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Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 8:58:01 AM   
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I am trying to help someone learn some of the slave positions, the problem is it's a guy and we haven't been able to find hardly any information on the various positions the male slaves are used in.

does anyone know of a place online i can find male slave positions or at least some pixs of males in slave positions or are the positions basically the same it's just no one has put up any pictures etc...of male slaves in the positions?
thanks for your time,
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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 9:17:33 AM   
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Use your imagination.


Why is everyone under the impression that we all follow some kind of code of conduct?

There is no "This is how you play with a male slave" "Put him in this position, then he can do this" etc etc.

If its fun for you, then do it.


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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 9:27:26 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: akame

I am trying to help someone learn some of the slave positions, the problem is it's a guy and we haven't been able to find hardly any information on the various positions the male slaves are used in.

does anyone know of a place online i can find male slave positions or at least some pixs of males in slave positions or are the positions basically the same it's just no one has put up any pictures etc...of male slaves in the positions?
thanks for your time,
hugzzz,
me


I was once told that kneeling with eyes lowered and hands placed upon thighs palms up was the proper slave position. 

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 11:22:12 AM   
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There is no proper slave position.

If you want a culture that deals with "proper positions" try Old Guard, or Gorean.
Gorean would probably be the best bet.


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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 12:47:19 PM   
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Slave positions differ with different subcultures in the lifestyle. The Goreans have a set of positions that most Goreans relate to. Old Guard, and some of the Old School higher protocol groups, or Houses might share some standard positions. If you are part of a specific group, you may try asking some of the more seasoned in that particular group about positions.
If you're not part of a specific group, then the sky's the limit and you can take ideas from other groups or simply make up your own positions.


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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 1:22:01 PM   
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I have a set of slave positions I teach to those I train in case when the training ends we decide to continue on to ownership.

I think his desire to learn is good but he's either going to have to find lots of examples of different people's positions or risk learing one set he might be told is incorrect and have difficulty unlearning it.

Gor has its positions for example. The Marketplace series has positions for those in the fantasy marketplace houses. If you read my fiction you might note that I use the same positions throughout simply because they are my own so I'm most familar with them unless the setting requires something else.

In general I think of slave positions as serving particular functions.

Attractiveness -- presents the slave as attractive.

Openness -- shows that they are open and available

Mental space -- helps keep the slave in a certain state of mind

Serviceablity -- ease of access or to offer services

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 1:36:11 PM   
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Face up, face down, sunny side up, over easy. Supine. on knees, on back, on top of you, bending over, bending under, hovering, dangling, hanging, well hung you name it its correct.

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 1:47:53 PM   
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hoping I am doing this right....a position Id like to experience, possible?  on yahoo under lmtbrasil

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 3:12:09 PM   
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um what? Grammar please.

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 3:16:04 PM   
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http://www.atlantissagas.org/Poses.html

These poses are unisex and where they differ due to gender it is shown. It should give you a good idea of how to alter poses.

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 3:17:34 PM   
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Ahh, but only I know the 139 True Slave Positions which are written down in the Big Leather Book of Answers that apply to everybody's BDSM relationships in the known universe.  For $99.95, you too can have access to this Ultimate Truth.   PayPal to Mistress Manners, aka KinkyScams (a) ripyouoff.com.

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Um, no.  If anybody tells you that they know "the" True Slave Positions or any horsetwaddle like that, they're full of shite.  There are a lot of individuals and a few cultures that have adopted (or flat out made up) a set of slave positions that works for them.  But none of them is any more "right" or "true" than any of the others.  It's just about what works for each D/s couple.  Copy shamelessly off of one of the many floating around the Internet, or make up your own to suit you. 

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 3:18:49 PM   
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TammyJo do you have these in a book or a link?
I've only seen or read a couple of these positions.
I'm not big on protocols, but would like to know some of the positions you mentioned.   M

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/22/2006 6:42:28 PM   
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I have them in my training contracts and I include them in my fiction though not with the philosophical explanations.

Let me see if I can cut and paste them here.... please remember these are only mine, I'm not suggesting to anyone in any way that anyone else should use them but you are free to do as you wish. (ah, ha! Is seems to have cut&pasted ok from my general slave training contract -- yes, even after almost 7 years Fox has to do these are my gestures or by number or by name)

(layout not so great I see)

Specific Training:
I. Trainee Positions: (these may be adjusted for physical handicaps)
Position #1: Kneeling on both knees, head to ground, just touching Trainer feet/shoes, palms flat on ground by head.
a. to be used to greet Trainer at beginning of scene
b. to signal that Trainee wishes to begin a scene

Position #2: Kneeling on both knees, back and neck straight but eyes not looking directly into Mistress', thighs spread, palms resting flat on thighs. Alternative form: standing with legs spread shoulder width apart, hands clasped behind lower back, head slightly bowed.
a. at ease position
b. to receive collar

