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RE: The little things you do - 1/31/2012 7:18:44 PM

Ogrelord999

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Okay so Self appointed Queen of the message boards is going to stalk me and everything I wrote ... well okay so be it ...look kids tried to play but the "opinion " police are roustin me me outa town ::: cue tumbleweeds and musical train whistles:::: Ill just report it/you to managemennt and move on ... For myself and my wife I thank you very much if not for you we might have met some truly stellar people ...yer a saint im sure

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RE: The little things you do - 1/31/2012 7:55:32 PM

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Stalk everything you say? Honestly? Really? Sorry i dont have time for that nor do I care to waste what time I have on something frivilous like that.

I disagreed with your opinion, nothing more nothing less..If you cant see that thats all it is or wish to think its more, thats your own insecurities, has nothing to do with me...

When something as silly as what cooking oil, or what canned something, can send someone to their death because of severe allergies... I think thats life threatening.. I cant be the only person in the world with severe allergies... Its a reminder to know your partner before you do stupid shit like try to kill them in an attempt to be nice....

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RE: The little things you do - 1/31/2012 9:49:33 PM

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I don't like cut flowers either. Rather he spent that money on buying me a good dinner , or some other treat.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/1/2012 5:41:40 AM

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Well I would darlin but apperantly It would kill you or something ... excuse me I have to go hold a middle school hostage with a PB&J sammitch ...nough said.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/1/2012 5:49:31 AM

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quote:

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*I dont like flowers bought for me ever, why give someone a gift thats going to die? Why not get me something useful, like a new toaster, or vacuum, or tool kit...

*Id rather you buy me the 2 to 3xl because it means I dont have to go through the added hassle of returning it for the right size and waste my time... a gift shouldnt require more work on my part to fix your mistakes...If you dont know that i adore my clothing 9 sizes too big for cuddle weather..Well.....

*Seeing as most people cooking for me try to kill me by forgetting extremely important things like we do not add onions or anything that comes with onions or could have been packaged with onions.., Cooking for me doesnt impress me, it makes me think your trying to kill me... If my own mother can forget things that have onions ...I dont have much faith in others remembering, or checking the labels on everything they pick up.. (seriously go to the kitchen there wont be a single prepackaged or partially made thing that doesnt have some form of onion ((spices mean onion powder)))

If you are in a relationship with someone, they should already know that you do not like flowers and cannot eat onions. If they don' then they do not care.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/1/2012 5:57:46 AM

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****OsideGirl I would have to agree, if you are trying to be romantic, do not buy me something we need. get me something I want. I tend to spend money on the things we need, but rarely do I spend money on myself. But listen, if she says she wants something specific, take note. Don't get something she won't like, doesn't want. Several times I have gotten nice gifts I don't want/need/wont use, just because they felt they needed to buy me something.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/1/2012 6:11:29 AM

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I can't help but feel like there's a lot of bitterness over what should have been a really sweet topic. But I'm going to try and get it back on track.

While I'm at work, I pay attention to traffic, to business. I know whether or not the university down the road is open, and what time of the month it is (Not like that, you guys. I mean when people have -money-) too. I can tell when my girls are absolutely slammed at work, and could use a break at home. Perhaps the only benefit of going to work at four AM is that I'm the first one home, giving me enough time to take care of all the little things they usually do. It's funny though, they seem awfully motivated to keep doing all the little things I like done to me...

When they come home, I don't just greet them. I get up and hug them. I ask about their day. I see how they are, and how they are feeling. I want to know, and I'm pretty sure they like knowing I care. No matter how bad their day went, as soon as they come through that door, I make sure it becomes a good one. It seems to be working, they keep coming through that door.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/1/2012 6:37:24 AM

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Well I would darlin but apperantly It would kill you or something ... excuse me I have to go hold a middle school hostage with a PB&J sammitch ...nough said.

