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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/29/2012 11:56:22 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: kalthus

So what have you had suggested or attempted that just made you cringe, not submit?


I have too many stories to choose just one. But a few of the worst Dommes that I've ever met include:

1) The Domme who insisted on using illegal drugs and alcohol before play. She was always either high or "tipsy". She's the only Domme who ever caused me to have to go to the hospital. I know better now, and I'd never play with a Domme who was under the influence of drugs or alcohol. But back then, I thought with my little head instead of my big head. I was submitting to her beauty, not her dominance, and I paid the price for that bad judgement.

2) The "Domme" who was too shy to have a decent conversation during our first meeting. She stared down at the table during the entire meal, talked in a tone that was almost a whisper, and was visibly nervous (even though she requested the meeting). When I finally asked her to speak louder, she said "Yes Sir" in a very submissive tone.

3) Every Domme who attempts the "Insta-Domme" approach in their first e-mail to me. You know the ones that I'm talking about. Their first message usually goes like this; "On your knees bitch boi! Kneel before your superior Goddess, you lowly worm!"

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/29/2012 1:01:55 PM   
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My message for today was some guy asking me to go to Texas to pose on his Harley. Like I'm supposed to be impressed.



i got that one yesterday with a pic of a cock in some blondes mouth and another of his bike. oh yeah and an offer to pay for my ticket when i was ready to travel.

i wrote back with "may we all find our bliss".



Aaaww...that's so sweet.

There was this guy who kept sending me emails trying to be nice at first and then descended into rudeness so I eventually wrote back "May the Lord bless you". I don't think he knew what to say after that because he never did respond.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/29/2012 2:00:55 PM   
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And the walls came tumbling down......

I had a wednesday off from work, he said he couldnt do a wednesday. But then he had a marvelous idea!
I had complained we do nothing but sessions, frustrating sessions at that  and his way  of making up for it and keep me interested was to take me on a short vacation! He had planned it all out, we fly  off into the sunset for a few days. Music to my ears, this is what I had been waiting for, some sign, some gesture of appreciation, I was pumped!
..................Sounds great huh? 
He scheduled it all my mandatory work days ( he knew)  and drum roll plz.........His words to me "All you have to do is pay for it on your credit card!"

THE END.


Honestly, you can't possibly be surprised.


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/29/2012 4:42:31 PM   
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Avoid those who don't accept themselves.


Nice first post!



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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/30/2012 1:11:45 AM   
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This one "dom" I first communicated with online and then the phone, set up a real time meeting with me at a public place. When he discovered that commanding me to go home with him (that same day) didn't work and then when trying to coerce me by saying he would cease contact
with me if I didn't go home with him also didn't work, he started b-e-g-g-i-n-g me to go home with him. Yeah. That was attractive.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/30/2012 11:15:59 AM   
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I had to share this gem which just arrived in my inbox:

"im in a fraternity at umass..want to be our fraternity house bitch for a weekend?"

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/30/2012 10:39:30 PM   
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Here's yet another contender:

"do you have a daughter, as you are busy maybe I can cum in her. make sure she looks like dad or the mail man. Let me cum on your daughters face cunt "

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/30/2012 10:42:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009



2) The "Domme" who was too shy to have a decent conversation during our first meeting. She stared down at the table during the entire meal, talked in a tone that was almost a whisper, and was visibly nervous (even though she requested the meeting). When I finally asked her to speak louder, she said "Yes Sir" in a very submissive tone.



I laughed at this one...

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 6/30/2012 11:33:24 PM   
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Dear Roch,

The submissive Domme interview is a classic. I shall end up retelling this story one day. Thanks for sharing.

-Kalon Eric


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalthus

So what have you had suggested or attempted that just made you cringe, not submit?


I have too many stories to choose just one. But a few of the worst Dommes that I've ever met include:

1) The Domme who insisted on using illegal drugs and alcohol before play. She was always either high or "tipsy". She's the only Domme who ever caused me to have to go to the hospital. I know better now, and I'd never play with a Domme who was under the influence of drugs or alcohol. But back then, I thought with my little head instead of my big head. I was submitting to her beauty, not her dominance, and I paid the price for that bad judgement.

2) The "Domme" who was too shy to have a decent conversation during our first meeting. She stared down at the table during the entire meal, talked in a tone that was almost a whisper, and was visibly nervous (even though she requested the meeting). When I finally asked her to speak louder, she said "Yes Sir" in a very submissive tone.

