wittynamehere
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ORIGINAL: twistedom large percentage of BBWs Yeah, and a lot of just plain BWs, also. Yes, I do think fat women are drawn to BDSM, absolutely. In fact a lot of traits that are usually seen as less than desireable are drawn to BDSM. In the case of fat people, it seems that many believe something along the lines of "it's really hard for me to get any action in the vanilla world.... maybe if I'm willing to degrade myself, or reduce myself simply to a willing set of holes, or agree to do whatever nasty things somebody else wants, I'll get my needs met". Many are willing to experience things they might not otherwise want for themselves, in order to get affection, love, sex, and so on. I'm not judging anyone for that. They're entitled to make those choices. But this is my opinion currently anyway, after about 15 years "in the lifestyle". And I'm not saying that I'm not an asshole who finds it easier to connect with submissives than with vanilla people, and so I'm dominant. Maybe that's the case and maybe it isn't. Additionally, there's another aspect that may contribute to what you've noticed. Some fat submissive people are here to get help with their obesity from domiannt people. Certainly not all, or even most, but some certainly do get involved in the community because with control from a dominant person, they can find the willpower to eat better, get exercise, and so on. I've even seen several profiles over there years saying "I'm here to find a dominant who will control my eating and other habits, so I can lose weight. I'm not here for any other reason. No sex, no emotions, no play. Just control my weight until I'm less fat." So it does happen.
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