0ldhen -> RE: Primal Power Exchange (2/25/2011 6:15:49 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep i agree there is a difference for me, too. dominance isn't about playing well; the two can totally exist together, but they are not one and the same. when that's not what you're using as your litmus test, it seems like people don't understand that, either. "isn't he awesome! he's been playing for 10 years and knows all about toys!" okay, that's cool, but where's the part of him that wants to possess? where's the part that wants to take every inch of me and make it his? Again, Thank You my sweet little sheperdess, right on the money. Some never can see/tell the difference between a top and a D, but it is usually apparent to me. Not, by any means, saying one is better than the other, just different. I can live totally without play in a relationship as long as that sense of power is coming off my partner.
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