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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/9/2012 11:29:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: Duskypearls

Maybe I'm more dense than most, but I can't figure out what kind of response to, "Hi, I'm a can of corn.", he might expect that would be either funny or alluring. Can anyone help me with this? All that comes to mind is, "Well, helllooooo Kernel, can I chew on your cob?"

My response was, "Regular or creamed?"

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/9/2012 2:37:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: TxShrouded

Damn this is depressing. I've heard stories like this from subs but thought it was an exaggeration. No wonder so many out there are really leery and jaded. I wish we Doms could find a way of policing ourselves. It would be in out own interest. There seriously needs to be a way to boot the tourists and the broken. Someone mentioned that a lot of the 'Doms" had issues in normal relationships and now I believe it.

I think we need to come up with a certification. UL approved or Better Homes and Gardens sadist LOL.

When I got into this (pre-internet), I was mentored by someone who had been in the life since the 60's which was hugely helpful. It allowed me that this isn't an entitlement, it's a gift that is given to you.

Seriously, there should be a training program.

You are just beginning to get an idea of how unpleasant it can be for us. Although I am somewhat innured to it now, the first few months of excessive, obnoxious, inappropriate suggestions and demands that came from all kinds of lunatics really knocked me off my mark, for a while. And yes, it has jaded me more than I like.

You say there should be a training program. I say there should be a mental health inspection. Maybe both!

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/9/2012 5:56:48 PM

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this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/9/2012 6:12:27 PM

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eeerr......huh?

Who are you talking about? The op? Someone else?

When you email a woman on here with "you're hot" it's the same as construction men whistling while she walks by. Next time try conversation.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/9/2012 6:22:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: DADDY4LIFE

this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

English please

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/10/2012 4:27:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: DADDY4LIFE

this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

Dude, the title of this thread is "The worst Dom you've ever met." You jumping in here and posting an incoherent defense of yourself isn't a ringing endorsement.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/10/2012 8:30:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: DADDY4LIFE

this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

Wow...such charming randomness.....

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/10/2012 9:45:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: DADDY4LIFE

this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

Please speak English.

You also might want to note that, as this is a kink site, Fucking, Ass and Asses are acceptable words to use.
You don't have to act like you're passing notes in 8th grade and have to worry about having a day added to your suspension for profanity.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/10/2012 7:05:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

You also might want to note that, as this is a kink site, Fucking, Ass and Asses are acceptable words to use.
You don't have to act like you're passing notes in 8th grade and have to worry about having a day added to your suspension for profanity.

We can say asses on here?! Since when?

Fucking ass... I didn't know that.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/15/2012 8:18:19 PM

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...so on the original subject--butting in here, sorry--

My first dom refused to satisfy my masochism. At all. Oh, she'd fulfill her sadistic streak all right, by tickling me, but she refused to hit me even when I begged, and even when I told her I didn't like being tickled.

So she got to be sadistic and I got stuck with the bad-unpleasant feelings and nothing even remotely enjoyable.

Oh, and she was emotionally abusive as fuck.

I'm not even going to mention the million and five dumb twoo doms who have messaged me online.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 10/16/2012 12:14:37 AM

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One of my X's who claimed he was a dom let his mom and his grandma completely run and negatively meddle in his life at 30.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 8:15:48 AM

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A new contender!!

What a fat, classless, unsophisticated moron. Nice 10 year old photo of your fat head. And do you buy all your clothed at Walmart? Idiotic. Anoter loser on social services screwing around all day online. Repulsive...

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 1:31:21 PM

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I met one Dom (not from here) who seemed perfectly nice, answered all my questions politely.. We met for lunch and were talking...I mentioned the safety emails I get from my Dom friend..that week's had been about making sure I never played with someone unprepared for something going wrong. I made a joke about not wanting to end up on the 6:00 news as the "soccer mom" firefighter had to cut down... He got all freaked and angry started yelling, if anything went wrong, I COULD NOT call 911...I am too important..I would call my friend's in the city police dept to come "take care of the situation".... I obviously left. Please note, he was not a political figure, community leader, religiigous leader...he was just a regular accountant

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 1:40:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I think I still hold the record for the worst pick up line ever:

"Hi, I'm a can of corn."

