LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote:
How's that for lame ass name calling? pretty fucking useless, it doesn't make any fucking sense. Same as your post then... Might have to do with cultural differences though, a guy who wants to get his rocks off has plenty of ways to do that, completely legal, so somebody who goes for domination usually doesn't pick a domme, as it's pretty much understood that it ain't happening, not due to legal boundaries but simply choice, if he wants the sexual aspect (or a "happy ending" whichever way - that's open to negotiation) he'll go to a bizarre lady, he'll get a bit of BDSM and the more physical/sexual aspect, in case he goes to a domme, he knows he can't touch and he goes there for a skill set (usually bondage, needles, whip, etc - depending on what she specializes in), much more edge play (slap and tickle most escorts do) and usually a fully equipped dungeon and medical room. Of course there are situations where the guys want "a bit of privacy" and you leave them, or they make clear that release is part of the game, there's usually a brothel nearby and the girls are willing to do that part as long as they don't have to deal with the difficult parts. I always found it rather odd that most of the working girls didn't mind fucking clients but thought whipping, putting needles into them and all that was "weird and perverted". As I said, it might be a cultural difference, but the part of the domme being sexually unavailable is possibly a big part of the attraction, because almost everything is available legally. It's kinda nuts because a lot of clients will offer crazy amounts for "sexual favors" however most dommes won't take them because word gets around and it would be the end of their domming career. You know guys who were very focused on their "release" - we used to give them lotion to "help" them - only the lotion was mixed with a fair amount of salt...
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