long at all... ahem... okay, any questions you just fire away at this little Aussie and I shall be straight up wiv you!

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RE: cuckold exploration - 3/21/2011 11:00:35 AM

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Oh hai <3

I'm hijacking this thread, sorry 'bout that.

I always believed myself to be openminded etc. But one thing I don't get, I've come across a few of these ads: what is the whole thing with women looking for inadequate sexually preforming play-partners? Am I missing something here? Please help me understand this whole cuckold thing.

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RE: cuckold exploration - 3/22/2011 12:58:02 AM

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There was a really good piece written here once awhile back that was enlightening. You might want to do a search (upper right hand corner)...

as for the vanilla - after (25?) posts, it changes.

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RE: cuckold exploration - 3/22/2011 5:48:25 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kriss40

Hello all. My preference is a local woman in the CO area ,reality is I would like to talk to any with experince or are curious about this lifestyle

Greetings,

The subject doesn't come up as frequently on here. But there are tons of groups on Fetlife that you may wish to explore. It's well represented on the site. Oh and I must concur. The hair is fabu. You're rocking the pink!

Namaste,

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RE: cuckold exploration - 3/22/2011 5:59:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: avelsdjur

Oh hai <3

I'm hijacking this thread, sorry 'bout that.

I always believed myself to be openminded etc. But one thing I don't get, I've come across a few of these ads: what is the whole thing with women looking for inadequate sexually preforming play-partners? Am I missing something here? Please help me understand this whole cuckold thing.

Yeah, you're missing a lot. I know this was started as something of a trolling thread, but the question is worthwhile.

Nobody said that inadequate sexual performance is a requirement for a person being a cuck. It can be, but it's not a necessary element. It can have more to do with emotional sadism, denial, tapping into service aspects, or just plain teaching somebody that their sexual desires aren't the ones that are prevalent in the relationship. Some people just get off on the voyeurism aspect, fluffing, and clean up duties. Others just plain like a dynamic where the theme is that the woman is going to have sex with whomever she wants to, whether the submissive likes it or not.

It's really hard to help somebody 'get' the whole concept of a kink that they don't enjoy. However, just because you don't understand why other people enjoy something isn't really a good reason for you to roll your eyes at it.

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RE: cuckold exploration - 4/4/2011 5:59:25 AM

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Beautiful hair!

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