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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/12/2011 7:37:12 PM

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, this only applies if you can't swan about with a yoiung nubile thing in tow with class and style .... Damn where is Porcelaine and her french when it is needed.. . Got to have style mate and become a stylish,eccentric old fart.. Society madams will all but throw their virginal daughters at you if they fondly think you are old money..

I don't know about that...my daughters friends like it when I escort them somewhere after dark because all the creepers assume they've already been picked up by one of their brethren and leave them alone.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/13/2011 4:16:04 AM

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G'day CP mate, i agree but it is not a mind set when based on physical evidence from personal experiences.. I simply know the age groups i am most comfy with and one advantage of a younger wife is that people can relate to her as well so this effectively reduces the age limiters or gap for some too....

That's interesting. Though I don't understand how it would reduce a limiter for some since it doesn't change the difference. Maybe you can expound? I've seen a similar idea posited from the poly side but people usually disparage that. Perhaps you can illustrate the same in a positive light.

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Damn where is Porcelaine and her french when it is needed.. . Got to have style mate and become a stylish,eccentric old fart.. Society madams will all but throw their virginal daughters at you if they fondly think you are old money..

*chuckles*

I'd verify that four generations of continuous wealth have been maintained. For a fee of course.

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Shall attempt to expound in a rational manner and desist my meanderings..

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G'day CP mate, i agree but it is not a mind set when based on physical evidence from personal experiences.. I simply know the age groups i am most comfy with and one advantage of a younger wife is that people can relate to her as well so this effectively reduces the age limiters or gap for some too....

I'm not just looking at the “Dating Game” as part of the Kink side of life, but also as a good business tactic. Neets, being herself, is a people person and as such attracts a large number of folk as “friends” in the course of her work and times spend in the local shopping centres.. Many of these are in the 30' age bracket as well as both older and younger. These then are natural “targets” for me to want to run business past (Customers or Associates), On my own (I seem to be seen as a scary person to many at first meeting), it would be much harder to expect some young thing to accompany be to the business centre to view “sparklies” (jewellery) or “Smellies” (Perfumes and cosmetics etc. then have coffee with me whilst I talk business and explain how things work etc. If Neets is with me she gives a greater sense of safety and acceptability socially from the wowser population..

Taking this into the world of kink, I have found that even the knowledge of Neets being there in the homer and given her age, more kink oriented ladies of the 35+ age group are likely to contact us via email or want ever to make enquiries. We always both attend primary meetings for coffee together which again allows the prospect to meet us as a team and not individually, even though Neets may wander off shopping with the prospect in tow if they hit it off. The age limiters I refer to in my post, are those which local society appear to impose on us. There are more then enough busy bodies who have nothing better to do than (were I alone having coffee with some young thing) interfere and tell the prospect that they should be with young men their age and then reprove me for being a Dirty Old Man .. (This has happened a number of time when Neets and I have been coffeeing and holding hands)..

Apologies if this has been too rambling but I needed to use my personal experiences.

Generations of old money maintained and indeed grown is easy to verify if I were to access you to the right people and documents. Your fee would be tax deductible so no issue there. I have copies and proofs of the other social aspects like British and European titles and civil awards etc for State Occasions. So no big deal there too.. I really must access a French phrase book as I have Latin Quotes for fun (never having studied French )

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/13/2011 4:49:03 AM

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Not only do I disagree, but I think "Au Contraire."
It's my experience that MANY young girls (Especially in the, ohhhh, 18-22 range) are often kinda inexperienced about sex, play games about/around it (and not good ones!),don't know what they like or not, have all sorts of hang ups and "I don't knows" and often just ain't so good at sex.... while an older woman is just like, "Yep, this is what I like, this is what I need, Got a tiger in your tank, Darling? Let's go..." sorta thing.

Kana,

Now where did the cute kitty go? Perhaps your right re the youngsters in the current day, it has been eons since I interacted with one.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/13/2011 12:28:14 PM

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Apologies if this has been too rambling but I needed to use my personal experiences.

No apology necessary. Thank you for expounding. I always allow for shades of gray whenever possible. I think those that are willing to engage with you both probably don't have certain limitations that would prohibit the interaction. If they did, it's unlikely that they'd entertain your company irregardless of her presence. So perhaps you're not as 'offensive' as you might presume. At least, not to the degree where a meeting is relatively unthinkable.

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Generations of old money maintained and indeed grown is easy to verify if I were to access you to the right people and documents.

I'm aware the information can be secured without the assistance of the individual being researched. :)

One of the constants I've noticed in my engagement with those having significant wealth is a refusal to address the subject. It is implied through their presence and understood through the benefits that it brings. The hallmarks of privilege are readily evident and their willingness to exploit them for gain is largely dependent on their personal makeup and the philosophies impressed through the family model. There was an open attempt by the younger set to present the topic and garner thought provoking discussion. The 'experiment' was aired on cable television and generated quite a stir within certain circles. Pressure was applied and numerous people requested to be removed. One unfortunate catalyst to the documentary was the immediate disinheritance of a young lady bearing the last name Buffett. Some traditions will never be set aside.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/13/2011 1:36:03 PM

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i say you're totally wrong... i'm a very sexy and attractive, over 50 submissive, and am more sensual now than i was when i was younger. i've had many requests to meet, and was very surprised that the younger ones don't take no for an answer and keep pursuing. because of this, i decided to meet one much younger Dom who is sexy and good looking beyond my hopes... unfortunately, because it was such a long trip for him to keep coming to see me, i decided to be with another equally exciting Dom who is nearby. he's also younger, and we're now living together..... and there's nothing i won't do to please him because all of our kinks totally turn me on, too. age is only a number... that's what they kept telling me, and now i believe it, too!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/14/2011 10:23:34 AM

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Which does translate to no one night stands, assuming that's what the op is really saying. That's true, I haven't gotten drunk and gone to bed with some guy and woken up thinking "What was I thinking" in over 30 years. If that's reserved, that's fine by me.

