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Happy Poly Moments - 7/31/2011 1:02:18 PM

SylvereApLeanan

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Inspired by "In Our Heads" and other happy poly moments posts I've seen in various forums, I wanted to start an ongoing thread where anyone can post those moments that reaffirm that polyamory is right for you. These are the times when you just have to stop and say "wow, I'm so lucky to have my partners" or something similar. It doesn't have to be a monumental event, it can be as simple as the cozy night you just spent cuddling with all of your loves. Whatever it is, I hope you'll share.

To start it off, my happy poly moment is:

Today is my anniversary. My husband, Spyder, and I have been together for nine years. We've been poly for all of that time and our relationship is stronger for it.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 7/31/2011 7:44:23 PM

HannahLynHeather

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quote:

Today is my anniversary.

congratulations!! nine years is pretty fucking impressive these days. this is for the two of you.

my happy poly moment is about our housing problems. when faced with having to move, i had all 3 girls offering help and brainstorming ideas. it felt really fucking good, having them to fall back on, to have an instant support network, and their resources to tap into.

instead of being a major fucking hassle, its become an exciting opportunity, because one way or another we're going to all get a place together.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 7/31/2011 7:55:32 PM

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I'll add an old one.. a birthday quite awhile back... for several years, I used to get a cabin in the mountains for a few days and invite whoever to come whenever they can...

we had 8 that Saturday night, including everyone who belonged to me at the time -- I got to sleep in a lovely sandwich and they had put together the MOST amazing "story" of my life with puppets, a lighting director and my best friend narrating -- it was a wonderful weekend and the first, last and only time I had them all in the same bed.

It was a Madame sammy... and I was so proud of everyone for the way they got along.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/1/2011 9:20:01 PM

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quote:

those moments that reaffirm that polyamory is right for you

I had one today, nothing big, nothing profound, but truly one of those moments.

I came in from outside to find Hanners and Cheri in the kitchen kissing. Not making out, just gently kissing and whispering something to each other while they were putting lunch together. It made me so happy to see, not just hope, or think, or believe, or be told it, but to actually see with my own eyes two of the people I love having a quiet moment of tenderness together when they thought they were alone. One of my fondest dreams was coming true right in front of me.

I snuck back out and left them to their moment, and did a happy dance out on the lawn.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/2/2011 4:10:11 AM

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My last happy/sad poly moment....my old mans memorial service...when I made the funeral director set chairs in the front row for me, our other two current wives, 5 past part time wives, our kids, and his mother.......then made him read all our names as his spouses........

How beautiful for such a man to have been loved and served, honored by such a diverse group of women for over twenty years......

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/3/2011 7:50:52 PM

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Daddy, my sister and I all went out to a function for the first time as a poly family and it was wonderful. We all had a really good time, we were all accepted as a family, it was great, and we got pictures even. It just seems....so right.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/27/2011 7:47:42 PM

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Belated congrats!!
Lends hope!
"keep it up" nyuk nyuk
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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/27/2011 10:32:17 PM

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for me my favorite poly moment was when my wife went with me on her birthday to meet with my Mistress for a play session i was so happyA/all of U/us could be together

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/28/2011 1:39:32 AM

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There was a minor play accident. The girls were reinacting the Anakin-Vader light saber fight from SW:ESB with the lights out, as i got up to get some ice for a twisted ankle i came back to find them embracing eachother while the wounded sobed lightly. I had seem them together before, but not with this kind of affection. Was a very genuine moment, so often people are disingenuous and so when a moment like this comes along, I really cherrished it.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/30/2011 7:01:19 PM

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Mine is not in any way a happy moment, but is a "wow, I'm so lucky to have my partners" time. My friend Valerie Leblanc was murdered on Tuesday, I found out on Thursday evening. I called Heather around an hour later and told her about it. Within 1/2 an hour all three of them were at my side, and between the three of them I haven't been alone since until right now.

Without their constant unqualified love and quiet support, I don't know how I would have been able to get through this very difficult time. In the present circumstances it is very hard to think of myself as lucky, but I am ever so glad and grateful I have my partners right now. They don't make it alright, nothing can, but they do make it bearable.

Suze, your indefatigable cheerfulness is a balm to me, it is what I need. Please don't ever loose your love of silliness. I love you and your laugh so much.

Hannah Lynn, your quiet calm and strength and sensible words of wisdom are the rock to which I cling in this very stormy time. I love you so much.

Heather. I read your thread about not being able to do anything and you are so very, very wrong, your love and devotion above all else is what has sustained me through this, and will for the rest of the this process. You are simply the most beautiful soul I have ever encountered and I feel honoured to be your girl. Heather thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart for letting me love you, for I do love you more than anything else in the world.

Thank you all three of you, you are wonderful, and you are my strength and my world. I love you all so very much it sometimes feels like I will explode.

Thank you for being mine, thank you for letting me be yours, thank you for being you, thank you for being with me now, and thank you for just being.

Je vous aime avec tous que je suis, mon coeur, mon esprit, et mon âme appartiennent à vous trois, mes belles gentil sauveurs. Tous mes espoirs et mes rêves sont de nous quatre ensemble. Je t'aime chacune, merci pour tous que vous avait fait pour moi. Vraiment je vous aime.