Position #3: Standing up straight, hands clasped behind neck, eyes forward, legs spread so that feet are shoulder width apart.
a. inspection position

Position #4: Same as #2 but palms flat and together and offered toward Trainer.
a. to offer any object for her use or inspection

Position #5: Same as #2 but hands crossed at wrists and offered, palms upward, to Trainer.
a. to inform Trainer of any disobedience for which Trainee knows he/she should be punished
b. to express the understanding that a punishment has been earned and is accepted

Position #6: Kneeling on both knees, thighs spread wide and pelvis tilted forward, arms crossed behind back so that chest is thrust forward, head tilted up to expose neck
a. to offer body to Trainer for use as she sees fit
b. to express own physical desires

Position #7: Kneeling on both knees, hands on floor, ass tilted up, thighs spread wide, back arched
a. to offer body to Trainer for use as she sees fit
b. to express own physical desires

Position #8: At Ease: stand in a designated place with arms resting behind back, feet at a comfortable distance apart, watching the Trainer in a relaxed by attentive fashion. Speaking when spoken to is permitted as is offering services if the need arises.

Other positions are simply responses to services being rendered or those taken at owner’s instruction. Trainee should always aim at presenting himself in an attractive and respectful manner.

These formal positions may not be changed or deviated from until
1) physically moved by Trainer
2) tap of Mistress’ right foot means to move to next position in numerical sequence
3) tap of Mistress’ left foot means to change back to previous position
4) verbal command to assume another position, called either by number or a basic description of it’s function/use
5) necessity of obeying other commands or to offer service



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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/23/2006 12:07:13 AM   
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Thank you for elaborating.   M

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/23/2006 9:55:29 AM   
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I agree with KC..it seems that there are a few , or perhaps many who just want to get a book and follow the instructions..."monkey see, Monkey DO"


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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/27/2006 2:41:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: rdoc51

hoping I am doing this right....a position Id like to experience, possible?  on yahoo under lmtbrasil


LOL  not sure you are doing this right at all.  Were you trying to respond to the orginal question or just advertise yourself, uh?

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/27/2006 2:44:32 PM   
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There are many positions you can find on the web and books also...but it's what You want that matters.   Make up your own positions, use some that females use.    Actually I prefer one submissive pose when I ask them to kneel, anything else I instruct as I go whether it's face down, face up, on the floor, at the wall....   I did see a cute contortionist the other nite and amber stated 'no way could my spine ever bend like that'   hmmmmmm but it would be nice to try.

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/27/2006 8:03:27 PM   
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Dear akame, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Here are the positions I have in "The Manual-How you give service," 
 
EXCERPT FROM: The Manual - How you give service
By:
Lady Hugs
Copyright and Registered with the US Library of Congress
Certificiation and Registered
TXu 828-635
1997
 
FORMAL
POSITIONS AND COMMANDS
Attend

When the slave or submissive is given this command of "Attend" it is usually followed by another direction such as, "Attend Mistress H." The slave or submissive may be required to bring or fetch items, food, drinks or other services as required and or desired by the Dominant. Should the Dominant direct the slave or submissive to "Attend" another Dominant, the slave or submissive will, within limits, be of service to them as if he or she would be serving their own Master or Mistress. Sometimes this task of "attending" is a test of obedience, loyalty and honesty. The slave or submissive is recommended to be the obedient, loyal and honest at all times, as it reflects upon the Master or Mistress at all times, as well as to the degree of training the slave or submissive has achieved.
Assume Spot

This is the most frequently used and given command to the slave or submissive. The Dominant will designate a spot for the slave or submissive to rest and relax while at the Dominant's left side. It is taxing for a slave or submissive to remain in a kneeling position so therefore this command is given to assume a comfortable position.
To assume the spot hearing "Assume Spot or Rest Position," the slave or submissive will immediately go to the proper designated spot and sit comfortably. This however does not mean the slave or submissive is to lay down, slouch or be sloppy. The slave or submissive will be ready to give service upon any command.
Back Cuffing

The slave or submissive will upon this command, immediately bring his or her arms to the small of the back, placing the wrists together to be bound or cuffed. The slave or submissive may have this command associated with other directions such as kneeling, laying down or kneel.
Bring

When the slave or submissive hears this command, the slave or submissive will focus on the directions or instructions intently, and the description, location and the items specified to be brought back directly to the Dominant.  The slave will not detour, mingle, socialize, delay in going to that item, or to return with that item and immediately present that item to the Dominant.  This command is the same as "Get."
Close

Upon hearing this command, the slave or submissive will close off their sexual genitals and their desires immediately. This word can also be used by the slave or submissive to advise the Dominant that a area of the slave's or submissive's body is closed, such as a open sore in the mouth or some other personal hygienic issue.
The slave and submissive however, must understand that they are subjected to the whims and desires of the Dominant.
Come

