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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 7:26:34 AM   
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What you are doing is being a Gorean by proxy, IF you identify the philosophy of your live as "A" Gorean philosophy.   I would imagine a man finding that hard to swallow if he respects himself, especially if he has no respect for Gorean.


Identifying what you live with regard to philosophy for convenience sake as Gorean shows you don't believe in the very concepts you posted here.   You are attempting to attach your philosophy to a concept you have no respect for, a negative impression of and feel its something to be mocked, i.e., Gorean.  But yet you state you live by a Gorean philosophy.

Sorry but by your own admissions, you are confused.  You can't see the concept in mockery and then identify what you live as being part of what you mock without indirectly mocking yourself.  Gorean isn't a partial concept -- it's either/or.    If you don't understand this than maybe you need to take some time and review the components of the Gorean's philosophy.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 12:12:24 PM   
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What it is to be Gorean


If you rearrange the letters in "what it is to be Gorean," you get:

"Beneath a wig it roots."

Ponder this deeply.




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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 12:21:49 PM   
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Well thank you, but no... I'm far from always being the first to step on a bug. I can't be everywhere, you know. More often than not they've been pretty well squashed by the time I even take notice of them. Though if they're still squirming, I do try to help.
Well now, you've utterly misinterpreted what I said, but that is not unusual in one of your advanced years, now is it old man?

Just to clarify, I said "in any exchange" did I not? And is it not also true that an exchange does not begin until either yourself, or the other person replies to the other? So, as can plainly be seen, what has happened previously to Your Arrogance taking notice of us wee bugs, is of no importance to me statement, now is it?


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 12:38:35 PM   
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Do you always type before you think woman?

Its bloody obvious that there is more than one Gorean philosophy, else you would not be making your ill-conceived and poorly executed arguments here, now would you?

There is my Gorean philospohy, which I arrived at from careful consideration of the tales, and the underlying messages within them, and then there is yours, arrived at through being told what is the proper Gorean belief.

Now, I do not self-identify as a Gorean, because that would associate me, in the mind of others, with the fallacy that is the Gorean philosophy as practised by those here present.

The venom of the replies, is proof that you cannot abide any questioning of your orthodoxy. And such dogmatism is unhealthy in any system of thought. You have parroted what you have been taught so often, that your ability to think for yourself and to judge on merit has atrophied.

You have me sympathies woman, it is a hard row you have chosen to plow, to deny the evidence of your reason for the sake of the acceptance and approval of your peers. Not only is such conformity sad and hard, it is, as well, not the Gorean way. So, perhaps it is your beliefs that are in need of reviewing.


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 1:15:23 PM   
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Just to clarify, I said "in any exchange" did I not? And is it not also true that an exchange does not begin until either yourself, or the other person replies to the other?

My fault. In English, "any exchange" means any exchange, whether or not I was originally a party to it.

I didn't realize you were speaking Sixish.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 1:23:35 PM   
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Ah well now, I'm afraid you are wrong, but as you're a Yank, you can't be expected to grasp the subtleties of the English language.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 2:00:35 PM   
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Ah well now, I'm afraid you are wrong...

It is becoming difficult to keep up with these meteoric rises in your credibility.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 8:13:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SixMore2Go

Well, before I am removed from these forums, I am of a mind to have me say in regards to things Gorean.


A few quick comments before I align myself with the actual topic, if anyone finds themselves troubled by my modest derailment, please accept my apology in advance, or fuck off, your choice.

First off. Have we met? You are … eerily familiar......................Nah, if you were someone I once knew I’d surely be more impressed by now.

Next off, why would they remove you from these forums? You’re quite comical; and that isn’t a reference to your general commentary, but rather your excessively abhorrent and ill-mannered behavior. And save me the dramtic "who me? I'm so misunderstood"nonsense.

I’m not completely sure, but I’d wager to surmise that it’s only you that is actually bamboozled by your attempt to disguise your boorish demeanor behind this grandiloquent façade. You try to hard to come off as elegant and eloquent; in turn it doesn’t come off as all that natural coming from youand the character you project; I suspect that is why your supporters appear to be out numbered, incalculable to one.

Concurrently, you tend to disregard the talking points and specific comments made by others that often enough, quite accurately rebuke your own observations, not to mention your callous dismissal of the increasing number from interpretations of those individuals that don’t advance your specific cyber quarrels. So in that you appear to the masses as little more than a despondent and forlorn attention whore. But my experience with you personally is limited so I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt.

