NiceGuyNihilist
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It's a question I've wanted to ask male Doms for quite some time, but I could never muster the guts. When you see a man allowing a woman to rule him, do you find yourself involuntarily shuddering in revulsion? Does the very concept of a submissive male fly against your ideals? Years ago, when I had just entered the scene, I found myself befriended by an experienced Dom who had just this attitude. He gave me to understand that he saw my switch status as a sort of intermediate stage on the way to better things. After I had been spanked by a woman at a play party, he later sent me a text message saying that once I had been doing kink a while, I would no longer "regress." I was piqued to say the least. Later, after we'd had a falling out (one that was entirely my fault, incidentally), he vented his anger by calling me a "substandard male" for letting a woman take me anally. If I remember right, he even went so far as to say or imply that a man who had ever let himself be anally penetrated for sex, especially by a woman, was by definition beyond redemption as an upright and respectable individual. (I can see his perspective without agreeing with it. Logically, if women are the inferior sex, and if it's a disgraceful thing for a man to be fucked, then it's more disgraceful for a man to be fucked by a woman than by a man because it implies willing surrender to a natural inferior.) I find myself wondering how often other Doms harbor feelings that are similar to his, if possibly less intense and uncompromising. Obviously, I wouldn't expect them to be forthcoming about such feelings at a party or a munch. So: do you have contempt for submissive males, and if so, why? I won't argue with you, however much I may disagree; for the purposes of this thread, I only want to see your point of view.
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