Upon hearing this command, the slave or submissive will close activity and immediately and without hesitation or delay, go to the Master or Mistress when the order to "Come" is given.  This signal can also be a hand gesture as well as the verbal or the combination of both. This requires the slave or submissive to be ever watchful and alert in the area of his or her Master or Mistress.  This order is not to be confused with having an orgasm.
Crawl

The slave or submissive when given this command will crawl on hands and knees to the place where pointed or directed to, without delay or hesitation. Once at that spot the slave or submissive will remain on their hands and knees until otherwise directed.
Dismissed

The Dominant will "dismiss" the slave or submissive as a command or discontinued service. If "Dismissed" for the rest of the day, the Dominant will be sure that this is understood, as to permit the slave or submissive to attend to his or her real life personal, social functions and affairs and maintain a place of employment or other important affairs.   The slave or submissive is responsible to advise the Dominant ahead of time that a slave or submissive is required at the job at a certain time or any details like doctor's appointments as to allow the Dominant to have the required service as well as keeping the slave or submissive happy and healthy.
Display

When the slave or submissive hears this command of "display," he or she will display the body in a pre-determined style as listed below selected by the Master or Mistress.   Since there are several selections of "Display," the slave and submissive will be familiar with all of them and within physical ability to take those positions.
The Display Positions are as follows:
English Classical Display:
Kneeling with thighs parted wide, arms raised and hands interlocked behind the neck, buttocks resting on the heels, back is straight, head up and eyes down in respect. The breasts or chest will be displayed openly for view and inspection, with the womanhood or manhood clearly exposed and open as well.
Modern Classical Display:
Standing with legs spread apart shoulder width, arms raised and fingers laced behind the neck, with eyes down in respect, back and shoulders straight and elbows back as to expose the breasts or chest.
Informal Display:
Standing with legs apart shoulder width, with hands placed into the small of the back and crossed, head up and eyes forward, back straight and shoulders back and square, much like the military's
"Parade Rest."
Down

The slave or submissive when hearing this command will drop immediately to the floor face down, from what ever position he or she is in, such as kneeling or standing position.
The arms will be positioned to the side, legs together and place the face cheek to the floor and in the direction of the Master or Mistress and remain on their belly till released from that position.
Down-Back

Hearing this command, the slave or submissive will immediately drop from the kneeling or standing position onto their backs, the arms will be to the side, the legs will be together, the face up and listen for other commands.
Down-Crawl

Upon hearing this command, the slave or submissive will drop onto their belly from the kneeling or standing position and much like a "army crawl," crawl on their belly to where the Master or Mistress directs them to go.
Fetch

Hearing this command, the slave or submissive will listen and follow directions of what to "Fetch." Unlike the command of "Bring," where the hands are used, the "fetch command," will require the slave or submissive to take into his or her mouth the desired item for the Master or Mistress.  The item to be fetched should be within reason and sometimes will challenge the slave or submissive to use creativity in "fetching" the required or desired item.  Upon "Fetching," the slave or submissive will respond directly back, without hesitation as most likely this is being watched.
Follow

The slave or submissive when given the command to "Follow," will take up the position to the left of the Master or Mistress and approximately 3 to 4 paces back as the Master or Mistress walks.
Until needed to open the door or to move items out of the way, the slave's or submissive's duty is to be watchful and attentive to potential problems, obstructions or persons which may interfere with the fluid flow of the Dominant about the room or on their way out of one.
It also requires that the slave or submissive be ready to obey the command of "Attend" or any other commands that are given by the Dominant.
Food Service

The command is usually associated with private food service at the home, such as to serve dinner to the Master or Mistress and his or her guest. The slave or submissive will properly seat the Master or Mistress first and then according to rank the other guests, women first seated.
The slave or submissive will be on duty as servant. The slave or submissive will not eat during this time. It is the responsibility of the slave or submissive to eat prior to the function or after, at the decision of the Master or Mistress.
Footstool

Often referred to as "Ottoman," it has been abandoned commonly in the BDSM community, however the function is the same.
Upon hearing this command for "Footstool," the slave or submissive will go onto their hands and knees, level their back as to make a table or foot rest for the Dominant.   It is common to see a Dominant take a tray and place it upon the slave's or submissive's back then set their glass upon it filled with water. Sometimes sensually teasing the slave or submissive in which the slave or submissive is tormented and works harder to focus on not dropping the liquid or upsetting the glass.
Formal Presentment Position