But, let’s move on to the crux of this little thread of yours. Shall we?

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It is my belief that the vast majority of those who profess to be Gorean have in fact completely missed the central tenets of the philosophy of Gor.


Agreed! In fact I’d place both you and I within those parameters. To proclaim that anyone, including Norman himself has a complete and comprehensive understanding of any would be “Gorean” Philosophy would be preposterous. At best the Gorean Philosophy is still within the confines of it’s infancy. And I am personally of the opinion that to take undue stock in the words of anyone claiming some sense of superior enlightenment with regards to said philosophy is illogical and counterproductive.

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It has naught to do with appearances, nor with any role. It is not about how you appear to others, it is about how you appear to yourself.


Yeah, you see right here you aren’t prequalifying your comments as your own opinion, but rather stating yourself as though a foremost authority on a subject that, in fact, is yet to be put to test by minds much more accomplished than most witnessed on any cyber arena I’ve traversed.

So utilizing my own criteria mentioned above I’m afraid you’re philosophic audience is destined to perpetual contraction.

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It has naught to do with being a warrior nor a master nor a slave. The philosophy of Gor has naught to do with external details, it is concerned solely with what is within a person. The fixation on being a Master or warrior is a misguided one, it comes from having confused the milieu and the message. I know submissive men who are far truer Goreans than many a self-proclaimed Master. It is not about Masters and slaves, it is not about men over women, it is not about free and not free. Those things are only the trappings of the tale that was employed to impart the message.


So basically this philosophy is little more than an anatomy lesson of the human form.

Or are you implying it is little more than some old professors arduously conceived contemplation within some random state of metaphysics that has everything to do, with ……………… nothing?

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It is your nature that matters, not some amorphous "nature" nor that of another. The rules to which you must conform are your own; the expectations that you must meet are your own.


I’m curious…. Have you ever or do you currently partake in the delight of cannabis sativa? I'm assuming your an Irish Catholic kid and speak a wee bit of Latin.

While I must concur that it is our “nature” that is a primary focus of the Gorean Philosophy, I’m of a mind that it is the overall, and in depth, understanding of our nature, both individually and collectively, as well as all that this entails within the basic premise of this philosophy; so it may not be quite as simple as you would seem to imply. To suggest that it is simply an individualistic pursuit that would drive a man, or a woman for that matter, ignores to a greater degree, at least half of the human equation. The entirety of our humanity is what our personal nature is derived from. Therefore it seems to me that the personal, social and survival aspects of our nature is not idiosyncratic. The fact is it is our differences, and to be more precisely our individually specialized skill sets that in turn makes us more dependent upon one another then many care to admit; thereby cancelling out your intention that we live solely “to the beat of our own drum”, no matter whether your reference is to the male to female quandary or to our very relevant pack mentality we possess. We cannot, no, we will not survive or be answerable soley to ourselves as individuals. To imply as much quite possibly means you’re missing a few chapters within your Gorean Library. IMHO

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The philosophy of Gor is very simple, it has but three pillars.


Three pillars you say? Have you been reading old threads here or moonlighting over on Silk and Steel?

I personally love the stone pillars on the Old Georgian Mansions, you know those imposing white columns on the master’s home of those Southern Yankee Slave Plantations.

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1. Be true to yourself.
2. Live in accordance with your nature.
3. Do what you do with all that you are.


Shall we summarize?

“Do not ask the stones or the trees how to live, they cannot tell you; they do not have tongues; do not ask the wise man how to live, for if he knows, he will know he cannot tell you; if you would learn how to live, do not ask the question; its answer is not in the question, but in the answer, which is not in words; do not ask how to live, but, instead, proceed to do so.”

For most, the above makes as much sense as your three pillar comment.

But I’ll ask you.

How can one be true to oneself if one has no comprehension of oneself or the meaning of true.

Or our nature, you say to live in accordance with as much. What, mind you, is our nature? Is your nature a mirror to my own? Would a woman granted equality by a man made law then maintain a nature much the same as mine? Or yours? Or is she also a soulless capitalist?

Finally how do I do all that I do with all that I am? Who will care and to what end?
If I have to answer to no one but myself, what will I base my success or failure upon? How do I know I’m getting it right?

What is right? Will it matter. What was it again that we are here for?

Shit……… This was supposed to simple……

Alright, I suppose I should surrender my decoder ring…..

