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joyinslavery -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/5/2007 9:20:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

Use your imagination.


Why is everyone under the impression that we all follow some kind of code of conduct?

There is no "This is how you play with a male slave" "Put him in this position, then he can do this" etc etc.

If its fun for you, then do it.



Brilliant answer (seriously). 

If you lack the imaginative spark to know what to do with the male anatomy, may I suggest gay BDSM sites to get your 'juices flowing'? 

Think ergonomics...then violate that. 



Misstoyou -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/5/2007 9:23:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Think ergonomics...then violate that. 



Succinct. [:)]



trampledslave1 -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/5/2007 11:42:59 PM)

yes, i knew



TigressFL -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/6/2007 11:17:18 AM)

I have positions and commands that have always worked for me, however, I am always open to hearing ideas from others. You never know when you just might find a gem :)

TammyJo
LadyHugs
TexasMaam

Your replies were excellent. Thank you for sharing!
Tigress~FL



yobreh -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/7/2007 2:53:30 AM)

Thank You for all the information regarding positions. Being new it came as quite a surprize finding out that there were so many positions and the correct time to be in such positions. It was assumed that the position would be the very primal position of "on your knees' or something similar. Now realize that there is so much to learn. Still hoping to find the Mistress willing to train.



LadyHugs -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/7/2007 7:36:15 PM)

Dear youbreh, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Positions come from necessity.  There are positions to take impact as well as for presentment and being exposed to view.
 
I have documented positions that work best for most impacts, especially caning, paddling and non-over the knee spanking.  Just Google Lady Hugs Caning and there will be many positions discussed as well.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs



TexasMaam -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 10:01:23 AM)

I have posted Positions of Male Servitude before in this thread. Sorry for double posting - edited out.

TM



earthycouple -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 10:12:10 AM)

Slave positions?  I am a firm believer of putting him in any position that pleases me.  For each and every person it is different. 

I am so very fed up with "online protocol" it's muddying the water of life.

D~



TexasMaam -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 10:16:28 AM)

earthy,

A well trained sub is a prize and a treasure beyond words.  Haphazard approaches to BDSM are the result of an online free for all that has reduced the Art of BDSM to a pathetic cartoon of what it can be.

A sub who practices the positions I instruct him to learn will find that taking these positions evokes a tremendous response in Me as a Domme.  I'm not 'in Domme mode' 24 7; sometimes a well timed subservient position can clue Me into the fact that the manthing needs/wants attention.

Get over yourself. Go learn a protocol.  You might find it very, very, very rewarding.

TexasMaam




FukinTroll -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 10:21:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

earthy,

A well trained sub is a prize and a treasure beyond words.  Haphazard approaches to BDSM are the result of an online free for all that has reduced the Art of BDSM to a pathetic cartoon of what it can be.

A sub who practices the positions I instruct him to learn will find that taking these positions evokes a tremendous response in Me as a Domme.  I'm not 'in Domme mode' 24 7; sometimes a well timed subservient position can clue Me into the fact that the manthing needs/wants attention.

Get over yourself. Go learn a protocol.  You might find it very, very, very rewarding.

TexasMaam




TM, I wanted to emphasize the above because it really needed attention paid to it. You are dead on in that it is an ART and not just kinky sex.



Bonafied -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 11:03:19 AM)

I’ve read you comments with interest and respect and almost without exception endorse them but none more so then you’re recent posting of single word command. Its not the position or the command that is of impact or importance, its what is occurring on a deeper level as a result of the position and command. The preparing
for more refined inputs.



MistressNoName -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 11:23:22 AM)

Lady Hugs,

Thanks for the link to your article. It was very informative. Are there any special considerations one should keep in mind for our bigger boys? Esp in terms of support during a caning session...And can you speak more on the safety considerations if one is caning an unrestrained boy and that boy begins to enter "subspace?" Thank you.

Or, if that question strikes you as being too off the current topic, (which it may be) would you mind contacting me off-board?
Again, thank you.

MNN



littlesarbonn -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 11:50:38 AM)

The first mistress with whom I lived under contract had a few slave positions that she demanded of me, and I learned them so well that the next mistress to whom I served used to go ballistic because she didn't like the standard "rest" position that my previous mistress instilled in me. I still have a hard time NOT going into that position even in a simple exchange with a woman, even though it's such a standard standing position that no one would realize there's any signficance to it.



thetammyjo -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 4:27:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

earthy,

A well trained sub is a prize and a treasure beyond words. Haphazard approaches to BDSM are the result of an online free for all that has reduced the Art of BDSM to a pathetic cartoon of what it can be.

A sub who practices the positions I instruct him to learn will find that taking these positions evokes a tremendous response in Me as a Domme. I'm not 'in Domme mode' 24 7; sometimes a well timed subservient position can clue Me into the fact that the manthing needs/wants attention.