The slave or submissive upon entry in a formal manner, enters naked with the exception of his or her collar, wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs.
There are various styles of "Formal Presentment Position," in which the slave or submissive will be familiar with all of them to be able to immediately go into the designated or ordered position.
The positions of "Formal Presentment Position" are listed as follows:
English Classical Formal Position:
On knees, the thighs parted as wide as possible to display genitals, the breasts naked will be shown with a straight and arched back, shoulders back, hands on the thighs palms upwards, buttocks resting on the heels and the head up and eyes down.
The "order" of presentment of their body is as follows:
1. Breasts-Chest, 2. Vagina-Penis and Scrotum, 3. Anus and
4. Mouth. The "order" will not change.
Modern Classical Formal Presentment:
Kneeling with thighs open, displaying the sex with a back that is straight, the chest lifted and slightly arched, with hands on the thighs palms down, with buttocks resting on the heels, the head down and looking down in respect.
The body will be presented in the following "order" without change in "order." They are as follows:
1. Breasts-Chest, 2. Vagina-Penis and Scrotum, 3. Anus and
4. Mouth.

Informal Presentment:
Standing with thighs parted widely, the arms behind the back, back straight, shoulders square and chest arched as best to present the breasts-chest. Much like a military's "Parade Rest"   the head will be up and eyes forward.

The presenting of the slave's or submissive's body will be in the following order without change in that "order." It is as follows:
1. Breasts-Chest, 2. Vagina-Penis and Scrotum, 3. Anus and
4. Mouth.
The slave or submissive will state, in their presentment the following:
"(Owners Name,) slave or submissive, which ever the case may be, presents to the Master or Mistress, their body for his or her inspection. Slave or Submissive offers these...and in order, present the breasts, chest, vagina, penis, anus and mouth.
The Master or Mistress may nod for each body part presented or touch, inspect or feel or whatever the Dominant wishes to do with them.
The Dominant may ask the slave or submissive after the first of the four, "What else do you offer?" The slave or submissive will go to the 2nd and this can continue to the 4th offering stage.
It is sloppy for the slave or submissive to just "Offer their Body." Take the time to offer each piece of the body.
The purpose of "Presentment Position" is as follows:
1. Demonstrates the training.
2. Reminds the slave or submissive what their status is.
3. Reminds the slave or submissive their body is for the Dominant's use, entertainment, pleasure and not theirs.
4. Allows the Dominant to keep a eye out for body change, discharge, injury, healing, any required cleaning or need  to maintain or correct a flaw in that maintenance.
5. For Ceremonial purposes for presenting the collar.
Front Cuffing

Upon hearing this command, the slave or submissive will bring forward his or her hands with wrists together, for the purpose of placing restraints on, to bind or to cuff the slave's or submissive's wrists.
This command may be associated with other commands such as kneel, lay down or to stand.
Full Present


Upon entering the room, the slave kneels and staying on his/her knee caps, thighs spread shoulder width, places their arms behind them, clasping the forearms or wrists, placing the wrists to the small of their back, chest upwards, head bowing slightly down and eyes down. This is more an American style of position, similar to the English Formal presentment and English Formal display positions, which has head up.
Get

Not to be confused with the command to "Fetch," "Get" command is the same as to "Bring."  The slave or submissive will bring in hand or on a platter or by any other means other then the mouth the item(s) to which the Dominant has requested. The slave or submissive will not wander, visit or do any socializing until the item is brought and received by the Dominant.
Go

The Dominant will send the slave or submissive to do a task or to go back to their spot, etc. The "Go" commands means to "go" and "leave" immediately, even stopping if it is in the middle progress of service, or process of sexual service or personal service. The slave or submissive may be directed to go elsewhere. However, if the slave or submissive is told to "Go" or "Leave" the slave will go back to his or her rest spot or to the other area.
Guard

This command of "Guard" means exactly as it intends. The Dominant in which verbally commands the slave or submissive to guard, will be assigned the duty to "guard" either the Master or Mistress, their possessions or their person from unwanted contact with drunks, unwanted attention, to defend and protect the Dominant.
This is most commonly used by the female Dominants with male slaves or submissives to fend off blows, hits and unwanted attention.
Honor

In this position, the slave kneels onto their right knee only, the left forward and bent at the knee, foot flat upon the floor. Placing the wrists to the small of the back, hands clasping the wrists as if “keeping a grip or bondage” upon the wrist and if physically able may be hands gripped upon the forearm. The back is to be straight, chest presented forward and shoulders rolled back.  This is a altered “knighting” position or genuflect.
Humble

The position is not to be confused with the "Down Position." The slave or submissive when given this command will immediately drop to the belly, the head on the floor with hands to the side like a crucifix or above their head as in "surrender," their legs together with eyes down. This position is more for punishment or a forgiveness position, allowing the slave or submissive to reflect on their conduct.  This position is also called the "Prostrate Position."
Humiliation Position

