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What drives a man? - 11/7/2011 3:40:23 AM

beba

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Often i read why a slave wants to be a slave, why she wants to be owned.
I would like to read why a man wants to own a woman.
I think its in the nature of the man, as it is in the nature of the woman to be owned and controled.
But perhaps there is more, i am curious to hear the answers....

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RE: What drives a man? - 11/7/2011 9:11:28 AM

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Marc Cohen said it best:

Don't you give me no buicks
Son you must take my word
If there's a God up in heaven
He's got a Silver Thunderbird
You can keep your Eldorados
And the foreign car's absurd
Me I wanna go down
In a Silver Thunderbird .....

That's what drives the man.....

If I reveal any more detail, I'd have to kill ya.

Hup, the Fool.

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RE: What drives a man? - 11/7/2011 12:03:08 PM

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What drives a man is...called a chaffeur.

Is there something beyond just... "mine!" ?

That will depend on the man, and on the nature of the woman in question.

I do well with cats, dogs, rats and various others, but I would say there is something different about my relationship with all of them. Cats are owned by no man, but they do understand loyalty, friendship and family. Dogs, on the other hand, are owned and they usually know it. Rats, those are a lot more like acquaintances ("friends") that hang if they like you and leech off you if they don't. For each of these various animals, there are personal touches to the relationships, just like with wine and food.

Women aren't cats, dogs or rats, but they're certainly no less diverse.

The nature of the appeal depends on the woman in question.

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al-Aswad.

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RE: What drives a man? - 11/7/2011 12:33:31 PM

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Because he wishes to neither rent nor lease, both being property rights of lesser worth.

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RE: What drives a man? - 11/7/2011 12:46:32 PM

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I think biology is a large portion of it. In the great nature versus nurture debate I certainly do not dismiss nurture but I can't really come up with any better explanation. Much of biology is like that. Why do men like tits? They're just bumps of flesh. Why doesn't a fat man's stomach have the same effect on me (rather than grossing me out)? It is something that is just hard wired into me.

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RE: What drives a man? - 11/7/2011 8:00:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Don't you give me no buicks
Son you must take my word
If there's a God up in heaven
He's got a Silver Thunderbird
You can keep your Eldorados
And the foreign car's absurd
Me I wanna go down
In a Silver Thunderbird .....