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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 9:07:15 PM

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I think for the most part here you are showing your imaturity <<< I agree as stated above change your settings and state age limits . Your pics in no way show you as dominate .. also note a lot of younger girls like older guys for there own reasons .... Of course I have never been dominated in any way nor will but I believe your getting what you asked for..

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 9:11:37 PM

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one way to solve this. Come back and tell us the results you've found on your own. How many that have contacted you only wanted you for sex because you're young and cute.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 9:28:34 PM

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Your pics in no way show you as dominate

Probably because dominate is a verb and my pics show nouns, as in showing a dominant. I am not a pro domme either so I don't feel the need to dress up in leather and wear a whip. Stereotyping will not get you laid.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 9:35:38 PM

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Stereotyping will not get you laid.

Looking at your pictures, I'd say breathing would suffice.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 9:47:26 PM

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Stereotyping will not get you laid.

Looking at your pictures, I'd say breathing would suffice.

Hey now. I live near the beach and it was the summer. We don't wear a lot of clothing at the beach during the summer. The winter is coming and soon all my pics will be of me under three layers of clothing.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:22:18 PM

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You have to decide if dominating older men is something that you enjoy.

Thanks for your extensive answer. It was appreciated. As for whether or not I'd enjoy dominating older men, I have not decided if it's something I want to do yet. I don't see me being in a sexual relationship with an older man and currently the only dominating I've done has been in the context of a sexual girlfriend/boyfriend relationship.

You're still young, so you have lots of time to learn. But one thing that you'll quickly find out is that there are D/s relationships that fall outside of both the sexual context and the girlfriend/boyfriend context. You may want to explore some of those areas. This may be particularly desirable if you are unable to find a sub boyfriend. Perhaps you can have a vanilla boyfriend, and also have a housegirl/houseboy. The second relationship would be strictly D/s with no sexual activities.

There are many variations of D/s. I have had D/s relationships with no sexual contact at all, so they certainly exist. I'm sure that the Pro Dommes will also verify that D/s without sex is quite possible.

BTW, welcome to the boards.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:25:51 PM

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When I was 19 I lived with a 35 year old for 5 years it was amazing, he loved me, yes the sex was amazing but sp was the relationship, and now in my 40's my last relationship was with a 62 year old.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:27:37 PM

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Some guys responded and said they didn't want sex but instead wanted to be dominated by a much younger woman because they were turned on by the humiliation of having someone so much younger than them (and less intelligent, wise, experienced, and finically secure, although they didn't actually say these things, it was the feeling I got reading between the lines of their messages) dominate them. One guy described the humiliation as the Valley Girl Barbie dominating the GI Joe doll. I wasn't sure if he was trying to compliment me, or insult me.

They'll also try to sell you the Brooklyn Bridge if given half a chance.

Dont kid yourself.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:38:17 PM

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I think for the most part here you are showing your imaturity <<< I agree as stated above change your settings and state age limits . Your pics in no way show you as dominate .. also note a lot of younger girls like older guys for there own reasons .... Of course I have never been dominated in any way nor will but I believe your getting what you asked for..

She looks pretty domme-y to me. More so than a lot of dommes I know. You're aware that not all dominantss have black leather and latex ensembles with utility belts, right? That's actually batman you're thinking of... It's a very common mistake.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:40:19 PM

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The winter is coming and soon all my pics will be of me under three layers of clothing.

Winter? In New Jersey?

Three layers of clothing required?

Thanks, I needed a good laugh.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:45:01 PM

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The winter is coming and soon all my pics will be of me under three layers of clothing.
Winter? In New Jersey?
Three layers of clothing required?

Thanks, I needed a good laugh.

Seriously? I remember a few days where it was below zero degrees last year. I don't wear my bikini when it's under 60 degrees. When it's under 0 degrees I don't even come out from under the bed covers.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 11:13:39 PM

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Yes seriously. I'm from Thunder Bay, that's about 600 miles north of you. Our average January temperature there is around 5 degrees F, with it commonly being around -5 or -6 degrees F or less. The coldest it has ever been there was around -70 degrees F.

You don't have a winter, you have a nippy autumn.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 12:44:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: UtterMayhem

I think for the most part here you are showing your imaturity <<< I agree as stated above change your settings and state age limits . Your pics in no way show you as dominate .. also note a lot of younger girls like older guys for there own reasons .... Of course I have never been dominated in any way nor will but I believe your getting what you asked for..