Ahhhhh, fuck it; come take it if you will… I too possess a sword, perhaps limits must be set today…

Happy Saint Patrick’s Day to ya lad! A pint of Genius if you will!

Wait it’s Thanksgiving, oh well, happy that too.

And now I feel as dirty as the rest of you.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/23/2011 8:20:18 PM   
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Sixmore,

I have found on the whole that the posters have a pretty good grasp of English, there are a few who have problems but those who you are arguing with do not.

I have often found myself arguing on one or more points with each of them, and each of them has their own individual beliefs, and each of them are stubborn about them, though it has been known for them to stop and think and sometimes change their own views based upon knowledgeable discussions.

What they don’t do is give any credibility to an idiot who thinks he can come in here insult everyone act as if he is the Grand Gorean Ubar of all, and who acts like a spoilt child with a new toy.

I have watched your posting style here and on other parts of this discussion forum and frankly you do not impress me. You seem all boasting and bluster. Its childish and quite boring something we have seen a hundred times.

Grow up and stop acting the idiot.

Cheryl


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 6:54:37 PM   
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Aye, well at your age that comes as no great surprise, now does it, old man?

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 7:13:33 PM   
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Grow up and stop acting the idiot.
Ah now, so its an idiot I am now is it, and all because I do not subscribe to the orthodox vision of Gorean philosophy that is required of one and all here in this forum. And you are all arguing with me and saying the same thing, that I am but an idiot. Well that may indeed be the case, for I cannot deny that I have had many lapses in judgment in me time, and that's the truth.

Well be that as it may, there's something me dear mother used to tell me when I was young that I believe is most appropriate here, something that each of you should ponder and meditate upon.

When you argue with an idiot, one had best be taking care that he is not doing the same.


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 7:24:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SixMore2Go

When you argue with an idiot, one had best be taking care that he is not doing the same.

I can see why your mother would deem that to be something you needed to learn. It's a pity her disrespectful little whelp never paid her any heed. If your behavior here is anything to judge by, I'm sure she didn't deserve what you must have put her through.

K.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 7:32:06 PM   
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Ah now, so its an idiot I am now is it...
emphasis mine.

Umm well no, it seems you've pretty much perceived by many as an idiot before "now."  But let's clarify the why...

You are an idiot because you think being a Man is swaggering into this forum with your dick in your hand insulting people who don't know you and you don't know all because you are too insecure to enter into a discussion as an adult.  

You are an idiot because you believe that after you insult a group of people, they will just bow down and discuss something with you because you are suddenly wanting to tell people what BEING Gorean is even though you MOCK Gorean, you claim to live "a" Gorean philosophy and yet don't identify as Gorean.  

You are an idiot because it appears all you know is how to throw insults when people challenge YOU on your own behavior.

You are an idiot because what you don't get is that there are many people here who LOVE debates and discussion on Gorean, they love to be challenged, and if you had simply come in here saying hey i have a different way of looking at this and laid out what you believe, why, followed it with understanding of the books and how all of that led you to identifying as Gorean or hell even just saying what think you, you would have had a LOT of discussion -- some good natured, some intense, and some full of information. 

You are an idiot because if you had acted like a Man instead of a little boy who wanted attention, or a little boy trying to bait the lion, you may have people choosing to see you as someone to fill up their time with intellectual discussion instead of entertaining themselves with you.

Now, the thing is, you have a choice, but instead of choosing to actually formulate a debate and discussion, you continue acting like an ass and trying to turn it around on others responding to you.   Here's a clue, you are an idiot because instead of accepting responsibility, you are trying to place it on those responding to you.  That is what little boys do, because they are learning what it means to accept responsibility for your actions. 

Your an idiot because instead of using your knowledge, you instead let your insecurities lead you to swagger in here with your dick in your hand thinking we all would be so impressed, instead of letting your confidence as a Man secure in his beliefs lead you with your intellect interest people enough to discuss and debate with you.

All in all, i can go on as i am sure can others.   But i think you get the point.  So we will see if you really want to discuss what you believe or if your intention to come into this forum was simply to see if we had a ruler for you to use.

angel

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 7:35:16 PM   
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Ah and your own behaviour has been naught but exemplary, has it?

You are a hypocrite old man, and you have become soft in the head in your dotage. It is pathetic indeed, when such a thing happens and the poor senile old bugger is so deeply in denial.  I have no doubt that once you were indeed a man of intellect, but those days are long since past. You are a joke old man, a pathetic shell of a man with pretensions to wisdom bolstered only by the abject lack of such amongst your peers.

