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RE: When did you first realize it? - 11/22/2011 1:48:34 AM

Ogrelord999

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I would further this notion ... by saying theres not any facet of life that I would live less than up front and honest. Our society , from plastic surgery to prostrating to the powers encourages something less than level eyed direct honesty however in the long run theres a freedom in just stating your case and moving on ... in my mind "deception is simply a tool of war and conflict , of all the places It might be used ...in my home and in my bed among friends lovers and family is the absolute last.

Typicly if I find myself in a situation I might be tempted to be less than honest ... I'll either refuse to speak on the matter ...OR state two random absolute facts of the matter and leave out adverbs and such allowing the individual asking ... as they are trying to find a preset outcome anyways to draw false conclusion on their own accord.

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RE: When did you first realize it? - 11/23/2011 6:23:35 PM

Numbone

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I have to say that I appreciate all of the responses so far. I was away at a conference since sunday and posting from the iPad didn't work out as well as I thought.

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RE: When did you first realize it? - 2/29/2012 10:49:16 PM

GingerLove

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I always knew I would like a poly sister years ago .. being a single mom.. and being fascinated with the Morman lifestyle.. not in a religious way.. but the working together support the sisters offered each other. Not including manipulation or other negative traditions. I was never the jealous type.

. However what I found that for me being sub.. alot depended on the Dom in 'my Poly relationship' difficulty keeping open minded communication and honesty at all times with both subsisters is not a good thing. Its a huge responsibility to head a Poly household. Even though all people in the relationship have responsibility.

I have always been drawn to the idea of Poly relationships, the problem has been finding people who understand the importance of it. Nothing is unconditional, we are humane, but I choose to love and respect more than one person in a relationship.

I hope I didnt say too much here.

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