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protocol - 2/21/2011 2:35:50 PM

babygirlpunkin

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am a submissive in a relationship with a DOMINATE that has a wife,,a lover a slave and then me. after being T/together for over a year...HE informs me i am to follow protocol in regards to asking before i please HIM. HE has never required me to follow protocol before..HE has told me HE loves my spontenity. i am totallyconfused at this point. need some advice please.

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RE: protocol - 2/21/2011 2:38:06 PM

mnottertail

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at 55, just ask then. don't got to be no why, dont gotta be confusing.

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RE: protocol - 2/21/2011 2:38:41 PM

LaTigresse

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Just because this is bugging me.

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Advise............. Tell him what you've told us and ask him the W's.

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RE: protocol - 2/21/2011 3:18:41 PM

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Not much to be confused about. (Other than those items that LaT was good enough to fix for you.) He's implementing a new rule. If you are the submissive, it's your job to submit to that rule and take on the practice of asking before pleasing him. Simple really.

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RE: protocol - 3/23/2011 11:24:33 PM

BellaShiavo

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Do as you are told, if he has begun a new course of behavior or protocols do not question, rather do your utmost to please Him (when He says jump, do not waste time asking how high, just jump as high and best as you are able) As for your confusion and what seems is a sudden bout of insecurity, calmly and respectfully take your concerns to him, remembering that you gave your life and welbeing to Him, you also have a responsibility to ensure He knows what is going on with His property.

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