ArchangelMichael -> RE: Erection denial (5/23/2006 11:17:08 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Dovey I was speaking with a Domme at a party last night regaurding this... she asked how I would use this.. and I realized I hadn't said this here. I would like it so that he does not get arroused while pampering me (baths, massages, dressing me). She said it might be possible, and that I should have him do these things, but if he starts getting erect, make him stop. Eventually that will teach him that it isn't to be erect unless I'm stimulating him. Any thoughts on this? do you think it's possible to have more control without causing pain? People have mentioned ice, pictures of his mom, and pain. Any of these things can be used in classical conditioning to associate not getting an erection response with the things he does for you. You don't want to use pain and pictures of his mom may or may not work. I suggest the ice since it creates a physical response. If you apply ice to his penis while he does these things for you and you do this on a consistent basis, after a while he'll associate not getting an erection with these activities and you can stop using the ice. I'm not sure how long you have to do it, though. I say try it for a week and see if it works. If not, do it longer. But remember that you must be consistent. You have to apply the ice every time he does these things for you during the conditioning period. After the conditioning period, remove the ice and it should work
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