I am proud and honoured and blessed to be Heather, Suze and Hannah's girl.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 8/31/2011 7:30:51 PM

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Waking up between my girls each morning is my happy moment. After that it just gets better!

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 9/1/2011 9:57:06 PM

HannahLynHeather

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quote:

I am proud and honoured and blessed to be Heather, Suze and Hannah's girl.

the honour is ours cherisse,

i love you

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 9/1/2011 10:00:01 PM

SuzeCheri

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I love you too C-Bum, I really do.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 9/1/2011 10:38:14 PM

HeatherMcLeather

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Like Hanners said, the honour is ours. We don't deserve you, thank YOU for letting us love you Cherisse.

I don't know if my spanish is correct, but there is a phrase i was taught when I was in 7th grade:

te quiero, te amo, te adoro

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 9/3/2011 4:30:54 PM

Endivius

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Penny has been offered an internship in Austin, and Brooke has been accepted to BC! Happy week indeed.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 9/4/2011 12:20:02 AM

HannahLynHeather

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congrats to your girls endi, great fucking news!!!

my happy moment is right now. i am in the "big bed' in our new home. i am reaching over suze to type - she's sound asleep. cheri is snuggled against my back not quite asleep while heather is snoring with her head on cheri's shoulder.

i am home. it's been 10 years since i could say that and really mean it

i am home!!

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 9/4/2011 12:48:30 AM

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Does anybody mind if I add just a silly one?

Just about a month ago, we went to a kinky camp out event. We had cabins for the dungeon areas and such. It was a wonderful weekend. Good times, good folks, good conversation.

Anyway, we had the dungeon set up on both Friday and Saturday nights. Like any three day event, Friday is a bit slower than Saturday. People rushing after work at the end of the week. Settling in. Relaxing and so on.

By Saturday, it was in full swing. During dinner, a few folks approached Me for the 'after hours' bit. I was glad to accept invitations. Plenty of fun to be had.

From the next table, I noticed a conversation about a bottom looking for a top. My ears perked up. Not that I hadn't noticed him before. I'd seen him glancing in My direction a time or two while dropping the random phrase. Hoping to find a top, was he? Well, now. Isn't that just My area?

Long story short, I broke his play cherry. Damn if he didn't surpass the expectations. Took a few toys that I wouldn't normally think were for a beginner's scene, but he did so in stride. I probably could have pushed him further, if we'd had more time to settle the particulars. Good, strong back on that one.

As all parties do, the time came to say goodnight. I had some help picking the toys up (as always) and then we headed back. I certainly wasn't feeling the cold. The light rain was cooling Me off after playing in the dungeon. Endorphins making Me just a bit happier than normal.

The thought occurred to Me, somewhere between one point to the other, that this was a good thing. Everything was falling in place. It might be an actual beginning.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 1/6/2012 4:52:23 PM

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I don't know how I got so lucky, but the two people I'm involved with now are the most wonderful people I've had in my life in a long time. Daddy's other girl and I are both new to being poly, although I am not totally new to the idea. He is experienced in this dynamic, and has been awesome in developing a truly wonderful relationship between the three of us.

We haven't been together very long, and today I got a really good idea of how absolutely amazing Daddy's other girl is. They live close enough together to be able to see each other. I am thousands of miles away and won't be able to see him until this Spring. Both of them are doing everything they can to make me feel as included as possible. With her being so completely new to this, I am so impressed, so very proud of her, so amazed at how willing she is and how hard she's trying to make me feel a part of what they have, that it's almost overwhelming. She is an incredible woman, so beautiful, so caring, so understanding, and when I think over the last two days my first thought is just.........wow. I have heard so many stories about how poly hasn't worked for so many, but this........this is how it works. I truly can't wait until we can all be together. They are both incredible people, and I am beyond thankful that I have not just one wonderful person to share my life with, but two.

OK, enough of me being all mushy. I just had to add my happy moment, and I am positive that there will be many more happy moments to follow.

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 1/6/2012 7:33:14 PM

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I really like the idea of this thread. It is true that we hear so many horror stories that one almost feels the need to "defend" our lifestyle.

I have to be brutally honest. I don't know how I could possibly rank all the happy moments I've had. I've always been of the belief that even relationships that end horribly had some good moments in them.

I will say, though, that the fact that I have two absolutely incredible ladies in my life and that they initially came to me (I wasn't looking, either time) blows my mind on a daily basis. I have no idea what good I may have done in life to have Fortuna smiling upon me but, I am glad for my up-bringing and my luck.

Peace and comfort,

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RE: Happy Poly Moments - 1/18/2012 2:28:39 AM

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My story is from about 3 years ago, back when my Mistres, my last Slavegirl and I were still together. We had missed Valentines Day because of my health, and the Kittens workload. But she arrived over to us the following weekend, and I decided to take them both out for dinner. Anyway we went to a local eatery run by a close aquaintance of my Mistress, but a Vanilla and not in the know about our situation person.

Anyway we're sitting there giggling our way through what was a delicious meal when the husband of Mistresses aquaintance pops up beside us with three free desserts for "You and your girlfriends." For a mono couple it would probably be such a small thing, but for the three of us to be acknowledged as a trouple by completely non-kink people was wonderful. It made our night.

Sometimes the sweetest poly moments come from the unquestioning acceptance of those on the outside.

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