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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 5/20/2011 4:32:40 PM   
imperatrixx


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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Most of society does not have an answer, especially when comparing physical and mental. In one case you have physical force/manipulation being used, and in the other you have mental force/manipulation being used. As is so often the case, human being put more emphasis on physical. What we need to ask ourselves is "Why?". We know that mental/emotional abuse last longer and often creates more issues than physical abuse by itself, so why do we treat it with a less degree of importance in issues such as these?


Most likely because there was still a choice involved, however uninformed. But you are right, we as a culture shouldn't be so blithely accepting of "pick up artists" and "players" who lie and manipulate to convince a woman to have sex. It's pathetic, really.

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So, human males will adapt procreation strategies, as the current society changes. This is nothing new, and is a biological drive within males. What changes is the methods, and what society finds acceptable behavior. In these cases "survival of the strong" depends upon adaptability (as proven in evolution theory), intelligence, and moral comformity.

Interesting discussion when we are actually speaking about the subject matter.


Sadly, this is true, and the children bear the weight of it. Children born to single mothers after a one night stand, where the father doesn't contribute a thing and is nowhere to be found, are already born at a disadvantage. Certainly not the same disadvantage as being born to a slave mother back in the day, but statistically speaking, children of single mothers are more likely to live in poverty, and have an upbringing that negatively impacts their future.

This is why I don't think that the uncontrolled urge to procreate is making our species stronger. Passing on your genes isn't the end of the line, it's just the beginning...your DNA doesn't do much good when your kid's living out of a car and hasn't even met his father, you know?

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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 5/21/2011 5:01:28 PM   
Rule


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She sees rape as power.

It is a reproductive activity.

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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 5/21/2011 5:19:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Koa
I just want to point out that it does not matter if your circumcised or not, neither one provides any more protection than the other. You are just as likely to get an STD either way. Have you, Rule, seen photos of STD’s on male and female genitalia? You will find both bacterial and viral diseases, inside the vagina, on the cervix and vaginal wall, as well as on the labia. On men you will find STD’s on the outside of the penis, on the shaft and testicles, and in both men and women inside the urinary tract. Bacteria that need warm damp conditions will find it very nice and cozy in the urinary tract, viruses will penetrate the skin where ever, regardless of the so called scar tissue around the base of the head (which is very soft and not at all ruff, that you might know if you were circumcised which I’m sure you’re not.), on the tip of the penis and where ever the penis comes into contact in the vagina, cervix or vaginal wall. The foreskin does not afford any more protection either since it is pulled back during intercourse; this to you might know if you actually had any, which I doubt. And you can forget about cleanliness, you can wash your genitalia five times a day and you will still find bacteria.

For the others out there that don't know, do not worry, the bacteria which is found on our skin is normal and is actually part of our, symbiotic relationship, immune system that helps protect us from more harmful bacteria. But that does not mean you should not wash, please do, just saying don't be a germaphobe, it does not need to be washed more than twice a day.   

P.S. We do not need to prove you wrong, you are the “scientist” here that is trying to convey, convince or prove to us your theory. We don’t care what you believe. You could say you’re Peter Pan and Never Never Land really does exist all you want, but you will never convince us until you can provide some kind of evidence to the contrary.

P.P.S. Good luck with that.

That is a good post, Koa. You are correct in that my hypothesis stands or falls with a circumcised penis providing some protection against sexually transmitted diseases or not. It has been argued that it does, but this is one of the facts that needs to be either verified or dis-proven by multiple research groups.

You are wrong in thinking or supposing that I try to convey, convince or prove anything. I have presented my reasoning and that's it. Convincing or proving and conveying is up to each individual himself.

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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 5/21/2011 5:21:36 PM   
Rule


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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf
In these cases "survival of the strong" depends upon adaptability (as proven in evolution theory), intelligence, and moral comformity.

Quite.

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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 5/21/2011 5:27:04 PM   
Rule


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ORIGINAL: imperatrixx
But you are right, we as a culture shouldn't be so blithely accepting of "pick up artists" and "players" who lie and manipulate to convince a woman to have sex. It's pathetic, really.

No, these males clearly are more successful than males that are not accepted by the female.

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ORIGINAL: imperatrixx
Sadly, this is true, and the children bear the weight of it. Children born to single mothers after a one night stand, where the father doesn't contribute a thing and is nowhere to be found, are already born at a disadvantage. Certainly not the same disadvantage as being born to a slave mother back in the day, but statistically speaking, children of single mothers are more likely to live in poverty, and have an upbringing that negatively impacts their future.

As long as the woman chooses, she will opt for the best available man, thereby improving the gene pool.

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ORIGINAL: imperatrixx
This is why I don't think that the uncontrolled urge to procreate is making our species stronger. Passing on your genes isn't the end of the line, it's just the beginning...

I agree. An uncontrolled urge to procreate is characteristic of food animals.

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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 6/24/2011 11:49:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

In current society, social skills are used more than any of our primal instincts. What of those that use deceptive methods to gain sex? Is this not a form of a breaking consent? What I mean is that many speak of consent as needing to be informed, but if someone is given misinformation, then it is seems that some of the rules of consent have been broken.


