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RE: Two Profiles, One Dominant? - 10/13/2011 4:43:50 PM

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Over all I would have to agree with most of the responses so far. But there is one question that keeps coming to my mind.

There have been a number of threads on CM that deal with why some people have more than one profile and whether they should be allowed to or not. The fact of the matter is that many people do have more than one, and over all I don't see anything wrong with it, depending on how they are used.

The question I have is in regards to the second profile from this gentleman...did he initiate the contact with you through that profile, or did you happen to initiate the contact on that particular profile? If he initiated the second contact, then yes, I can see some reason to be a bit suspicious. If you are the one that made the initial contact through the second profile then I don't see a real problem, especially since you say he told you about the second one on fairly short order.

And even if he was the one that made that initial contact from the second profile, it makes me think of the question TJ444 asked: "How does someone find out if the person they are interested in is lying or not?"

Lying, especially on the Internet, is not a trait reserved only for men. Perhaps he had run into lying ladies in the past and this was his solution. Not saying it's the right or wrong way to find out...only that it is a possibility. And if that is his reason it could indicate that he is interested in finding an honest relationship, and that would be a positive trait...not something to dump him over.

Anyway, you are the one that knows the finer details of the situation. These were just some thoughts I had that might be worth mulling over. You gotta do what is right for you.

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RE: Two Profiles, One Dominant? - 10/21/2011 1:47:49 PM

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it reminds me of the "you aren't doing what I want so you are not a real sub" crap some guys spit out

I can understand having several profiles if you opened one and changed and couldn't figure out how to delete the old one, but I'd hide/idle/delete the old profile.

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RE: Two Profiles, One Dominant? - 10/22/2011 4:02:48 PM

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This is my 3rd profile here. But the other 2 were deleted and closed when I took on a new one. There's no way I'd have someone contact me under one profile then use the other to determine if what was said was the same thing. JMO, but this is a tacky and underhanded way of being checked up on. But then, if I'm chatting with someone and in the "get to know you" phase, I don't withhold any information when asked. I'm honest and I'm me. No need to pretend I'm someone else, wouldn't know where to start with that. Again, just me.

ETA: If this doesn't make sense, then I'm blaming it on the T3s and I have mudbrain right now. When ya break yer butt, and can't do anything but lay in bed 'cause you can't sit, well, things just sorta don't always make sense.

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RE: Two Profiles, One Dominant? - 10/22/2011 4:19:01 PM

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sounds like an insecure man who probably would not trust you if you were in a relationship either.

I agree...I'd also be very worried about a man who has such insecurities. What more is he capable of? I understand that not everyone on here is honest but usually it only takes time to figure out if they are lying. It makes me wonder what else he does with the extra profile/s. I'd block him (both accounts) and move on and hopefully you won't come across yet another one from him. Either way, if you have concerns or that little gut feeling that something isn't right then follow that feeling because its usually right.

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