Seriously, you're over reacting and picking fights where there aren't any.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/1/2012 7:44:54 AM

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He has reserved the use of "Daddy" for me. He'll also only call me baby. My spot in bed, is my spot in bed. It's the same for the other woman in our life. Whatever pet name he calls her, remains hers alone. Her spot in the bed is her spot in the bed. That way be both feel that we have something with him that is special to us.

Your advice is always very good, OG. This is something I've tripped on before, when I find myself using some phrase or term of endearment I normally have only said to my wife and wonder if she'd mind me using it with another. (I know, just ask, but it's too late to clear it up when the words "My sweet little pumpkin" are halfway out). This seems like a great thing to add to the conversations you have on starting poly relationships: what terms of affection everyone considers "theirs" (if any), as well as things you suggested like what part of the bed belongs to who, etc.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/2/2012 12:52:44 PM

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****OSidegirl well pointless though it was now ... The Original post was actually tounge in cheek ... why would you start with grandiose and end with putting down a toilet seat? ... after a week of getting Lambasted with nothing but crap for some poser here before me, I have little paitence left and the offending individual knows this quite well as she already contacted me by mail about it. the arrogance of assumptions made were what set me off ... criticizing what was meant to be humor in the first place, who asked her if what I DO would please her? and seems to me because she has realworld issues with HER MEN trying to poison her has nothing to do with her need to try and rule over others here ... MOST OF THE WOMEN I KNOW ... have husbands who get pissed at ME because of something I did for Betsy and their WIVES give them a laod of crap for not being as atuned or attentive. After 42 years and five Children frankly I think Ive more than earned my stripes in the Male/ female arena .. her mouthing off was rude , disrespectful , assuming , and wholy written form a singular perspective ... not to mention hypocritical even from its base ... and yes to some extent you are correct , if not for this "Arpig" affair and had I not recognized her name from my mailbox on the matter ... and masquerading as "Hanna" ... I might not have cared as much what some faceless harpie from BF PA thought period . however as i said , nuff said on that subject. It wont happen again cause shes permenently on ignore status reguardless of what she has to say.

...weelll okay except For ... this one thing .... Like the assumption I would prepare anything out of a packet ... thats not cooking ...thats "heating shite up " TWO WORDS on the subject WHOLE FOODS! if they are worried about its contents they should get off their lazy Butts and actually cook ... someone not aware fo this has NO BUISSNESS confronting me on MY Culinary habits ... :::Pant Pant Pant ::::: okay there now im done ... for real ... I swear this time ... no really im not just takin a piss!

****Goddessalexa ...Thoughtless gifts , no matter how expensive or rare , are still thoughtless ...as where something simple and cheap if the reciever has their heart invested and their thoughts aligned to your heart and desires in it can make all the difference in the world. Its the fact that they either "Know" or in early stages attempting to know ... that matter. Okay you got me is that an AR15 ? the muzzle foresight config says yes , but dont recognize the stock or the foregrip on it ... so many polycarb kits these days and its not easy to see the weapon in the pick :) No not a weapons fanatic nor former military why do you ask ??? :) Also girls with guns are about the sexyest damn thing on the planet!

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RE: The little things you do - 2/2/2012 1:01:41 PM

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Oh just chill.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/2/2012 1:41:49 PM

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Yeah, I would suggest taking the chip off of your shoulder otherwise your stay here won't be very enjoyable.

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RE: The little things you do - 2/2/2012 2:59:50 PM

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Take a breath everyone that needs it.

Thank you for your contribution to the forums,
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RE: The little things you do - 2/2/2012 3:06:22 PM

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I like peonies, gifts that are just little luxuries he thinks (or knows) I might like, omelettes, and all the other things ogrelord mentioned. Of course, you should tailor your gift to the person (and I believe he made that point) but I'd say most ladies would enjoy the things he mentioned)

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RE: The little things you do - 2/2/2012 4:41:58 PM

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"Chilled"

"chip ? we dont neeed no stinking chip"

< Message edited by Ogrelord999 -- 2/2/2012 4:43:16 PM >

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