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Nope I was not refering to one night stands!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/14/2011 11:51:51 AM

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In my experiences the younger fems are more sexually adventursome while the over 40 ladies appear more reserved. This appears to apply within the D/s dynamic and outside of it.

What say you?

I can't speak for anyone outside my own relationships. What they do, how they behave, how adventurous they are, is of no concern to me.

However, being in the over 40 crowd, I can say that I perfer men older than I am. Mainly because they have a bit more to add to the 'what I have seen in my life' area, and the conversational arena.

Granted, I have met some men, younger than me, who can indeed hold their own in those areas with men older than them, but it's a rare occurance.

As for losing that edge of adventure after 40...well, can't speak for others but for me, I have always been a bit of a slut and a whore who was willing to try new and different things in the sexual arena...that has not changed. I like being surprised when I discover that something new is just as much fun as something old

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/14/2011 12:23:49 PM

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As a subbie I cannot take a younger Dom seriously....not that I am against them...but I love the experience and confidence that goes with an older Dom....I like 35+ When I was 18 I looked actively for 60+ but my Dom bf is 40 which is perfect! xx

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/14/2011 1:57:42 PM

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you know if things dont work out with your bf we could always introduce you to arpig

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/15/2011 1:57:32 AM

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All I know is once menopause hit... my libido when through the roof. It was always high, now it's made me a horny old broad.
the only way I'd be called "reserved" is in my choice of partners. My age range or older.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/15/2011 5:04:14 AM

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I'm 48, have always been sexually adventurous, since the age of just below 17. And I really didn't realize all I was missing until I turned 41 and discovered D/s. I'm more open now to try new things, I am a sensual/sexual creature and age is just a number to a point. I won't date anyone near my dad's age (he's 75) that creeps me out. And 20 yr olds? Yegads, I'm old enough to be their mother.

Mid 30's to mid 50's is about my age range in who I'd like to be with. I want someone I can relate to and have fun with. I'm still a kid at heart, I may have become an adult but I sure as hell haven't grown up. What's the fun in that?

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/15/2011 6:26:33 AM

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Not only do I disagree, but I think "Au Contraire."
It's my experience that MANY young girls (Especially in the, ohhhh, 18-22 range) are often kinda inexperienced about sex, play games about/around it (and not good ones!),don't know what they like or not, have all sorts of hang ups and "I don't knows" and often just ain't so good at sex.... while an older woman is just like, "Yep, this is what I like, this is what I need, Got a tiger in your tank, Darling? Let's go..." sorta thing.

Kana,

Now where did the cute kitty go? Perhaps your right re the youngsters in the current day, it has been eons since I interacted with one.

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As for the other comment, ahhhhhhhh, young girls, so easy on the eyes, so hard on the ears, the reason ball gags were invented :-)

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/15/2011 6:32:12 AM

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As for the other comment, ahhhhhhhh, young girls, so easy on the eyes, so hard on the ears, the reason ball gags were invented :-)

Amen brother Amen..

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/16/2011 3:03:44 AM

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this only applies if you can't swan about with a yoiung nubile thing in tow with class and style .... Damn where is Porcelaine and her french when it is needed.. . Got to have style mate and become a stylish,eccentric old fart.. Society madams will all but throw their virginal daughters at you if they fondly think you are old money

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/16/2011 9:54:36 PM

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At the age of 22, I suppose I am still lumped into those "young things." I have always preferred men who are older than me (although not in as extreme sense as some...I think 5-15 years is about perfect...anything older than that, and they are closer to my parents age than mine..yikes!).
My Sir is 27, which is perfect for me. Old enough that I feel I am in the presence of someone with more worldly experience, but still young enough that we can relate on a generational level.

Everyone has their own preference. My best friend, who is 23, is dating a man in his late 40s, and they are very happy together.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/18/2011 10:21:47 PM

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Generally mid 20's to late 30's - as they get older the probability of baggage goes up and I have no interest in dealing with someone's historical shit which is still dogging their life.

Plus I tend to find younger chicks dig older men and there's a tendency for them to like a guy who can teach them shit. Older chicks often seem to be too set in their ways.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/18/2011 10:33:07 PM

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What is it with some chicks? The thread poster specifically says we've heard so much about women and what they want and asks questions about the age preferences of Doms.

In response, a bunch of women start talking about themselves.

Now I ask you - is it just an ability to fucking pay attention or is it self-obsession? Apparently some women never consider the virtues of just shutting the fuck up.

I find it phenomenally amusing how almost any thread is turned into an opportunity for some women to talk about themselves and yet those same women become defensive when men express preferences which don't imply they're an object of desire. This defensiveness telegraphs their insecurity.

Oh, I forgot another reason in my previous post. By and large, younger chicks tend to be hotter.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/18/2011 10:41:47 PM

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Older chicks often seem to be too set in their ways.

Wow.
{I didn't realize the people who seem to be "most set in their ways" were older chicks. Good to know.}

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/18/2011 10:43:00 PM

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Oh, I forgot another reason in my previous post. By and large, younger chicks tend to be hotter.

Damn!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/18/2011 10:46:56 PM

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LOL.. in other words, he prefers things to be easy.

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