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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 2:57:48 PM

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OK, I wrote it about you because based on reading a couple hundred of your posts, you're a whining crazy stalkerish narcissist.

Let's not allow AAkasha's thread to turn into a thread about Kevin. We've seen far too many threads take that unfortunate turn lately.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 2:57:56 PM

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One thing i like about mad people, they at least aren't boring

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 3:09:36 PM

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I am not talking about clinical depression or someone who has issues and is dealing with them. I am talking about someone who is wild and crazy and so dominant and kinky and open to everything, but she's also just a little off, unpredictable. Is that even potentially a part of the attraction - or do you just stay away completely?

A Sophia Loren type, in one of her most flaming-eyed-and-heaving-chested roles? Fine! But she's got to give me at least a percentage of her time on an even keel. And able to communicate at least to some extent. I need to have some idea, however minimal, of why she's the way she is.

Most of all she can't be cold. I cannot 'do' cold women as partners, no matter how great they might be in all other ways.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 3:11:54 PM

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OK, I wrote it about you because based on reading a couple hundred of your posts, you're a whining crazy stalkerish narcissist.

Let's not allow AAkasha's thread to turn into a thread about Kevin. We've seen far too many threads take that unfortunate turn lately.

Right.

Mods, please!

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 3:12:28 PM

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Do cold and bonkers go together? I think it depends on whether the person is on the narcissistic or sociopathic spectrum.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 3:18:22 PM

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Do cold and bonkers go together? I think it depends on whether the person is on the narcissistic or sociopathic spectrum.

Interesting. I've never thought in terms of a narcissistic versus a sociopathic spectrum. I thought that one of the defining features of psychopaths (if not sociopaths) was a level of narcissism?

I've known people who've been both cold and mad, certainly. But 'bonkers' - as in going off in tempers, smashing things up, getting generally emotional? Nah, I'm used to that. Two words: my family. I've decades of practice at dealing with it. It's the devil I know

. . . And, speaking of devils, I'd rather one of them than than a saint, any day.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 3:24:01 PM

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It's so easy to be fooled by the really good sociopaths...

Anyway. Temperament I am used to, temper I am used to. My post-chemo dad is a Vogon without the poetry. After my adventure I vowed that in all futre relationships *I* will be the psycho!

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 3:40:55 PM

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I think it is a very personal thing.

Apparently in some cases one's choice of spiritual path can be enough to make someone decide one is too "bat shit crazy" to be dealt with.

Even if said spiritual path is well established, although admittedly not mainstream.

(Simply Pagan with a bit of Shamanism thrown in...we aren't talking cult here.)

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:07:14 PM

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. . . I vowed that in all futre relationships *I* will be the psycho!

I'm sure that will come very naturally for you, hon. ;-)

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:09:04 PM

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Yo're so sweet to me, Darling!

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:19:38 PM

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Reversing genders for the sake of discussion.

I'm in the stay away completely camp. While I can absolutely be impulsive in the "let's go to this event or another" all of a sudden inspiration*****, bat shit crazy just isn't something I want anything to do with. It doesn't matter to Me how hot somebody thinks they are, the disruption in life honestly isn't worth it to Me.

The working on issues thing does hold an importance to Me, but there are also points where someone has already been too much. If there hasn't been some kind of new meds, therapy, or treatment program, I'm not likely to listen to promises about how the old behavior will change.

I agree with all of this... ^^^^^^^

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:22:14 PM

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Not sure who this is directed to - dominant women interested in other women, submissives interested in dominant women, or people just interested in women in general, but for me it all depends on your definition of batshit crazy.

Quirky, unpredictable and spontaneous at times, a little weird, a little self-destructive, a little depressed (in an artsy, empathic, reflecting on life and the world sort of way), wild at times, a little intimidating - yes, in fact I would need some of those characteristics in her just to be compatible.

Running around the streets with an oversized butterfly net screaming at people - not so much. I have enough trouble keeping my own shit together to deal with anything too over the top.

Obviously, the more she pushes my buttons the more leeway (perhaps if she has a small butterfly net). I would say, however, that I avoid anyone who perpetually seeks major confrontation and drama. It is just too draining.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:31:46 PM

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Sort of an aside:

You know how women are always going on about how they want men to be gentlemen? How, even after all these many years of feminism, they still reserve the right to say 'Man up!' occasionally, and assume that means something that should hit the spot? Things to do with being honourable and courageous; 'strong', albeit in some sense that isn't necessarily to do with brute physical strength?

Well, I'm that way with women and coldness. 'Coldness', for me, is eternally and intrinsically unfeminine, and as far as I'm concerned a woman who is cold, hard and uncaring should 'woman up'. The first and most essential thing a female partner will do for me is *care* for me.

Hah! I'm a sexist. You read it here first.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:35:16 PM

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*cackle*

I just wish the cold people would have some kind of forehad marking, so they could find each other and let us avoid them.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:40:12 PM

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The first and most essential thing a female partner will do for me is *care* for me.

Hah! I'm a sexist. You read it here first.

Yes, but you have chiseled abs and can pull it off.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:52:01 PM

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Yes, but you have chiseled abs and can pull it off.

Thank you, Iamsemi - and you'll be glad to hear that I can and do indeed regularly pull it off, generally just before I go to sleep at night. I only need a bit of vegetable oil, and Bob's your uncle. :-)

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:53:25 PM

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*cackle*

I just wish the cold people would have some kind of forehad marking, so they could find each other and let us avoid them.

Oh, I'm quite good at picking them out, now. Cold women, especially, stand out a mile to me these days.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 4:57:42 PM

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Really? I'm not that great at it yet. Too much working with the public, I deal with different behaviors.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 5:57:46 PM

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She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's also batshit crazy.

Oh yay. Another thread about Hanners.

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RE: She's incredibly hot and kinky as hell. But she's a... - 9/20/2011 9:29:43 PM

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I think that is called pulling it out. And thanks to you, I will never look at my uncle bob quite the same way again.

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Thank you, Iamsemi - and you'll be glad to hear that I can and do indeed regularly pull it off, generally just before I go to sleep at night. I only need a bit of vegetable oil, and Bob's your uncle. :-)

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