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"Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:40:11 PM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		I was told to come here with my question.
My Dom has asked me to set up a threesome (3 years ago) with another woman, and the guilt has built up so much that I am determined to get it done. But I am having quite a bit of trouble. I am looking for a woman willing to join in, who will either submit to him or at least not try to Domme him. How she wants to treat me is irrelevant. I have looked all over the internet, and can't seem to have any luck.

I have moved away from school, and will only be home for a week in february, so I need to find a girl in advance.

Does anyone have any advice on how to do this?
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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:43:40 PM   
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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:45:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

actually, I am pretty sure that peppermint was suggesting that you READ these threads....


Thank you, Greedy.  I was just going to point that out to her when I saw she'd started a new thread.  You saved me the trouble. 

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:45:55 PM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		lol.... might have been a good idea.

But quite honestly, I'm not looking for someone for anything long term. I get the concept of a poly lifestyle, and that is NOT what we are looking for. I simple want to find someone for a one time deal. I couldn't share him full time with someone. He is free to be with other women, but I don't to be actively involved. I just want to get this together once, as a gift to him.

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:48:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		My best suggestion for you is to pay for it.  If I remember correctly, prostition is legal in Canada.  So, find a lady.  Persent her to your boy friend as a gift. 

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:51:15 PM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		Any advice on how to go about that?

I have never picked up a hooker before. I tried looking online but didn't seem to go so well...

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 10:59:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you are in college then I'd ask some of the college guys you know.  Heck, prostitution is illegal where I live.  I have never needed one.  I have never looked for one. 

Better yet, ask your boyfriend.  He can ask his guy friends. 

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 11:02:10 PM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		I'll ask some guys.

My Dom REFUSES to have any part in the process. He wants me to find her. He's awesome at driving me absolutely nuts!!!
Thanks for the advice :)

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 11:06:34 PM   
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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/21/2012 11:16:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		look in the personal ads in the newspaper under "Escorts and personal services" that's where you find em in Aussie

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 12:37:10 AM   
SpiritedRadiance


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ORIGINAL: Blonde18sub

I'll ask some guys.

My Dom REFUSES to have any part in the process. He wants me to find her. He's awesome at driving me absolutely nuts!!!
Thanks for the advice :)


then tell him you refuse to find someone, because his opinion matters as well....


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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:04:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Blonde18sub
who will either submit to him
So, you're looking for a woman who is willing to submit to a stranger.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Blonde18sub


But quite honestly, I'm not looking for someone for anything long term.
And a quick bang.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Blonde18sub

My Dom REFUSES to have any part in the process. He wants me to find her.
And he's set you up to fail...how nice. Most women don't want to deal with the female, when the Dom male is the person that holds the power.

So, really, Craigslist a hooker in the personal ads section.




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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:09:57 AM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		She doesn't have to submit to him, but she can't try to dominate him AT ALL. I found a woman who wanted to and he flipped.
If she has no sub/Domme tendencies thats fine too.

And sort of a quick band yes... She can have dinner with us and spend the night, but we aren't looking for a relationship.

When I find "possibles" he will say yes or no, but he want's me to find her. I don't get it but that's what he wants.

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:11:35 AM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		Tried craigslist, okcupid, fetlife and here. I didn't post about hookers cause they banned that on craigslist like last year.

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:14:17 AM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		And Blondie, if you were being approached by a random stranger asking if you wanted to sleep with her and her boyfriend, what would your answer be?

With Stds, and such most arent willing to just randomly jump into bed as a threesome...with out knowing the people involved... and most women arent going to say yes to the sub in a D/s context for the simple reason .. why go through the busboy when you need to speak to the manager?


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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:24:13 AM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		Depends how hot her boyfriend is? And how much I've drank?
And were using condoms.

Maybe I'm a slut....

And if I had it my way he would just pick a girl. But he wants me to do it.

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:25:45 AM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		That my dear is called being set up to fail... Again if you had an issue with a restaurant, would you talk to the busboy... or the Manager?

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:26:58 AM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the advice

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:28:11 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Since you imply that in three years(?) he hasn't it brought it up again, I suspect this is more about you than him. And not for the reason (guilt) you state.

If ya wanna fuck a chick, or vice versa just say so. Don't think it'd make any difference, but at least be honest about it.

< Message edited by GreedyTop -- 1/22/2012 10:29:24 AM >

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RE: "Unicorn" - 1/22/2012 10:30:03 AM   
Blonde18sub


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Status: offline 		No he brings it up. He makes little comments and stuff.
I had a near break down a few months back cause I felt so bad, and he told me it didn't matter to him and he was kidding.
My bullshit sensor went nuts and ever since I've been feeling so guilty.

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