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Zaithian -> Interracial (5/4/2012 5:25:46 PM)

I am curious as to what some people think as to what interracial means. I am a dominant male, and of Indian decent (not Native American). I see a lot of subs ask for a interracial relationship, but its always a black male. Now I find nothing wrong with this one bit, but is that all interracial is nowadays? What happened to well anyone just being with anyone despite "color".

Tell me what you think, Im interested to know what other submissives have to say about this.

Zaithian

PS: Sorry if this subject upsets anyone, just letting my own curiosities of society getting the better of me.



JanahX -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 5:35:01 PM)

I dont know very many people that know exactly what 100% of their bloodline is here in the US - We are talking 500 years of blood mixing. And even if someone has a good idea - there isnt anyone to say that the milkman didnt slip one in.

Most my friends are of mixed race anymore. So its kinda like ... take your pick....



Alecta -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 5:45:08 PM)

You're confusing the word "interracial" with an "interracial fetish", I think.

As for why "black" is so often preferred in North America, I'm sure it's got to do with the history of African Americans in North America. There is something of a similar trend in some British communities for East Indians, I hear.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 5:52:43 PM)

Oh, i don't know about that. I have had a serious lust for black men from a very early age, way before I even knew of the history involved.

I just like the skin contrast.

Or perhaps there is something in my genetic makeup that screams: this is a good match.

I would say, as a general rule, Caucasian women (from the US) are not attracted to Indian males. Not sure why that is, it could be very cultural.




Zaithian -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 7:17:51 PM)

Hmm alright, I suppose it cleared up a few questions, though I find it annoying honestly. Im not the typical Indian male, by far, and sadly people do judge by the "cover of a book" as the expression goes.



kalikshama -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 7:35:25 PM)

I loved my time on an ashram in upstate New York, where I hooked up with men from around the world, including India. I didn't have an interracial fetish, but a lust for a change from my newly ex-husband, who was from Iowa and of German descent.




Alecta -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 7:54:00 PM)

In making that statement you are perpetrating the Indian male stereotype though lol
Almost all of them argue along the lines of "I'm not typical, don't dismiss me because of my colour" and "I can't get a date because I look Indian"... You can't get people to overlook your ethnicity if you're the one bringing it up.

It's like being a gentleman. You don't present yourself as a gentleman by saying you are one, you do it by acting it. So don't try to convince people with lines like "I'm not your typical Indian guy, please give me a chance", act it :) People appreciate authenticity. If you hold some traditional values that you're afraid modern women won't find attractive, it is the better thing to explain that you hold that value, why, and how you hope they could deal with it rather than pretend you don't have it and cause them to think you're a liar or hypocrite when you act in accordance to that value.



poise -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 8:02:41 PM)

Hi Zaithian, welcome to the message board.

I most often think black and white when I see the term interracial, and would see
a relationship between a man from india and a woman from the USA as cross cultural,
regardless of the skin color of the women.

I wouldn't use the keyword interracial in your search for a compatible submissive partner,
as Alecta stated, the majority of those profiles are using that term in the fetish sense.
This does not mean that there aren't many women out there that could find interest in you,
but that their interest would be all encompassing, and not just focused on your race.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 8:17:05 PM)

Well... We did have a thread or... okay, we had two about all the hot non-white fellows we adore!



WestBaySlave -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 8:28:37 PM)


My personal zone of regionally optimized hotness is more or less southernmost Europe and most of north Africa eastward through the Middle East and almost all of India. I love guys from that part of the world. My ex was Arab and most of the most attractive folk here in Vancouver are from India.

Perhaps you're just trying the wrong gender? [sm=angel.gif]




girl91 -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 8:33:05 PM)

My opinion of interrical is have relations with someone outside of your race. But I have seen where a lot would just categorize as black, as I'm with a black male/female.



