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The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 2:38:33 AM

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I have read the above titled book by Richard Dee and found it so powerful to TPE. The love of this man to his Black Queen and all that he endures for her amusement and affection is incredible. As a man that adores Women of Color I would love to live this life as a slave and property in this manner.
Has any Mistresses read this novel? And is it realistic to Femdom world?

RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 5:15:14 AM

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I am not a FemDom, not black, and have not read the book. That said, based on your description of it, I would say that it is as realistic as feathered pigs.

The lifestyle Dommes here are people first, women second, and Dommes third. In this instance, I would say they're black fourth.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 6:57:04 AM

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"Femdom world"

Sounds like a theme park!

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 7:00:14 AM

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"Femdom world"

Sounds like a theme park!

I shudder to think about what kind of rides they have at Femdom World.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 7:35:28 AM

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"Femdom world"

Sounds like a theme park!

I shudder to think about what kind of rides they have at Femdom World.

Coming in 2012, do you have what it takes to ride THE WANKER?!!

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 7:43:16 AM

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The "ball pit" is the one that worries me.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 7:50:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: Marc2b

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"Femdom world"

Sounds like a theme park!

I shudder to think about what kind of rides they have at Femdom World.

Coming in 2012, do you have what it takes to ride THE WANKER?!!

Now that could be one hell of a ride... but I don't ride wankers! I'd surely be losing my lunch in a waste can beside the ride.

You people are so wonderful! lol Thanks for the laughs!

OP, I haven't read the book and it's doubtful that I would because it isn't something that would have much importance to me other than some of what might be there, that might actually express something I would find pleasing. However, I personally don't view being pampered or being a queen as something very applicable to my life in the sense that the title suggests or I assume. I am a spotted domina, yes... one of those... I am speckled all over and so much that people often wish to connect the dots. It can be a fun little game being admired for my spots, but I want someone to see me beyond my spots and the day I marry a king... I can be a queen. Yet, have you ever heard of a speckled queen? I am doomed to my fate of the speckled domina... to being simply a speckled woman that wants to dominate one special man that loves me for all I am beyond my speckles.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 7:53:50 AM

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Actually there was... Other World Kingdom. It was sort of a Euro Disney for submissive males

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 7:54:51 AM

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If you can find a black lady who wants that kind of life,then I guess it would be your reality.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 8:33:05 AM

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The problem is, some people want relationships that focus on being Pampered, but most women would rather have Huggies and Luvs...

Honestly OP, your fantasay life can be fulfilling without shattering your reality one bit. The things i get off on when i'm alone, where factors such as gravity, Cary Grant being dead, and the fact that i have no place to park The Invisible Jet ...are pretty far from what i need to be fulfilled in an actual flesh and blood relationship. Unless you are unwilling to sparate the fantasy from the woman you may meet in the future, you should have no problem having your needs met, and if you approach her as a real woman with human capabilities....she may even be willing to give the pampering a try....

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/11/2011 8:36:47 AM

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Keb Mo' has a song Angelina that goes:

I've tried to love you with diamonds and pearls
But all that did was tear us apart
And I've tried to give you everything in the world
When all you wanted was my heart.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/14/2011 1:32:56 AM

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I shudder to think about what kind of rides they have at Femdom World.

I shudder to think how I'd be expected to perform, to fit in.

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The problem is, some people want relationships that focus on being Pampered, but most women would rather have Huggies and Luvs...

Hey Ironitulstahp, I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. Sure I want luvs, and some hugs... Some pampering would be lovely as well.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 2:56:49 AM

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Thank you for all your opinions. But I was looking more for the Ebony Doms to reply. It was a like minded question. The truth is I am owned by Black Queen V. She has a profile here. I am beaten raw during her sexual use of me. It hightens her TPE and orgasm release. She use me as toilet paper and am served breakfast in bed at her will. It really is an experience that sends us to DOM / slave space. Nothing is more intimate and personal than a relationship at this extreme

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 4:11:58 AM

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Thank you for all your opinions. But I was looking more for the Ebony Doms to reply. It was a like minded question. The truth is I am owned by Black Queen V. She has a profile here. I am beaten raw during her sexual use of me. It hightens her TPE and orgasm release. She use me as toilet paper and am served breakfast in bed at her will. It really is an experience that sends us to DOM / slave space. Nothing is more intimate and personal than a relationship at this extreme

Since I am not ebony, I guess my answer won't count anyway, but if you want only ebony dommes to reply (though you said doms, that would be males), starting the question with "Has ANYBODY read the book..."makes it a bit open to all of us (not to mention that this is a forum where really anybody can answer).

To be honest, after your opening paragraph, it sounds like this is a bit of wank fodder

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I have read the above titled book by Richard Dee and found it so powerful to TPE. The love of this man to his Black Queen and all that he endures for her amusement and affection is incredible. As a man that adores Women of Color I would love to live this life as a slave and property in this manner.
Has any Mistresses read this novel? And is it realistic to Femdom world?

You said you would love to live this life, then you come back and claim you live this life for real.... It makes me wonder how much your life can change within 8 days, especially since your profile claims you are actively looking...

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I am not here to waste anyone's time, including mine. I'm here to be enslaved. I am a pleasure and pampering upscale male. I excell in all domestics especially cooking. I am 5'11, 225lbs, swm, and buff. My personality is not of a sissy. The world sees me as strong and assertive. But to my owner I am kneeling. Awaiting my training and obeying Her every desire. This relationship is all about you. You will find me to be highly skilled, funny, intelligent, very creative and as strong as I am, Obedient!

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Women

Switch Women

Femdom Couples

It all doesn't really go together... Unless of course you found the perfect Ebony Domme within 8 days, moved in with her and established such an intense relationship in such a short period of time and forgot to update your profile. If so, you can sell the secret to your success to all the other guys who are still looking...

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 4:45:39 AM

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Yea...tap tap tap...

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 4:57:17 AM

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Yea...tap tap tap...

Well, since you are taken, you don't need to buy the "secret of success on CM"

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 7:10:15 AM

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I am an "Ebony Domme." (Why do I feel the need to shower after saying that word?) - Oh yes- oversexualized stereotypes of black women. Most importantly I am a woman. I have not read the book but based on the reviews of people (men) who loved it I would say that it probably is not a realistic way any black woman would want to live out her life with a sub/slave. One of the reviews said that the main character was a single mother whose MOTHER was raising her child...... how convenient. Get rid of the child so the mother could get her pampered freak on with her white male slave while having no responsibilities to the child she gave birth too. GREAT IMAGE FOR BLACK WOMEN.

Another review says "In page after page she invents ways to extract his services and insure that she is royally pampered from morning to night." Are you kidding??? Women (black white and otherwise) Have REAL lives to attend to. We don't sit around all day trying to think up kiny ways to use a slave. Yes I have a slave, but the vast majority of my life is vanilla. One of the main reasons I chose my slave was because he was able to very easily fit into my vanilla life and adjust to my home, my schedule AND my child. While I love male slaves and actively seek out white male slaves, this oversexualized, overglamourized, self-indulgent, ball busting, larger than life image of the black woman as the "SUPER DOMME" is not honoring black women in any way.....in fact its just the opposite.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 7:14:59 AM

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If you go one the rides they are sure to strap on you in! It is for your own safety.

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/19/2011 6:39:07 PM

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Actually there was... Other World Kingdom. It was sort of a Euro Disney for submissive males

Guessing that was very popular until the neighbors figured out taking their wee ones there was a bad idea?

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RE: The Pampered Black Queen - 5/20/2011 5:42:11 AM

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I would say it is as realistic as feathered pigs.

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