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chasity - 1/13/2012 5:12:17 PM

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Want to be put in chasity belt,. Does this make me a better sub, willing to obey and serve badly

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 5:25:18 PM

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No. Not necessarily. It may make you a better sub for a Domme that's into having her sub in chastity. Others may say you'd be a better sub if you could keep your hands off of it w/o being forced to by a CB6000(or whatever).

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 8:26:04 PM

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It makes you a bad sub because you don't want to obey. You just want some woman to use toys on you; it's not submissive or obedient to tell a person what to do to you.

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 8:52:45 PM

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I'm sorry, but there is no connection between wanting to be put in chastity and being willing to obey and serve.

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 9:03:30 PM

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I would think that if you need to be put in chastity, if there's any connection at all, it's because you are less likely to obey of your own accord without the help of the chastity device keeping your hands off of your willy. As for serving, I'd think there'd be absolutely no correlation whatsoever.

Chastity can be fun, esp when you use it hand in hand along with cucking, hehe, but there is no connection between chastity and someone's ability to obey and serve.

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 9:31:53 PM

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Pardon the interruption.

If, in passing, any were to mention WHY?, that would be of interest to those of us who just don't get it.

P.S. This is not a hijack attempt, don't make one out of it.

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 9:36:43 PM

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lol

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RE: chasity - 1/13/2012 10:28:07 PM

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Ok OP, I have to say it.

1) learn how to spell your kink: it's "chastity" not "chasity" The little red wavy line that appears under it when you type it is a clue. Use it.

2) you asked pretty much this exact same question before and got the same responses. Do you have that much trouble with your memory or are you just trolling to find someone to harass on the other side?

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 8:38:21 AM

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FR

FFS, OP, 81 replies weren't enough that you had to ask the question again 2 months later?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3883670/mpage_1/tm.htm

I'm sure the answers haven't changed.

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 8:49:01 AM

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ka4u, you may think that coming up with similar questions gets you out there so people can see you and you stand a chance of meeting someone that will do what you want, but the chances of that happening aren't very likely when you are focused on your cock and what you get out of it. Few want someone that is totally about that or thinks even after we have discussed it with him already... that it would make him more obedient. You are fixated on the state of your cock and most find that a turn off and you know how we feel as we already told you. Few of us like to repeat ourselves.

What you are showing is that you are fixated, lack memory skills that would make you an asset and that a dominant isn't what is most important to you... but your kink is. There may be a woman like the one you describe that will accept what you have to offer and see it as you want her to... but I don't know anyone that would.

Stop with your self focus and trying to involve us... as you have proven it isn't about serving or being obedient.. it is about your cock. So why ask if it will make you better, you aren't fooling anyone but maybe yourself. If you really wanted to be obedient or good at serving, you would ask different questions.

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 11:05:33 AM

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Yay Lockit!! You tell it like it is!!

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 11:57:55 AM

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Yes.
It will defo make you a better sub.
I read it in sub weekly.

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 12:08:08 PM

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a real slave would rub his todger with Deep Heat/Ben Gay first, and line the device with fresh nettles.

Just sayin'...

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 12:16:11 PM

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& then put it on, lock it up & throw the key away

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 12:22:45 PM

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Thats in the advanced manual, silly.

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

a real slave would rub his todger with Deep Heat/Ben Gay first, and line the device with fresh nettles.

Just sayin'...

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 12:41:23 PM

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doh!!

Now I feel really stoopid...

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RE: chasity - 1/14/2012 12:54:43 PM

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Being 'willing to obey and serve badly' doesn't really help, either..........now if you were willing to obey and serve well that might help...........

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