Humiliation Position will vary with the individual slave or submissive. The position is for humiliation purposes, such as posing in rabbit attire or in a dress to be displayed for play humiliation. This position is up to the Dominant.
Kneel - Closed

In this position, the slave or submissive kneels, closing their thighs, which is a sign of closure or restriction. At times the slave or submissive is owned by another and closes such view from other Masters and Mistresses. At times though, especially with female slaves and submissive types, they are closed at certain times of the month. By closing their thighs, the remain submissive yet, give notice to the dominant that the genitals are closed.  Of course the owner’s wishes are obeyed without question. However, if served by such a slave or submissive who is not the owner, the guest Master or Mistress should not venture into the genital area, nor challenge the slave or submissive type’s position.
Kneel - Down

In this commanded position, the slave or submissive will kneel to the floor and rest their buttocks upon the heels. With the heels touching the bottom, the slave or submissive will then slide thighs apart widely, as to expose their genitals for the pleasure of the Master or Mistress. The back should be straight, head up and chin up. Placement of the hands may be upon the thighs or crossed at the small of the back. If the slave should place the hands down upon the thighs, it should mean that they are not open for sexual service. Upturned hands, should mean open for sexual service.
Kneel - Up


When hearing this command, the slave or submissive may already be in a kneeling position. The command for “kneel up” is to kneel with thighs parted, to which the buttocks is not in contact with the heels at all. Raising themselves onto the knees, allows the slave to raise up so the Mistress or Master not to lean uncomfortably down or strain awkwardly in handling a kneeling slave. Since the slave kneels as if standing on their knees, the hands are then either placed at the small of their back for binding or cuffing or, may be placed into the nape of their neck, fingers laced.
Leave

The slave or submissive, upon hearing this command will immediately and without complaint, without question or hesitation will leave the service, the activities he or she is performing and on or for the Master or Mistress and go back to the other task.  This allows the control to stop and reassign tasks.  This command is much the same as the "Go" command.
Mingle

Upon receiving this command, the slave or submissive is able to go and associate with guests, fellow slaves and submissives as the Dominant has no immediate need or is being occupied or served by another slave or submissive.  At this time, the slave or submissive will be alert for a recall to service by the Dominant, but is also allowed to interact with those around him or her.
Obedience

This is a classic position in which the slave or submissive will take the position of "Obedience." The position is immediately taken upon the command of their Owner or the Master or Mistress to whom has collared the slave or submissive.
The slave or submissive, on their own may take this position to demonstrate their obedience to that Master or Mistress.
Unless permission is granted by the Owner or the collaring Master or Mistress, no other Master, Mistress, Dominant or persons shall ask the slave or submissive to take this position.  However, should the interested Dominant request from the Owner or collaring Master or Mistress, and there is no misunderstanding to the "demonstration" of the position and not the loyalty or obedience to the Owner or collaring Master or Mistress, the slave or submissive may be allowed to "demonstrate" such position.
The positions of "Obedience" are described as follows:
English-European Obedience Position:
The slave or submissive will kneel, with hands behind their back, then lean over and face against the bare floor or at the feet of the Dominant.
Modern Obedience Position:
The slave or submissive kneels, with elbows to the floor, the arms on the floor forming a pyramid coming to a point with the hands, the thumbs forming a base of a pyramid, the eyes down, with body much like a fetal position.
Open
On hearing this command of "Open," the slave or submissive will make their genitals available to the visual or physical use of the Dominant.
The desired effect is for the view and inspection of the sexual genitals or the use of it for torture, sexual stimulation or the use of the genitals by the Master or Mistress for pleasure or entertainment.
Punishment Position
There are several punishment positions in which the Dominant will direct the slave or submissive to use or take.  This can be on the various bondage furniture or restraints or in the positions like that of the "Whip Position," which is on the floor, kneeling with the elbows on the floor with their head on the floor, in which the idea is to expose their body to the whip for punishment.  The slave or submissive hearing this will have no misunderstanding that there was some displeasing behavior that needs immediate attention. This punishment is also not to be one of pleasure.  Punishment is to create the desire for the slave or submissive to amend their behavior and not wish to repeat the conduct or misbehavior.   Punishment can range from "ignore" to "heavy caning." Each punishment is different for each slave or submissive.
Rest Position

The command to take the "Rest Position" is the same as to "Assume Spot."
The slave or submissive when given this command understands, that they take their designated spot which is the left of the Dominant, and are able to sit comfortably or move around and change positions until they are called back into service or given other commands.
Service

The Dominant will specify where the slave or submissive will service, be it domestic, personal or maintaining the area. However, in most cases this command of "service" is associated with sexual pleasuring the Dominant in a specific location on the body, and not to be confused with the command to "Worship."  Service does not include kissing but sucking, licking and other skills.
Slave-Submissive Maintenance

