IronBear
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Joined: 6/19/2005 From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia Status: offline
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Interestingly enough; Both my two previous marriages were to single women with children. My 2nd wife, the first with a toddler and two grown children, went well with no dramas from my view.. Untill that is, the marriage started to unravel and she played the child against me. She'd even encourage her eldest son to act against me until he and I talked about it. Suffice it to say thatb the firstv three years were like a Hollywood marriage and the last 14 years .. 'Nam was safer and more peaceful When we married she already had a live in bisexual submissive so all was good on that side. Why stay that long/ Money.. We have a disgustingly large income between us. beside which I was overseas for up to 9 months of the year. However I did learn a lot and what I learned formed the positive base for Bruin Cottage. Without the experiences (mostly negative) from both those marriages, I would not have had the knowledge or practice to establist the basis of a poly home. Neets and I discuss everything and when there is a slave in residence, all discussions regarding adding others is run past the slave as well with her responces, worries and all else are taken into account.
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Iron Bear Master of Bruin Cottage http://www.bruincottage.org Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur. D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.
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