Killerangel -> RE: Interracial (5/4/2012 8:44:54 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Zaithian

Hmm alright, I suppose it cleared up a few questions, though I find it annoying honestly. Im not the typical Indian male, by far, and sadly people do judge by the "cover of a book" as the expression goes.


Everyone out there deals with this to a certain extent. We all are marginalized and stereotyped because of something. It's what humans do. We can't escape it, it's a survival tactic and how we see information.

One of the biggest loves of my life was Indian.
So you might have to try a bit harder, I'm not trivializing your experience but show me someone that has nothing against them....

Acknowledge what happens and work to overcome it. There's really nothing else to do unless you want to let your race dictate your life.



FrostedFlake -> RE: Interracial (5/5/2012 2:08:46 AM)

There will be a day when the word 'interracial' is retired.

I hope I'm still here then, but I'm not holding my breath.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Interracial (5/5/2012 8:09:08 AM)

-fast reply-

In my experience I mostly hear the phrase 'interracial relationships' referring to one partner who is white and the other who is Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi. I suspect that's just because I live in an area of the UK where those are the most common ethnic groups. Perhaps if I lived in an area with a large black community I would hear the word used in that sense. I find it a bit daft that people feel the need to have a saying for a relationship between people of different races because... well, what does it matter?

If you're referring to people who have a fetish for sleeping with someone of a particular skin colour or race, then I'm afraid that's just how it is. Some people find black people more attractive, for the same reason some people find fat women, or tall men, or large feet, or people with facial hair more attractive. Just how they're wired. Nothing you can do about it. There's no point feeling sorry for yourself or wishing those people would give you a shot. I assure you there are people out there with a preference for exactly the kind of guy you are - but perhaps you need to focus less on the 'interracial' word and just go looking for someone who finds you hot.



sincelo -> RE: Interracial (5/5/2012 12:56:01 PM)

quote:

but perhaps you need to focus less on the 'interracial' word and just go looking for someone who finds you hot.


QFT



Wheldrake -> RE: Interracial (5/5/2012 3:12:28 PM)

An interracial relationship is a relationship between people of different races. There's inevitably going to be some fuzziness about what constitutes a "race", but there's no reason to restrict the term specifically to African/European. I suspect this combination gets a lot of attention in America (and probably some other places) because people of African descent are the most obvious visible minority there and because the relationship between African-Americans and European-Americans has historical, slavery-related overtones that some kinksters are bound to find sexually interesting.

I'm a white man who belongs to a woman of mixed Indian and east Asian descent, and that has some fun overtones too. In our experience it's perfectly safe and comfortable to explore BDSM from that angle as long as one doesn't lose sight of the fact that the other participant is an individual, rather than just a representative of a racial category. If you're particularly interested in white submissives, maybe you just need to convince them that you want to take revenge for the Raj and/or subject them to intricate cruelties that only a scion of the land of Kali and the Thuggees could possibly devise.



naughtyafterdark -> RE: Interracial (5/11/2012 7:53:34 AM)

race or colour has never been an issue with me, i dont see it , i see the person within , the fact that i am of european persuasion doesnt bother the men in my life nor does the decent of them matter to me in the least. Personally ,, cutting down the playing field and seeking only one specific race seems wrong any way i look at it



mnottertail -> RE: Interracial (5/11/2012 9:58:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

I dont know very many people that know exactly what 100% of their bloodline is here in the US - We are talking 500 years of blood mixing. And even if someone has a good idea - there isnt anyone to say that the milkman didnt slip one in.

Most my friends are of mixed race anymore. So its kinda like ... take your pick....


From what I can see of your boobs, there was a milkman in there somewhere in your clan.



mnottertail -> RE: Interracial (5/11/2012 10:00:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake

There will be a day when the word 'interracial' is retired.

I hope I'm still here then, but I'm not holding my breath.


No real master could have just interethnical sex, it just dont sound hot enough.



NakisisaX -> RE: Interracial (5/11/2012 10:12:03 AM)

It means getting with someone who doesn't look like you or your parents, grandparents and on up the lineage.



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