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The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/30/2006 3:45:59 PM   
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 Tal and greetings,
Those of you who know Me know I do a column on Gor from a Christian Perspective. I've read such a number of posts on "what do Goreans believe" on CM lately, that I thought one of those columns could be benificially posted here. Now, despite the title, this one is not religious, it simply seeks to sum up 10 of the most important beliefs of the Gorean Free Man. (I do not say Master, because only one of them is actually specifically directed only to those who desire to own slaves) If there is sufficient interest, perhaps we might do a kajira's 10 Commandments.
These do not by any stretch of the imagination cover all of what it is to be Gorean, they are only a foundation, and doubtless there will be some who will say that this or that principle should have been added. I chose what are, in My belief the 10 most important. By all means feel free to post other relavant ones here. This thread could, with the proper direction and contribution become a starting point to be used to show what Goreans believe to those who are just learning, and have not gotten hold of the books yet.
Anyway, here are...
The Ten Commandments of Gor...
 
1.Be true to Yourself, and to what you believe.
This is certainly one of the most important traits of Goreans. Goreans, though each may have different codes, are true to them, and to what we believe in. Some are Christians; some are Jews, some Muslim, some Pagans, and some Agnostic. But each is required by their own integrity to follow their chosen beliefs, and uphold their principles. We must strive to do always what we believe to be right.

2.Take responsibility for Your actions, and their consequences.
This goes hand in hand with the above commandment.  Goreans are not "victims". We do not try to pass the responsibility for our actions onto someone, or something else. Goreans have the courage of their convictions. This does not mean we never make mistakes, but when we do, we freely admit them, and accept the consequences of them; and sometimes even when One is right, their actions bring consequences that are undesired. Goreans accept this, and strive to do that which is right, as best as we can see it at that time, regardless of the cost.

3.Your words are important, but Your actions are more so.
Pretty self-explanatory. Others can, and will, and indeed should judge as much by what they see, as to what they hear. If someone can spout quotations from the novels at the drop of a hat, that is good, and shows them to be a serious student of the philosophy, but if their life does not reflect said Philosophy, they are not very good examples of Goreans.

4.Be cautious, but always treat others with Honor, and as having Honor...until they prove otherwise.
Goreans tend to view outsiders with a jaundiced eye at times, and if you saw what goes on in a lot of so-called "Gorean" chat rooms, etc... You’d understand why. Nonetheless, Stranger does not automatically equal Enemy. (Yes, it's true that in the Gorean
language the same word used for stranger also means enemy, just as the Japanese word gohan is used both for eat, and rice. This does not mean that the stranger is always an enemy anymore than the Japanese means that you can only eat rice)

5.You can be both strong and gentle at the same time.
While strength can, and on occasions must be expressed in harshness, it can also, and sometimes should be expressed in gentleness. The Man who can't be gentle is not strong, merely a bully. Just as a blade must be tempered to be able to endure, so Power must be tempered with gentleness and compassion to become true strength.

6.Always be willing to teach those who truly desire to learn our ways.
Norman gave the world a great gift when he set down the codes and philosophies of Gor in the chronicles. While he did make a substantial amount of money from these efforts, that is not why he undertook them. He desired to share with the world a Philosophy of living in harmony with One's true nature, and not of denying who and what we are. While it takes study and effort to learn all the truths of this way of living, the information is there. Freely you have received, freely give.

7.Be strong and self-reliant, but do not be too proud to accept help when needed.
No Man is an island. Each of us, no matter how talented we may be, or what gifts we have been given, will sooner or later need the help of another. This is reality, and there is no shame whatsoever in admitting this, or accepting help when needed. Remember, while it is better to give than to receive, someone has to receive.

8.Appreciate beauty, wherever you find it.
The most battle-hardened warrior on Gor could be moved to tears by the beauty of a single wildflower. Beauty is all around you, in many different forms, and nourishes the soul. The Samurai for example, believed that no one who did not have an appreciation of art and poetry was a complete person.

9.Seek and encourage Greatness, in yourself and in others.
The mentality of the weak says, "we are all alike, and all equal" The mentality of the great says, "No, we all start out in life on equal footing, but as adults we are not alike. Become great, become as I am, and then we will be alike and equal" This is the attitude we should seek to hold at all times. To always strive to be more than we are, and to encourage, indeed by our example, demand the same of others. Nature is not static, that which does not move and grow, weakens, and dies. No matter how good you are now, you can become better.