She looks pretty domme-y to me. More so than a lot of dommes I know. You're aware that not all dominantss have black leather and latex ensembles with utility belts, right? That's actually batman you're thinking of... It's a very common mistake.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/20/2011 10:38:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: UtterMayhem

I think for the most part here you are showing your imaturity <<< I agree as stated above change your settings and state age limits . Your pics in no way show you as dominate .. also note a lot of younger girls like older guys for there own reasons .... Of course I have never been dominated in any way nor will but I believe your getting what you asked for..

She looks pretty domme-y to me. More so than a lot of dommes I know. You're aware that not all dominantss have black leather and latex ensembles with utility belts, right? That's actually batman you're thinking of... It's a very common mistake.

Hi QLita

I'm pretty new here, but welcome. I didn't want to speak of you in third person, but i would agree w/ Epytropos -
you have a steely gaze that kind of defies a "loli look"

That said, earlier in this thread there was some discussion about the loli internet meme - and I would have to say after having seen a bit of it, i would tend to agree that even if, for you, your middle name has an individualistic significance to you, that because of the loli meme - and the ingrained meaning of loli/lolicon that it's probably inescapable that people will read that into your nickname. I didn't know that about CM banning any variation of loli - i guess because it's so closely tied to CP and it must be a legal issue.

i'm adding some links here on more on loli memes - in case you are interested. (warning, these sites, especially ED, are NSFW & offensive to many)

My last thought was, i hope you don't see me offering these links as my attempt to "educate" you - quite the contrary, i'm impressed with how self-possessed you are as well as knowing what you want in a relationship - i guess i was equally aware, it must be different wiring. I try to imagine female domme and it may impress me because i'm not that way. Anyway just meant for the links to be helpful for some additional resources on loli.

http://encyclopediadramatica.ch/Lolicon
http://web.archive.org/web/20080422011245/http://www.wikichan.org/index.php/The_Uncultured_Anonymous/Lolis

Best wishes for you finding the holy grail -- one like your relationship w/ your former boyfriend as that sounds like your ideal, but in the meantime, i hope you will meet some decent guys who are worth your while.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 1:23:15 AM

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I suspect much of your problem here is a combination of your misfortune in having been named Lolita and your main pic, which objectively speaking, screams Loli.

I don't consider my name to be a misfortune and I am not having any problems here other then the CM picture system showing my deleted pics, even after I've deleted and replaced them with new pics. Only the CM administration seem to be immature enough to think people can't be named Lolita and not be 13 year old nymphs. For those who didn't see my other posts, CM doesn't allow the name Lolita to be written in a profile. Also, it appears no account can have the name Lolita either, not even with some random numbers afterwords.

I only stoped by to comment about the above statement as to if you can use the name lolita...you are incorrect. I know you can use it because I just made an account with the name in it. You do have to be a little clever about it and if you would like to know how I will be more than happy to tell you.

If this gets deleted, or gets me gold mail on the other hand .....well I guess I asked for it.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 4:12:16 AM

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you have a steely gaze that kind of defies a "loli look"

That's what caught my eye on landing on the OP's profile for an extensive reconnoitre. Damned fine dommely expression with no hint of the teeny-bratty thing in it.

And the phrase 'bugger off'. Made me chortle. I didn't realise they said that out there in the colonies.

Qlita: I think you have your head screwed on properly. There are pitfalls ahead, but I'm confident you'll be able jump over them.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 4:14:17 AM

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The coldest it has ever been there was around -70 degrees F.

Jesus, that isn't even Earth weather.

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 4:28:49 AM

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I think Roch gave some excellent answers, as did Heather and Peon.

(if there are others they are lost in my pre espresso fog)

The reasons are almost as varied as the people. Sure, a hot young ass and tits without stretch marks, sag, or too many shitty relationships of bad attitude, are nice. But if a man has a reasonably intelligent brain, that is never all there is. People are complex...........even those silly guys!

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 7:25:34 AM

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Jesus, that isn't even Earth weather.

That's actually the coldest temperature ever recorded in Ontario, which is sort of odd, since Thunder Bay is actually known for having relatively mild winters. It gets a LOT colder in some places Hanners spent some time in Churchill one year, she had to get out, she couldn't handle the cold, the average January temperature there is -27 C/-16 F. Well that and the and the polar bears wandering into town sort of put her off <not a joke or exaggeration>.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/travel/activityandadventure/2597713/Churchill-Canada-Polar-bear-capital.html

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 7:36:08 AM

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I've read and seen programmes about the polar bears. While I think they are awesome animals and would love to see some not in a zoo......not while they are walking down my street, or worse, clawing their way into my house. Polar bears in my hood, hard limit!!!

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RE: Older men, much younger women. - 9/21/2011 7:37:26 AM

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I have a rule, none under 30. The young ones are a total waste of my time. They never last. Then they use the training for some other Master. I have nothing in common with those much under 30.

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