This command "Slave/Submissive Maintenance" is for the slave/submissive will excuse himself or herself to prepare and maintain his or her body, such as shaving, wiping down their body, to clean their genitals.  The Dominant will point out to the slave or submissive where they overlooked and needs to be redone. The slave or submissive when coming from work, into the home and needs to clean themselves and put their collar and cuffs on, may request permission to conduct slave-submissive maintenance before presentment.  The final word is the Dominant's.
Table

The "Table" command is for the slave or submissive to go and prepare the dining table and stand by for the service of the food.
The slave or submissive in public restaurant situation will go ahead and make reservations or reserve a table for the Master or Mistress and his or her guests.  The slave or submissive will then escort the Master or the Mistress quietly to the table. Then properly seat the Mistress and then the ranking ladies present. The men will seat themselves.
Watch

This command is when the slave or submissive is used as a "watchman" or "watchwoman," in a situation such as a lesser degree of "Guard," or it could be used while a Master or Mistress is using a slave or submissive other then the one on "watch," where eyes to upcoming unwanted guests approach, or when the police are patrolling are coming.
This will allow enough time to straighten out the clothes and be presentable.  When there is no enclosed room, the Dominant wishes to fix their undergarments which exposes them but due to the circumstances need a immediate attention. The slave or submissive will watch for others to approach and advise the Dominant of such.
Whip Position

This command can be used for punishment, discipline or pleasure and it is the Dominant's responsibility to make sure the slave or submissive knows that such is either for punishment or pleasure.  The slave or submissive will take this position, especially when there is no restraints or bondage equipment are available.  The position of the slave or submissive when hearing the command of "Whip Position" is as follows:
The slave or submissive will go onto their knees and lower themselves to the elbows, the head to the floor and fold their arms under their breasts or chest with the buttocks up in the air.    The hands will never be placed behind their back.
Worship

This command is for the "worshipping" of a particular body part designated by the Dominant, such as the feet, the buttocks or the hand.
The "Worship" involves only kissing. No licking or sucking the specified area.  The slave or submissive will not move off the designated area that is under "Worship."  Service command is the area that involves licking and sucking, etc.

Each dominant will determine what they require in their household.  So, you might find some that are familiar and some that are not.  Nobody is right or wrong.  The Manual - How you give service, is just an example of what my positions are.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/28/2006 3:56:38 PM   
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Najakcharmer, you ARE charming!
You made Me laugh!

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RE: Male Slave Positions??? - 5/28/2006 4:43:53 PM   
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I think each Domme has positions of her own that she prefers.

The list that follows is actually The First Formal Assignment I give to a sub in training.  These are the positions that I actually expect a male sub to learn and use.  If he fails to learn these I won't waste any more time on giving him a second assignment or session.

I have posted this list elsewhere on the web over the years, and convoluted versions have appeared here and there without any permission from Me.  I have also handed out quite a few copies over the years to trainees who later became Doms, and who changed the positions to suit themselves then posted them on their own websites.  While the text has been copyrighted, I really don't object if anyone copies and uses it.  To each their own preferences, if someone likes something they read in this list, they're welcome to it.

TexasMaam

Positions of Male Servitude
 
A submissive male who decides to abandon his fantasies and finally explore his deeply submissive inner self real time may discover that he is happiest when he serves and obeys in a very formal way.  Real time service can take many forms, whether as a bath slave, houseboy, cook, gardener, or sex slave, to name a few. 
 
A sub may simply find that he ‘just feels more subbie’ when he uses positions that convey servitude.  The sub may not ever realize that a Domme who appreciates a well trained submissive will respond physically, mentally and emotionally to certain positions as signals when her 'boy' craves attention, serious play or session time from Her.  
 
Learning these  Positions of Servitude will elicit favorable response from the most discriminating of Dommes.  While different Dommes may have their preferences for various positions not mentioned here, these would certainly serve a sub well as a reference point to begin from in the service of any serious FemDomina.
 
The difference between a sub and a slave, with regard to these positions, is that a slave is expected to use them at all times, never forgetting his station, and is subject to punishment if he should forget to do so. 
 
A sub, or bottom, particularly one who is in command of an intensive work environment, may seek respite from his heavy burdens at work or at home by slipping into a 'submissive mode' or 'subbie mode' while in the presence of his Domme and will find his experience enhanced by using these positions to immerse himself into his submissive character.   
 
If being a male slave is not his forte, a sub may still desire to be taken into the presence of other Dommes or to a group activity where Old Guard protocol may be expected.  A
sub’s safety and security may depend upon such training if group activities get out of hand. 
 
It is in a sub’s best interest to learn and practice these positions regularly if he is serious about servitude.  A well trained sub who demonstrates an understanding of, and proficiency in the positions summarized below will earn a Domme’s continued attention, affection and respect.
 
