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OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 8:29:36 AM   
DommeKeliDallas


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I like both.
OTK for the closeness and intimacy it affords of having the sub's penis between my thighs while I am spanking him.

Over the bed is better for crops and paddles so that you can administer a harder spanking.

I was wondering which spankings the other Dommes liked, or if you have a perference.
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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 9:23:03 AM   
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Not being a Domme ( I leave that to Neets) because I have a penis......   I prefer a bench set up where the breasts are allowed to hang free (all the better for teasing or fondling unless i have attached the dreaded clothes pegs of nipple clamps with a selection of my fishing sinkers to the clamps..  and the legs spread wide, all the better for rear penetration (both holes) or fisting and to check manually the wetness a spanking, caning or cropping has induced.......


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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:12:14 AM   
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I'm sorry you can't read.
This was for DOMMES.

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:13:20 AM   
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Then why post this asswipe in general forums?

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:26:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I'm sorry you can't read.
This was for DOMMES.



As was pointed out, you did post this it in "General Discussion".

However, the forums are open for everyone to enjoy and everyone to read, and post on.
Instead of having a tantrum because once again, someone answered a question you chose to post, you could instead just enjoy all the discussion that is likely to result from it.

I don't understand what the big deal is: is the mental picture of what a male Dom might do to his lovely, traumatizing to you in some way?

I love the question and look forward to reading the answers.

aJ-
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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:26:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I'm sorry you can't read.
This was for DOMMES.


You evidently can't read either oh foolish one. You've been here for 3 years and you don't know yet that anyone can post wherever they like? Really? Even if this was posted (correctly) in the Domme section, whoever feels like posting on it can do it. Please save the hissy fit for a time when you might actually be right- I don't gather that must happen too often.

lizi, not a Domme

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:34:07 AM   
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A question for the dominant women, is still an open discussion for anyone that would like to post.

Now that is cleared up, carry on.

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:39:25 AM   
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I dunno why you called a bent-over position "over the bed". Lots of other things to be bent over.

Aside from that, I pretty much agree. Otk is more intimate and close, while bent over allows for more thwack. And floggers really aren't that usable otk.

Edited to add: I'm not a Domme either, and I'll be damned if I'll get a sex change operation just so I can post in this thread.

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 3/7/2011 11:43:39 AM >


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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 11:41:29 AM   
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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 12:20:58 PM   
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Still waiting for the errant Domme to be adult enough to apologize

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 12:24:10 PM   
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quote:

Still waiting for the errant Domme to be adult enough to apologize


Ya, but then I'd feel guilty for being snarky. Nothing ruins a good snark like an apology.



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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 12:25:49 PM   
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Well, I'm not the person who made the error, but I'll apologize anyway.  There are more than enough female Dominants on this forum who aren't threatened in some way by other folks posting in this section.  As far as I'm concerned, the comments are welcome any time no matter a person's gender or role.

So as not to hijack the thread, I actually don't do that much over the knee unless it's with clip because it is a bit more intimate to Me.  Casual play, I'm more likely to use the spanking bench or the cross.


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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 2:41:16 PM   
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Dang it, Lady Pact, we had a perfect record going, and then you ruined it by having an actual Domme reply!

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 2:50:17 PM   
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DommeKeliDallas,

quote:

I like both.  OTK for the closeness and intimacy it affords of having the sub's penis between my thighs while I am spanking him.  Over the bed is better for crops and paddles so that you can administer a harder spanking.


I'm not a domme (or a dominant), but I've topped quite a bit.  You pretty much described my preferences already.  When I want access to someone's body in a personal way, I prefer OTK or a position that puts the receiver in contact with my own body.  Also, I position the person so I have access to... well... the parts I want access to!  If I'm more in the mood for target practice or for administering sensations that are better created with a cane, paddle, or flogger, then I prefer having the person laying, mounted, suspended, etc. in such a way that I know they are safe and that provides "working room".  Both kinds of play may be mixed in the same scene and sometimes, when I'm in a sadistic mood, I remember favorites... like small, rubber keychain floggers that look harmless, but are very effective at close range on certain body areas (such as breasts and inner thighs, or, if I'm feeling extremely nasty, the upper area of the buttocks below the lower back).

Side note 1:  The upper buttock area cannot be hit hard as this is an unprotected, non-fleshy part of the body that can be easily damaged, but a little bit of sting here goes a long way.  Little effort.  Big return.  Me like.  Also, many people do not like this particular sensation (I'm one of them) so this is one of those "use carefully and sparingly for shock value" areas.  Indeed, many people consider it an error to target this part of the body.  For me, it falls under R.A.C.K. and under using appropriate care for the type of play and for the area of the body being targeted/stimulated.  No, I'm not going to suggest aiming for the kidneys next!

Side note 2:  Yes, this thread has been moved to the "Ask a Mistress" forum and it's a tad odd for a submissive to answer from the angle I have.  Such is my mood today. :-)

Elan.

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 2:57:17 PM   
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DarkSteven,

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Dang it, Lady Pact, we had a perfect record going, and then you ruined it by having an actual Domme reply!


It's okay.  I put some "funk" back in the groove.

E.

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 3:04:08 PM   
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It depends on my mood and what I am wanting to accomplish.

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 3:44:28 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I like both.
OTK for the closeness and intimacy it affords of having the sub's penis between my thighs while I am spanking him.

Over the bed is better for crops and paddles so that you can administer a harder spanking.

I was wondering which spankings the other Dommes liked, or if you have a perference.


I'm not remotely interested in your question and can't be bothered to answer it, DKD, but may I take this opportunity to compliment you on your handsome tumblers?

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 4:00:13 PM   
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I dunno if I count as a Domme since I identify as a female Master. I like spankings everywhere. :)

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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 6:50:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

I'm sorry you can't read.
This was for DOMMES.


Wow, for a minute there I thought you were going to start a thread and then act like an adult and have a discussion with the people here. Silly me.


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RE: OTK or Over the Bed Spankings...? - 3/7/2011 6:55:38 PM   
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quote:

Casual play, I'm more likely to use the spanking bench or the cross.

Don't I know it!!!




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