10.Master yourself, and your surroundings before you attempt to Master another.
This is related to the preceding commandment, and is not limited to Those who desire to own a slave. (In the chronicles only about 5% of free actually owned slaves) In anything, before you attempt to step in, make sure that you can do whatever it is you are trying to do, better than the person who is already doing it. (Authority by virtue of ability) Now, specifically as related to keeping slaves... If you are not Master of your own body, passions, etc… How can you seek to Master another’s? You must lead, you must show the way, and you must be stronger than the one(s) serving you. If a truly devoted slave fails her Master, often it is the Master who failed to train her properly. You must remain firmly in command of Yourself.

                 Until next time...
                                                                                                                                      
                        I wish you well,

                                                Shreve


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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/30/2006 8:44:26 PM   
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oooo Master, trea likes those!  Would have to agree, those are all important contributions to Gor.  :) 

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/31/2006 2:36:45 AM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_218248/mpage_1/key_commandments%2CGor/tm.htm Here is an older post that touched on something similar. Well wishes, Cav's ally

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/31/2006 2:06:57 PM   
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Thank you ally, that was indeed an interesting thread. BTW, I have to say, you have the MOST gorgeous eyes :-)

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/31/2006 2:59:07 PM   
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Wow...    Thank you kindly, Master.   And you're most welcome! -Cav's ally

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/31/2006 8:45:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: allyC

Wow...    Thank you kindly, Master.   And you're most welcome! -Cav's ally


ally,

yes your eyes are stunning!

jezabel{KH}
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p.s. what eye makeup did you use to create that look?

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 5/31/2006 10:44:21 PM   
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Hello, jezabel and thank you for your kind words. I use a wide variety of makeup but for eyes (specifically shadow) I tend to lean toward MAC pigments and L'Oreal "On the Loose" loose powder shadow (which has been discontinued so I stocked up!)  I also have a large kit by Artistry as well as a kit by Ulta which are both very high pigment/high quality. You are welcome to e-mail me off-list if you want to talk about makeup and stuff.  That is one topic I could talk about for hours and I've learned about some excellent brands over the years for different purposes and effects..  ;) Well wishes and thank you again, Cav's ally

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/2/2006 1:09:16 PM   
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Ok, to help keep this thread interesting, would any of the girls be interested in submitting a 10 Commandments for kajira? preferably multiple versions from different girls for some lively interaction on this thread.

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/3/2006 2:26:50 PM   
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 I have been asked privately if the Original post may be used as a training aid to others in different areas. I hereby give permission for anyone to post the 10 Commandments anywhere, or use them in anyway for the purpose of teaching others as long as the following conditions are met: you may not modify the essay in anyway, and you must give credit to Me as the original author. Other than that, thanks for the interest, and I hope many will come to learn of our ways through it.

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 10:41:20 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShreveportMaster

Ok, to help keep this thread interesting, would any of the girls be interested in submitting a 10 Commandments for kajira? preferably multiple versions from different girls for some lively interaction on this thread.


Greetingts Master ShreveportMaster,

thank you for your original OP you have a wonderful writing style.

As for 10 kajira Commandments, I know of just two

1) absolute obedience
2)exquisite beauty

well wishes
kisshou

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 1:10:29 PM   
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 greetings kisshou,
you are quite correct in that the listed duties of kajira are exquisite beauty, and absolute obedience. What I was thinking of was more along the lines of Ten things to keep uppermost in mind to aid in achieveing that. I am glad you enjoyed the post, I've had a lot of folks, both Free and slave tell Me it was very helpful to them, which is why I wrote it.