Indeed, this is legally considered rape where I live.

But only if done by a male. Go figure.

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Procreation strategies adapt to the environment, so while many years ago physically forced sex may have been more prevalent, it seems that it has been replaced with using charm, and deception to aquire sex. Why is this form of procreation strategy not spoken of as often?


For the same reason it's more interesting to blame pop culture for degenerating writing skills than to say "dang, the kids aren't rewriting their text enough times", which is the filtered feedback loop in the media. You can't tug people's heart strings with a headline about the changing targets for adaptive reproductive strategies in modern societies, or how that interacts with culture and media trends in a way that establishes large, short-term shifts that challenge the adaptive abilities of people on the low end of the ability-adaptation spectrum. So it's not an awareness-topic, and hence not an issue in the social "sciences" or related fields, and certainly not in the empty everyday conversations that serve as little more than Brownian motion of the meme-pool. Gah, can you tell I'm disgusted?

We're sidelining people, and it's having a backlash that was expected. What Rule is saying above, is that it will accelerate until we destroy ourselves by eliminating the genotype that keeps mankind from its default state of "abject poverty" (yes, that's a Heinlein). He just says it like that's a good thing, and with a defective understanding of the genes he's referencing (they are related to adversity-management and novelty-seeking, among many traits with subtle functions).

Norway is fucked up beyond belief if you're a non-socialist like myself. But there is a flip side to the coin. We have the largest set of longitudinal, whole-population statistical data on human behaviors and its genetic, relational and socioeconomic foundations, across a diverse range of subjects. For instance, studies on predisposing factors for criminal activities from the 77-81 cohort were able to clearly establish the lack of correlations that had long been assumed to exist, and the presence of correlations that have been buried too long. Similar findings are largely waiting for enough researchers to crunch the numbers, now that it's been opened up to study (much of the data runs back to WW2, some of it to WW1, and genealogies are being compiled for the post-viking era as a whole).

There is a lot of data dealing with human sexuality and crime there, and a lot of studies being shelved because of unpublishable findings (a very unfortunate trend in all "science" communities worldwide, these days; the truth has become democraticized and commercialized), but there are incidental data on it, and it corresponds well to the two cohort-studies done in Denmark on the prevalence, onset and repeat offense rate with regard to sex crimes.

As the strategies preferred by society become increasingly non-viable for a larger section of the population, the strategies employed polarize, and largely in a direction that is a matter of ability vs detectability vs tolerability. IOW, a larger segment of the populace turns to strategic equivalents of rape that they can get away with. Since we have selected for manipulation and other social skills for a long time, this means men now have more opportunities than before to act with intentions that don't benefit anyone in the long term. At least physical assault has implications for the baseline fitness of the offspring (and none as to the likelihood of the offspring doing crime unless rejected by the mother). Socialization doesn't help, because the trend outstrips adaptive function in the low ability segment, and also has significant problems with the matter of resocialization (e.g. prisons, gangs, institutions, rehab, schools, etc.) and desocialization (e.g. by rejection). It's tearing itself apart under the weight of patches sewn upon patches.

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We like to mention human advancement, but look at many of the under developed countries/regions, and some of the primal behavior being exhibited, that has been done for thousands of years. Look to even 1st world, and advanced nations during a time of natural disaster and lawlessness, humans often revert to basic primal drives. If these primal drives were eliminated, would the species be better for it, or worse? Many knee jerk reactions will say better, but remove a structured society that can impose behavioral restrictions, and what happens then?


I doubt that will be properly explored in the thread.

Nice to see you're still around, Orion. You read domestication theory recently? I found the rereads fascinating, and somewhat apropos.

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From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way.
We do.
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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 6/24/2011 1:21:21 PM   
Aswad


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ORIGINAL: Rule

No, these males clearly are more successful than males that are not accepted by the female.


Successful at getting laid. Which is not hard to begin with, nor particularly important.

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As long as the woman chooses, she will opt for the best available man, thereby improving the gene pool.


Do you have any shred of evidence to back up the notion that she will improve the gene pool?

Or, for that matter, a solid definition of "improvement" (context: gene pool) or "best" (context: men) ?

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I agree. An uncontrolled urge to procreate is characteristic of food animals.


Uncontrollable, not uncontrolled. Anyone can choose to decline to control an urge. That choice does not reflect poorly on their control. But being unable to exert control, i.e. unable to make the choice, is characteristic of impaired mental function. Which has nothing to do with a food animal, or indeed the hypothetical human-animal distinction. And most domesticable or social animals are not incapable of such a thing as regulating the expression of their urges. As a sideline, I would not consider consuming any animal of any species if that animal evidenced any form of mental dysfunction, so using that as a criterion for "food animal" strikes me as supremely disingenious.

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From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way.
We do.
" -- Rorschack, Watchmen.


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RE: Sex, Biology, Human and Animal Nature from Gorean p... - 11/7/2011 3:31:37 AM   
mons


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cherly

if your speaking of Gorean rape when you said ' it happen in the heat of the moment?  Could you please explain this
I had posted before my dear friend was raped!  Before i start to much a big todo about something could you explain your idlea on "heat of the moment"  Please

best wishes
Mons

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