As a student and BDSM apprentice in Europe, through a decade of formal training, I was taught that submission and subservient positions and demeanor went hand in hand.  I was taught to appreciate extremely formal submissive behavior from a devoted, usually very masculine sub, including but not limited to what have been promoted in the US as the following “slave” positions.  When I learned them as the assistant to a formidable European Domina, they were the “Positions of Servitude” and they were taught to submissive men and women alike, with a few differentiations to accommodate the gender of the sub.
 
As a Domme, I later abandoned those positions that were impractical or that had little personal appeal to Me, and began to use the positions listed here almost exclusively.
 
There are many online sources for multiple slave training positions that refer to both Old Guard commands and to the nouveau Gorean training: I know nothing of either.  I only know what pleases Me, and these positions please Me.   My favorites are highlighted in red and they are listed in the same chronological order that I would teach them.



~~Texas Ma’am ©
 
 
 
To Present, Or Come:
The epitome of submission and the habit that demonstrates, above all, that a sub is willing to serve at all times, is when he “presents” whenever his Domme appears.  I learned this command as the French word: “Presenter”; during training it was usually repeated twice and was accompanied by a circular hand motion that indicated “come forward, come forward”.  With practice, it becomes a force of habit that is ingrained into the sub’s demeanor to the point that the verbal prompts and visual reminders become no longer necessary.
To acknowledge that he has either heard a command or that he has seen his Domme enter a room, the sub will stop whatever he is doing, and “Present”, by facing Her,  head lowered, arms at his sides, bowing slightly from the waist and then resuming his stance, back straight, legs together, head still inclined towards Her.
If he is engaged in some chore and has his hands occupied, he may remain in his place while still turning to face Her and incline his torso slightly.  If he is not occupied, or is relaxing or reading, he will abandon whatever he has been focused on, will walk, head down, to within three or four feet of the Domme, and “Present”.  If the Domme does not instruct otherwise, he may then return to whatever he was doing.

The Waiting Position, or At Ease:
The ‘waiting position’ or ‘at ease’ command is the primary position I expect from a sub.  The ‘waiting’ or ‘at ease’ stance is indispensable for demonstrating his understanding of his place and purpose.  It is also a sub male’s refuge: when in doubt: assume the ‘Waiting Position’ and wait until I give direction.
Stand straight: feet the same width apart as the shoulders, chin up and eyes down, posture perfect but not stiff. The arms may be held behind the back, hands lightly clasped, or they may be crossed in front, each hand lightly grasping the opposite forearm just short of the bent elbow.  When standing next to other subs, he should maintain one arm lengths distance on all sides if more than one slave is present or being inspected. unless otherwise directed.
(I may expect a sub to stand indefinitely in this position; the sub will choose a corner, or unobtrusive place along a wall or furnishing, whether it be 6, 12 or 20 feet away, and will keep his eyes on Me without raising his eyes TO Me.  If a sub cannot see Me at all times, he cannot anticipate My needs.)

 
Attention:
The ‘Attention’ position is one a sub will assume whenever commanded to do so; he can usually anticipate some form of reprimand although I may use it merely to test the level to which the sub is trained. 
The sub stands, feet and ankles together, arms at his sides, palms flat against his thighs with fingers extended straight toward the floor. His back is straight and his eyes are focused on the horizon.
This position is highly effective when used to halt an unacceptable flurry of conversation, whining, or resistance from a sub.  When the “Attention!” command is followed by the “Punishment” command, he may anticipate corporal punishment to follow.  If, when at “Attention” the sub is ordered to assume the “Waiting Position”, or “Wait”, he need only move his left foot and hands to assume the “Wait” or “At Ease” position.

Kneel:
Legs together or slightly apart, on your knees, back straight, arms behind back with hands together, chin up, eyes down.  This is the slave's standard position and in My opinion is reserved for the young egomaniac.  Those of us who have matured know better than to make one suffer unnecessarily or exacerbate old football or sports related injuries, arthritis pain, etc.  You won’t be commanded to “Kneel” very often for Me, it reminds Me too much of Catholic Mass. If I choose to present a collar, however, I may command you to “Kneel” in order to receive it, or I may command you to Kneel to be collared for play.

Display:
From the ‘Present’ position, the sub will raise his arms, locking his hands behind his head, and will spread his legs apart wider than his shoulders, so that his chest and genitals are available for inspection from the front, or if told to turn, his ass and back will be available for inspection from the rear.  When told to “Display” the sub is expected to waits for direction or acknowledgement from Me before turning or exposing himself  further.
 
Examination:
…is usually more than one position. The sub displays a part of his body as instructed, then on command moves to the next position to display a different part of his body. I normally examine whatever anatomy I choose, when I choose, so it’s not a verbal command I use.  It’s important to list it here, because the sub must remember that his body is for his Domme’s amusement.
 