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 3:46:15 PM   
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Hello there, Master Shreve. I can't really say I have a Gorean slave list of 10 commandments, however, I did throw together 10 things that I think are helpful for a female slave (or potential slave) to read and/or understand.  These are things I have learned over the past several years.  I hope that someone finds some value in them.    I'm sure I missed some important stuff but this was just off the top of my head. -------------------------- 1.  Always do your very best to be pleasing and remember that it is ultimately he that will decide whether or not you have been.  It is also his choice to whom you should be pleasing to. 2.  Strive for absolute obedience.  It will be those times when it is hardest to obey that your mettle as a slave will be tested. 3.  You are the chameleon.  You are the one who is expected to adapt to his needs.  Anticipate that his needs will change often.  Even if they don't, you will always be prepared. 4.  It is your owner's responsibility to punish and discipline you as he sees fit.  Punishing yourself to excess for failures or wrongdoings may impede his goals when it comes to your enslavement.  It is up to him to enslave you - not up to you to master yourself. 5.  Keep your focus on your owner.  It doesn't matter what Master Bob and bessieslave do, don't do, or think you should be doing.  It is not about your slavery, your service, or your path.  It is about him.  Your master is the orchestrator of your life, not your peers or your ideals. 6.  Do your best to effectively communicate with your Master beneath the guidelines he has set for such things.   7.  Do not decide what your owner can and cannot handle.  That is for him to decide.  Hiding your feelings, your truths, and your problems and allowing them to fester is not conducive to your being a healthy slave nor is it helpful in building a healthy relationship.   8.  As long as you remain in that (figurative or literal) collar, your choices are his, your rights are his, and your life is his.   He may choose your job, friends, food, hairstyle, political party affiliation, hobbies - everything.  Do you best to accept those choices he makes with humility and grace. 9.  Embrace all of those things within (and on the outside) yourself that make you feminine and beautiful.  Always remember that while it is he who determines your value and beauty, it is you who possess those traits, qualities, and talents that can bring that beauty and value to the forefront.  Utilize that potential. 10.  Always remember that you do not live in a book, a movie, an ideal, or a chatroom.  Life is imperfect.  Just as you are imperfect so is he.  Do not expect him to be some sort of demigod.  He will make mistakes sometimes.  Don't let those mistakes bring you to think less of him as a man and master, just allow them to gently remind you that he too is human.  ------------------------- Well wishes, Cav's ally 

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 4:33:39 PM   
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Excellent!!! this is exactly the type of thing I was looking for.
Now, any other lovlies have thoughts they'd like to share on this?


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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 4:42:00 PM   
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Wonderful words, ally.  Thank you for sharing a real and beautiful look at how slavery should be approached. 

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 8:58:01 PM   
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What! Master's aren't Demi-gods!!! All my illusions are shattered! 

Seriously, ally, those are beautiful. trea always has issues with number four.  she just cannot help the feeling that she has failed and it drives her crazy.  may trea pin your set up on her website along with Master Shreve's??? please oh please?


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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/4/2006 10:40:36 PM   
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Thank you, Master Shreve & puella :) Hiya chantrea.   Sure you're welcome to put them up!  Thanks!    :) I have trouble with several of them still.  I figure I'm about as imperfect as they get but I keep pluggin' along.  *smiles* Well wishes, Cav's ally

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/5/2006 3:32:39 AM   
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To be loved and wanted as an imperfect is pretty wonderful ally... I think you are doing more than okay.  I think you are a very strong gush of sense and sensibility for women to look at and work toward.

I hope that you and your Master continue such a beautiful life.. living and loving imperfectly, two imperfect people.. who together can try to be perfect for each other, and probably in the context of such an real dynamic, make each other better people for knowing and loving each other.

I think that is important too.... this person you have chosen to be with.. slave or free.. do they inspire you to be a better person, and perhaps more pointedly, a better you?

There is always a better you to be had, it's lovely t see too people being better together.

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/5/2006 5:07:13 AM   
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ally

that was a great list!  There are two more things I would add. 1)Loyalty- the Owner has my absolute loyalty ( I wish I had a better description than that but hope you all know what I mean by the statement)

2)Discretion- having the privledge of being at his feet has also put me in the position to learn and hear many things about the Owner and his business but it is His business and not to be talked about

Edana had put up a post not too long ago about learning to accept if an Owner does not want to tell you where he is going or what he is doing. That can be very difficult to accept that if he says it is none of your business , then you have to stop questioning and wondering. I guess that falls under a trust/obedience/knowing your place item.

What I basically keep uppermost in my mind everyday is 'what have I accomplished today that has made his life better'

well wishes
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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/5/2006 6:05:47 PM   
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Thank you, puella, for your very kind words. I also hope that my master and I continue to have such a good life together.  I consider myself to be very fortunate to belong to such an extraordinary man.   Well wishes and again, thank you. Cav's ally

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RE: The Ten Commandments of Gor - 6/7/2006 1:19:59 AM   
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Master sherve greetings


that is wondeful and it hold true to anyone i read it as you suggest '
and understand it well very nice and i do hope all holds to it

best wishes

mons/jane

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