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SylvereApLeanan -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/7/2011 7:04:42 PM)

Rent must be late this month.
 
On-topic, it depends on the type of scene we're doing, how tall my partner is and how much s/he weighs.  I'm 5'3" and I weigh 122 lbs. give or take a couple of pounds.  If the person is close to my height/weight, I'll do OTK if it's appropriate to the scene (e.g. school girl/strict teacher).  Otherwise, I'll have him/her bend over my coffee table, which is about the same height as a spanking bench, or lay flat on the bed.




Jennislut -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/7/2011 10:12:30 PM)

quote:

I'll be damned if I'll get a sex change operation


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YSG -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/8/2011 4:35:01 AM)

Right, is this still a discussion, or just a complete fuckfest?

Anyway, I personally prefer a bed or bench when being spanked, simply due to my back issues. On the occasions that I top, I prefer to use my lap.




hausboy -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/9/2011 6:06:43 PM)

I love OTK when it's someone I know and trust well.  Otherwise, bench or horse works well and gives a more formal distance.

I haven't used any of the fancier spanking benches--I've been eyeing up a lot of the blueprints however....




SexyBossyBBW -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/10/2011 12:00:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas
OTK for the closeness and intimacy it affords of having the sub's penis between my thighs while I am spanking him.
This, is My personal favorite. 
<<< *memories* [:D]   M




SensualDomme75 -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/10/2011 3:47:30 AM)

Both!

Neither is particularly better, really. I like the bent over position (not OTK) when I am doling out a real punishment for breaking a rule or doing something that displeased me. I do not want him to have the added enjoyment of rubbing up against me, feeling my body against him or feeling me as I raise my hand and therefore bracing himself.

I prefer OTK when it is a spanking just for the sake of spanking him. In that case, I want to feel him get hard. I want to be able to tease him by grabbing his balls and yanking them or surprising him with a finger.

Mmm.... I'm so in the mood to give a spanking now!




spankmattward34 -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/1/2013 1:32:11 AM)

im 22 never been spanked and noticed u live in sata clarita, ca and i would love to get spanked by u i ship out for the army in 17 days and want to get my first spanking ever before i go can u please spank me miss u can take pic or video tape if u want it doesnt bother me please email me at [mod edit to remove contact info]




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/1/2013 1:57:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: spankmattward34

im 22 never been spanked and noticed u live in sata clarita, ca and i would love to get spanked by u i ship out for the army in 17 days and want to get my first spanking ever before i go can u please spank me miss u can take pic or video tape if u want it doesnt bother me please email me at[mod edit to remove contact info]


Matt, honeybunches, you've copied and pasted this exact message on to several threads now. Not only are the people you are replying to not in fact from CA, but some of them haven't even been on the boards for years. Also, we can all see all of the boards and sending the same message to everyone makes you look desperate.

This is not a good strategy. Search the profiles on the other side and contact people who interest you and are local - actually read their profile and speak to them like human beings, using your very best typing.

Two weeks isn't very long to build up a relationship and since it seems all you want is a spanking, you'd probably be best contacting a local professional domme if you want it done before you leave.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/1/2013 2:38:20 AM)

My favorite is as you describe, over my knees/thighs, and lots of it. It's intimate, but I don't do casual anyway. M




DarkSteven -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/1/2013 3:41:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Matt, honeybunches, you've copied and pasted this exact message on to several threads now. Not only are the people you are replying to not in fact from CA, but some of them haven't even been on the boards for years. Also, we can all see all of the boards and sending the same message to everyone makes you look desperate.



Not only that, but DommeKeliDallas doesn't need her rent any more, since she left.




VideoAdminChi -> RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? (3/1/2013 12:44:21 PM)

Please do not post on threads on which the last post is more than three months old.




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