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just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 12:15:08 PM   
stablecouple5910


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Status: offline 		we have just recently moved to montana, we have been on the site off and on for sometime, she is 19 and i am 34 she is very submissive. what we are looking for is another girl about her age maybe a bit older to join our family. we are running into the imaginary wall as usual what do we do, we have sent messages on this site and well nothing we have joined other sites we pay for and nothing...sheesh we are a decent looking coule wtf is the problem
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RE: just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 12:34:36 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		First of all....sentence structure might help. Second, you have a blank profile. How about writing about yourselves and what you offer and why someone who is bombarded by hundreds of couples just like you would want to bother being a third wheel. Third, you're hunting the mythological unicorn like hundreds of others on here and elsewhere plus because of the age differences between you and your slave you seem to look like a Hugh Hefner wannabe to many young women...just saying.




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RE: just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 12:52:30 PM   
stablecouple5910


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Status: offline 		We do understand that very much. Our old rofile had pics and it was filled out and all we really seemed to attract was men or peopl estealing pics. It cant be the unicorn that much. We do have a great personality and no i dont consider my self hugh at all, tho i can see how that would come arcoss. if you get into the older generation most have kids and just arent taken care of very well. Thats the reason for younger. Your point was taken tho

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RE: just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 4:09:39 PM   
BonesFromAsh


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ORIGINAL: stablecouple5910
if you get into the older generation most have kids and just arent taken care of very well. Thats the reason for younger.


Maybe I'm reading this incorrectly....are you saying that you're attracted to the younger crowd because you want to parent them?

That being said...littlewonder is right, you are searching for a very elusive unicorn. In big sky country, no less.

< Message edited by BonesFromAsh -- 8/21/2011 4:10:10 PM >

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RE: just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 4:51:35 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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ORIGINAL: stablecouple5910

It cant be the unicorn that much.


Yes, it can.  In fact, it is the primary factor in your lack of success.  There's a reason it's called unicorn hunting.  What do you have going for you that the hundreds of other couples next to you don't have? 

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RE: just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 7:12:45 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		I live in Montana also.  There are an abundance of male Dominants looking and very very few female submissives, let alone a female submissive who is looking for a poly relationship.  The few munch groups in Montana are small.  However, if we could find some unattached female submissives of any age to join we'd probably triple the number of people who show up for munch.  Good luck in your search.  

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RE: just moved to montana - 8/21/2011 7:15:40 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		Yup... And even though you find the unicorn. Then becomes the problem of actually making it work.

I find most couples looking for a unicorn is like the hunter stomping through the forest and then asking why they don't see any game. Based on the short comments of the OP, I dont see this situation to be much different. The question to me is can they learn to hunt! And not if there are unicorns.



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RE: just moved to montana - 8/22/2011 7:54:22 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Okay, so dominant men outnumber submissive women by at least 10:1. Now, add that you're looking for someone that is willing to be poly. I'm guessing that's somewhere around 100:1. Next, you live in Montana where the community is small and doesn't have a large relocation appeal. Lastly, add someone that fits with the existing dynamic.

And you're wondering why it's hard to find....

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 8/22/2011 7:55:07 PM >

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RE: just moved to montana - 9/18/2011 9:19:45 PM   
MtGames


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Status: offline 		Just noticed this thread, and I can say that the problem isn't with Montana... I've had rather good results here.
Have you tried joining a local munch group and getting to know people?


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RE: just moved to montana - 9/18/2011 9:28:16 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		There is nothing wrong with Montana.  The problem is the number of people who live here.  Whereas 25 people attending a munch is a large number in Montana, it doesn't come close to the 120 people I have seen at munches in big cities in other states.  Attending munches is the first step in discovering what is available when you move to a new place. 

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RE: just moved to montana - 9/20/2011 9:55:26 AM   
Sunny27


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Status: offline 		Ok now wow what are you all on about?
Sorry stablecouple 5910 don't mind them!
I'm 28 and My Master is 32 and we've played with a couple before of which the girl was 18 and the guy was 46!
So yeah I'll tell you guys write a bit more on your profile you know hobbies and what you do for work.
If your up for travelling 2 miles to 6 miles out of where you live also say that.
You will have some girl interested.
Yes and my master straight and I'm bi we have played with these people 3 times already!
Only the girls play together with intercourse!
The other girl will play a bit with my Dom and I'll play a bit with her Dom.
Bones from Ash and little Wonder, who the hell are you to pass such rude remarks?
Jeez!!!
Sorry about that Stable Couple5910 just write abit more on your profile and happy searching!

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RE: just moved to montana - 9/30/2011 5:01:51 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stablecouple5910

we have just recently moved to montana, we have been on the site off and on for sometime, she is 19 and i am 34 she is very submissive. what we are looking for is another girl about her age maybe a bit older to join our family. we are running into the imaginary wall as usual what do we do, we have sent messages on this site and well nothing we have joined other sites we pay for and nothing...sheesh we are a decent looking coule wtf is the problem


Well, it'd be easy to say "mouthwash", "personal hygiene", any number of things but.....it probably comes down to this:  Montana.

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RE: just moved to montana - 9/30/2011 5:37:44 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Sunny27
Bones from Ash and little Wonder, who the hell are you to pass such rude remarks?
Jeez!!!


Neither one of them were rude.

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