Get over yourself. Go learn a protocol. You might find it very, very, very rewarding.

TexasMaam




Learn a protocol?

How about learn about several protocols, rituals, and ideas. Then figure out what works for you and make it your own?

Otherwise it's just people doing cookie cutter BDSM and I find that even less appealing than "free for all". Part of what is attractive about BDSM is that it isn't traditional and that allows up to be individuals who do things as we want, especially if we are the dominants.



TexasMaam -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 4:49:57 PM)

Tammy Jo,

I have learned multiple techniques and protocols, discarded what does not appeal to Me and kept what invokes responses in Me as a Domme.

If you had revisited My original post early on in this thread you might have noticed.

I still maintain that the white trash free for all that BDSM has degenerated to today is a far, far cry from the sophisticated and artistically pleasing techniques I learned as an apprentice.

I don't live your life for you, (why, it would be most difficult for Me, on only $10 a month 'free money' lolololololololol !!!! that's not enough for a manicure plus tip!) but you're welcome to live your own, such as it is, and leave Me to live Mine.

TexasMaam



N4SDChastity -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 5:05:13 PM)

OK, honestly, when I saw the thread title, in my head popped images of:  Fry-cook.  Waiter.  Cashier.  Stuff like that.  I guess I need to stay in more, huh?



TexasMaam -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 5:31:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: N4SDChastity

OK, honestly, when I saw the thread title, in my head popped images of:  Fry-cook.  Waiter.  Cashier.  Stuff like that.  I guess I need to stay in more, huh?


ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOW THAT WAS FUNNY!

<falls of Her chair laughing

TM



basque48 -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/8/2007 7:21:22 PM)

I have to be totally honest - push this topic a bit.

I think I would like to be TM's apprentice for a bit, learn some of her protocol's
and technique's.

I tend to like how her mind works.



thetammyjo -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/9/2007 7:00:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Tammy Jo,

I have learned multiple techniques and protocols, discarded what does not appeal to Me and kept what invokes responses in Me as a Domme.

If you had revisited My original post early on in this thread you might have noticed.

I still maintain that the white trash free for all that BDSM has degenerated to today is a far, far cry from the sophisticated and artistically pleasing techniques I learned as an apprentice.

I don't live your life for you, (why, it would be most difficult for Me, on only $10 a month 'free money' lolololololololol !!!! that's not enough for a manicure plus tip!) but you're welcome to live your own, such as it is, and leave Me to live Mine.

TexasMaam


Not really sure why you were a bit hostile here. I was expanding on what you said to earthycouple.

Frankly I was surprised that you told her to "learn a protocol" and "get over herself" -- that did not fit with how I've seen your posts on not only this thread but on others.

You say above that you did exactly what I suggested to earthycouple so why react a bit angry? Why not say, "That's exactly what I did. Give it a try, earthycouple".




LadyHugs -> RE: Male Slave Positions??? (4/9/2007 1:11:06 PM)

Dear MistressNoName, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Only in caning do I have lads/lassies unbound, so they can easily go to the floor from their holding onto the seat of a chair.
 
One can see a lad start to buckle in the arms if they're heading into the outer regions of sub-space/flying.  Having them rest on their elbows and lowering their body they can have a lesser distance to roll off and onto the floor.
 
If you have unrolled 'sleeping bags' tucked around the chair, it makes a good cushion as well.
 
Heavy folks have done extremely well in using the English Position, where they do have support by holding onto the seat of the chair.  They can also hold onto a couch arm also.
 
One can start in the English Position but from a kneeling position and use a step stool which is low.  The Dominant can sit on a chair if they wish but making sure the back of the chair does not impeed the strokes or the cane(s).
 
If you wish to keep the lad in English using the chair however, want something to support the belly area if he faulters; take two sleeping bags, keeping one rolled and add to the rolled one the second sleeping bag and push it under the lad.  Threading a rope through the middle before hand gives you grip in placing the double rolled sleeping bag into place; as well as being soft--it works good as a place to remain in subspace, flying and returning out of it--giving after care.
A plastic sheet/trash bag under the roll also helps in wrestling it into place.
 
When I have a very heavy caning scene, I start from the English Position for the slave then into Whip Position and use the Asian stroke.  Being the slave/sub is not bound, already on their knees they can fall over into the unrolled sleeping bag, wrestling mat, cushions or pillows and fly safely.  Then as they fly you can blanket them and give after care.
 
Carpet has worked just fine on its own. 
 
The position "English" ideal design is to be like a table.  Making adjustments for the size and shape of the victim is important as well as adjusting your position as to be comfortable as well.
 
Hope this helps.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 



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