OH that one is great! That makes me think of all kinds of weird things.

Dulcolax or miralax.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 9:19:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

The answer to them has to be:

WHAT WOULD YOU KNOW ABOUT GIVING SOMEONE A GOOD FUCK!!!

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ORIGINAL: Delilya

I get messages from Doms wishing to convert me. Most say all I need is a good fuck.

Come on give them crdit...these are the same guys that think foreplay is what you yell playing golf!

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 9:51:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: Toppingfrmbottom

One of my X's who claimed he was a dom let his mom and his grandma completely run and negatively meddle in his life at 30.

Oh, I *HATE* that type. I deal with lots of those in real life. They usually are the worst misogynists. It's so much fun to verbally emasculate and humiliate them in front of their mothers, male friends, and GF's...and their mothers LOVE Me.

"No Mom, even if I was single I would NOT be interested in your pathetic, whiny, girly-man of a son whom I had to tow out of a ditch last week...Darn, I promised not to tell you about that because that's YOUR car he went off the road with. OOPSEY!"

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 9:55:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: DADDY4LIFE

this is Fing funny all because i said she was hot .....wow people need to get their head out their @ss Get A LIFE! and then she tried to get me to do what she wanted ....get real!!! Collarme is a place to enjoy life not walk around with a stick up your @ss

Actually, having looked around at peoples profiles quite a bit, I've found that some people on CM actually DO like to have sticks up their @sses...or at least things that RESEMBLE sticks. Just an observation. :P

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/9/2012 10:58:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

I met one Dom (not from here) who seemed perfectly nice, answered all my questions politely.. We met for lunch and were talking...I mentioned the safety emails I get from my Dom friend..that week's had been about making sure I never played with someone unprepared for something going wrong. I made a joke about not wanting to end up on the 6:00 news as the "soccer mom" firefighter had to cut down... He got all freaked and angry started yelling, if anything went wrong, I COULD NOT call 911...I am too important..I would call my friend's in the city police dept to come "take care of the situation".... I obviously left. Please note, he was not a political figure, community leader, religiigous leader...he was just a regular accountant

A boring accountant freaking about 911 saying hed call his friends the cpps to fix it...is in witness protection!

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/10/2012 10:59:59 AM

littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: colorilluminates

...so on the original subject--butting in here, sorry--

My first dom refused to satisfy my masochism. At all. Oh, she'd fulfill her sadistic streak all right, by tickling me, but she refused to hit me even when I begged, and even when I told her I didn't like being tickled.

So she got to be sadistic and I got stuck with the bad-unpleasant feelings and nothing even remotely enjoyable.

Oh, and she was emotionally abusive as fuck.

I'm not even going to mention the million and five dumb twoo doms who have messaged me online.

So you were basically demanding she satisfy you. OK then.

I personally see this being as much your fault as her's. Sounds like neither of you even knew each other at all. Total strangers?

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 11/12/2012 2:57:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

The worst Dom? My ex boyfriend who only understood the physical, not the emotional.

The funniest Dom? When I was just a young innocent sub, I visited my first BDSM club in NYC. I immediately met a very tall, dark and handsome guy who quickly started chatting me up. We ended up going a date and I really liked him until he told me that there were rules to being submissive and one of them was that subs never come as orgasms are only for Dominants.

I laughed and threw him out. He was so shocked and was the first of many men who stated "you must not be a real submissive."

loool Subs dont get to cum!!!!! thats soooooo stupid... for god's sake the term Dominant needs to be taught better in schools nowadays and those idiot who call themselves a dominant and demand stupid things like this need to get a life.

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