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RE: Visiting a dominatrix for the first time - 6/19/2011 9:42:48 AM   
txurinal


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Make sure SHE knows this is your first time. It is perfectly natural to be nervous. Be up front and honest about what you are looking for, want you want, and what you do not want to happen. Try to be specific, SHE is not a mind reader. The first time with anyone, professional or not, will involve a bit of conversation. If you enjoy it and return again, both of you will learn what works for you.

Do NOT expect sex. This rarely happens in a professional situation.

Be respectful and polite although i would advise you to do this with anyone. There is no excuse for not behaving as a gentleman

Do not be afraid to use a safe word or stop if something is not "pleasurable".

Finally, have a good time. i have usually had very good luck with professionals as they usually know what they are doing, are safety minded, and it is a business. They want satified customers. i personally would love to hear how your first time goes afterward and again, i hope you enjoy yourself

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RE: Visiting a dominatrix for the first time - 6/20/2011 12:23:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Muttling

My first experience in this was also with a pro domme, it was about 20 years ago but I still remember it well and it was a very good experience for me.   It helped me to answer a lot of questions about myself and I'm glad I did it,



The same story applies to me as well.  You will only know what you like and dislike through experience.  Your first visit will provide a baseline to decide what you do and do not like.


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RE: Visiting a dominatrix for the first time - 6/20/2011 12:38:36 PM   
oldbabyface


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: ExquisiteStings
Lady Constanze,
I like how you word things.
ES



Is that a nice way of saying you don't mind a bit of bluntness?

Well, you do have a engaging way of blending mileage and candour.


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RE: Visiting a dominatrix for the first time - 6/21/2011 12:17:18 AM   
JamesHarvey711


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Thanks for all the replies and advice, really appreciated! I'll let you know how it goes! If anyone wants to know more about it feel free to pm me.

Thanks all

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