Now be off with you old man, its time you had your nap.


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 7:41:38 PM   
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What version of Gorean philosophy?

All I have seen from you so far is three very short statements that you call pillars, if that is the whole of your philosophy it is lacking a great deal.

Your statements are also way too simplistic and frankly naive for example:

What happens if you have a sociopathic nature? Then being true to yourself and living in accordance to your nature is living in opposition to the Gorean way of life.

Not well thought out at all.

And what’s even worse is you don’t learn, you are reaping the rewards of your own actions and continuing to perpetuate those actions even though the results show those same actions do not gain the results you want. And then blame the lack of positive results on us not believing the same as you.

Though I have to admit that’s true to an extent, I do not believe that insulting people will gain me any positive results anywhere.

Just out of curiosity what do the Gorean books show as happening to people who constantly irritate and insult those around them?

And I have been known to argue with idiots many times, if that makes me an idiot so be it, usually I find that idiotic and insulting behaviour is usually linked to a childish desire to be noticed at any price. Sometimes once they realise they don’t have to use this childhood stratagem to get involved they stop acting that way.

However some can’t stop, the habit of attention at any price is just too ingrained (I really wish I could slap parents who only give a child attention when its naughty) and then I simply shrug and ignore them.

Cheryl

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 7:49:30 PM   
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Suffering Christ on a unicycle, did this guy just walk out of the 19th century?

I must say, as trolls go, he's a bit stodgy about his speech.

Pip pip cheerio and all that rot!

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 8:40:08 PM   
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those same actions do not gain the results you want.
And just what would those results be woman? Why don't you enlighten us all and explain to us just what it is I am hoping to achieve here.
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What happens if you have a sociopathic nature? Then being true to yourself and living in accordance to your nature is living in opposition to the Gorean way of life.
No woman, it would not be in opposition at all.

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Just out of curiosity what do the Gorean books show as happening to people who constantly irritate and insult those around them?
I fail to see the relevance of this question, what becomes of such characters in the tales is not unlike that which becomes of such characters in innumerable other tales. perhaps you would care to rephrase, so as to make some sort of point.

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I simply shrug and ignore them.
Well, now, obviously all the rest of your long and tedious off-topic exposition on bad parenting is inapliacible to me, as you seem singularly unable to ignore me.

So, tell me, just what is it about my interpretation of the philosophy that frightens and enrages you so, woman?


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/26/2011 9:45:55 PM   
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You are a hypocrite old man, and you have become soft in the head in your dotage. It is pathetic indeed, when such a thing happens and the poor senile old bugger is so deeply in denial... Now be off with you old man, its time you had your nap.

Interesting. For some time now I've had the feeling that there was more to you than just an insecure show-off. But that last reaction, whoa! Looks like I hit the nail on the head, eh? Combine that with your incessant harping on this "old man" theme in your interactions with males who are senior to you in age, and what's taking shape is a rather nasty picture of a family dynamic that could easily occupy the interest of a major psychopathology conference. I was wrong about you. You're a real Arturas Class sick puppy.

But relating that to the topic, this is exactly the right thread for it. You will have noted in the books that the philosophy is largely presented by exemplar and contrast. It is a time honored technique when what you want to communicate is not susceptible to being embodied in a concise list of bullet points. And even right here in this forum, a reader's grasp of what it is to be Gorean is often more greatly benefitted by observing the contrast between members and certain visitors than by pages of abstruse philosophical debate.

I can't imagine the role you play here being very fulfilling for you, of course. But if the mere attention that it gets you is reward enough, then sad as that may be I shall rest content that the benefit is mutual.

K.


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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/27/2011 3:50:53 AM   
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+1 to xBullx!
(Take that, peon!)

I need badges for all my fangirl statuses. :p
Address the idiocy aaaand the topic, and obliterate them both. :) nice.

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RE: What it is to be Gorean - 11/27/2011 7:00:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ishtarr

In my interactions with people, it seems rather obvious that most people use a different set of ethics with different people, depending on how close their ties are to that persons, even if this behavior is in absolute contradiction with the ethical system they ascribe to.




Greetings Mistress,

I really did not understand what you were saying here. Maybe it is because I am confusing ethics with moral values but I don't see how dealing with different people would change either of them. If you subscribe to an ethical system why would who you are dealing with change that?


well wishes
kisshou

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