RaspberryLemon
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I wouldn't say it's "all about sex" any more than ANY relationship is. Obviously, romantic and sexual connections/relationships are basically rooted to your sexuality, but at the same time it involves you as a person as a whole. But I don't think that's quite the question being asked here, so... No, I don't think it's all about sex. For me, anyway. I mean, no shit, I like being ordered around, tied up or worshiping his body with my tongue for hours until he is satisfied. But honestly? Mostly, the way the rest of our relationship works is much more important--or rather, the rest of it is the basis for all of this. I consider him my Master not just insidethe bedroom--it extends to all things, from having dinner, to going for a walk, to deciding what we're doing that day, to what movie we're going to watch, to if we're traveling across the country the next day, etc. I love him, and I like his leadership, guidance, and control in all aspects of my life, not just the sex. Heck, most of the time our actual sexual interaction is pretty "normal." So really, it's about the whole thing, the whole experience and the connection I hold with my partner--just like I would expect of any "normal" relationship, too.
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