Present to Me:
In France it was simply “presenter a Moi” so that’s what I call it today.  It’s My favorite submissive male position, other than the Kowtow.  I can gaze at, enjoy, torment, fondle, manipulate and play with a man for hours in this position:
Kneeling  on all fours with thighs apart, back should be posture perfect, chin up, eyes down or closed, palms down on the floor in front of him, exposing both ass and genitals to whatever pleasure or torment My whim may dictate.
 
Humble or Lay Down, Front or Back:
When I command 'Humble Front' or 'Humble Back', lay either face up or face down with legs parted to width of shoulders, arms out to sides to form a human cross shape.  This is particularly useful for bondage when rigging a submissive to a bed or platform, or when examination is to follow.

Cuff Front or Cuff Back:
The sub moves his hands to the front or to the back while maintaining any presentation position.  Physical cuffs need not be present, they may be invisible.  If I command Cuff Front or Cuff Back, I expect the sub to remain so until I release the 'Cuff' command.
 
The Whip, or Flog:
This may be a standing or kneeling position: if standing, the slave should be against a solid surface (hands bracing him against a wall, door or furnishing) exposing the back and buttocks for whipping; if kneeling, the slave should present back and buttocks in the air while adequately protecting the neck and hands by keeping them down or under the body out of the way.
 
Footrest:
There are several variations of a slave as furniture on hands and knees with head down below table surface, back to be held firmly as furniture (footrest, table, ottoman, etc.).  I'm not much on using a sub as human furniture, with the exception of this one command.  I love to read while using My boy as a footrest.

Worship:
This command directs a slave into a position of worshipping a specific body part of the Domme.  Don’t be concerned about placement, have no fear, I’ll put you where I want you and expect you to stay there until I’m finished with you.


The Service Position:
The sub stands where directed, arms crossed in front with both hands gripping his upper arms, legs only slightly apart, while the Domme uses his erect cock for Her pleasure. The sub remains motionless, and completely silent, except to beg permission to cum, of course.
 
Stop:
Command to cease any and all activities immediately and without question. You’d think it wouldn’t be necessary to list this one but you’d be surprised. I’m fond of using this command when I’ve finally experienced so many orgasms that I can’t tolerate even a small movement or distraction of any kind from the sub.  Keep on thrusting after you are given the Stop command, and refer to Punishment, below.

Punishment:
What else would you expect? Bend over and grab ankles, or grab legs with hands behind the calves. You might want to take a deep breath and hold it for awhile.  If I have to command you to take this position very often, W/we probably won’t be seeing one another for very long.

Follow:
…To trail the Domme an exact pace 3 or 4 steps to the back and left of the Domme. Whatever you do, don't ever jump out 6 or 8 feet in front of Me and walk away ahead of Me!

Heel:
The slave follows slightly behind and to the right of his Mistress. Often used if the Mistress wishes to engage in conversation while walking with the sub.

Assume your Place:
This is generally a position to the left and slightly behind a Domme where the sub is in a comfortable position (not kneeling) which can be maintained for long periods of time; he may be seated, or standing in a waiting position, depending upon the circumstances.


 
The Kowtow:
Kneeling prostrate before Me, ass either raised slightly or resting on heels with knees tucked under chest, head bowed, arms straight in front alongside head, palms down.
This position is reserved only for one’s Mistress.  This is a worship position and a display of obedience and devotion.  You may do this on your own if there is a desire, I will not command it of you.  Just so you know, a well acquainted sub who greets Me with a full kowtow will earn My full attention, affection and instant arousal.  A sincere Kowtow evokes tremendous response from Me, especially since I don’t demand kneeling from a submissive.  It is a profoundly significant gesture, don’t throw it around lightly.

Attend:
This is when a sub or slave is directed to 'attend' to the needs or serve another Domme (non-sexually).

Dismissal:
I use this for dismissal from My presence for discipline or punishment.  The sub should back away from the Domme, chin up, eyes lowered in whatever 'mode of travel' the slave is already in when the command is issued. Example, if the sub is standing the sub will back up standing, if the sub is crawling, he will back up crawling.  The sub should remain 'facing' his Domme until he’s gone beyond the 'threshold' or approximately 10 feet to 12 feet (not often seen today but it’s a good way to mollify a ticked off Domme).

Exit or Leave Presence:
A sub never turns his back on his Domina while in Her presence.  The turning of his back is considered an action of disrespect and resistance. Leave Her Presence facing Her, until you are beyond a doorway where She can no longer see you.   When I tell you that you may leave, do so facing Me, and turn from Me only when you're out of My sight.
~~Texas Ma’am ©


As for pictures, I have LOTS of pictures. They're Mine! Mine, I tell you! MINE!

; )

TM

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