3) Every Domme who attempts the "Insta-Domme" approach in their first e-mail to me. You know the ones that I'm talking about. Their first message usually goes like this; "On your knees bitch boi! Kneel before your superior Goddess, you lowly worm!"



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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/1/2012 12:52:24 AM   
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heh. I've had "Doms" like that too. Would show up for coffee with his hands shakey and perspiring, barely able to sputter any words at all to me and then when I would decline them as someone I was interested, I'd get home to emails basically begging me to meet them again. lol. Yeah, real attractive. I would say about 90% of the doms I've ever met in person were like that.


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/1/2012 7:29:39 AM   
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eewww.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/2/2012 6:28:16 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

heh. I've had "Doms" like that too. Would show up for coffee with his hands shakey and perspiring, barely able to sputter any words at all to me and then when I would decline them as someone I was interested, I'd get home to emails basically begging me to meet them again. lol. Yeah, real attractive. I would say about 90% of the doms I've ever met in person were like that.



It always amazes me how many people give themselves the title "Dom" or "Domme", yet nothing in their personality justifies that title. They're typically shy, socially awkward, unattractive, with little hope of getting a date in the vanilla world. So they think that by calling themselves "Dom" or "Domme", they can force a submissive person to give them the attention that they can't get on their own in the vanilla world.

If I had a dollar for every "Dom"/"Domme" that I've met who were actually social misfits without a dominant bone in their bodies, I'd be a very rich man.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/2/2012 6:35:14 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

The submissive Domme interview is a classic. I shall end up retelling this story one day.
-Kalon Eric



Please do. Hopefully, it will be as a cautionary tale to some young, inexperienced sub. They need to know that not everyone who takes the title "Dom" or "Domme" really deserves the title. Some are actually subs in Dom's clothing.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/2/2012 8:49:39 AM   
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Yup, this sums up my experiences in over 10 years of being on sites like this. Like I said, 90% of those I've met are in that category.


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/4/2012 11:25:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kittycake

I was very very new, and was at a club that allowed clothed kink. I was receiving a paddling from a male dom friend, and was enjoying myself very much. After we had finished the mini session, he had wandered off to grab me some water and I was standing talking to a friend, when I felt a very painful blow on my lower back. I turned around and there was this woman, who I had never met, holding a paddle. Not only had she not had permission to swat me, but the swat was waaaaay too hard for someone who was new, and unprepared for it, and she missed my rear entirely and hit me in the back. When I started freaking out on her, caught between holding my back and fighting back tears, she got all riled up saying that she was a Domme and if I was a sub, I should just be happy for any attention paid to me.




OMG. Just wow. This takes the cake.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/4/2012 11:45:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: hlen5


Here's yet another contender:

"do you have a daughter, as you are busy maybe I can cum in her. make sure she looks like dad or the mail man. Let me cum on your daughters face cunt "




Yikes.

With today off and the chance to just relax and read these threads which I so rarely have a chance to do... I've succeeded only in making myself feel very very sad at what is out there. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/4/2012 2:13:21 PM   
hlen5


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ORIGINAL: MsKateNebraska


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ORIGINAL: hlen5


Here's yet another contender:

"do you have a daughter, as you are busy maybe I can cum in her. make sure she looks like dad or the mail man. Let me cum on your daughters face cunt "




Yikes.

With today off and the chance to just relax and read these threads which I so rarely have a chance to do... I've succeeded only in making myself feel very very sad at what is out there. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.


My apologies, some things just boggle the mind, don't they (Yes it got reported)?

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/4/2012 2:21:12 PM   
littlewonder


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I had one of those one time hlen. He tried to hypnotize me, online no less rofl, and then went on about how he would use my child. At the time we were just chatting back and forth and he seemed like a decent guy up to that point. I told him the only reason he would not be reported to authorities is that he is online and I didn't feel like going through all the trouble for a wanker who just liked to get a rise out of women.


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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/8/2012 10:49:27 PM   
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I laughed and threw him out. He was so shocked and was the first of many men who stated "you must not be a real submissive."

Why do doms love to say that whenever they don't get their way?
I think it's like blaming the sub for their failure to command respect and obedience.

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RE: The worst Dom you've ever met - 7/8/2012 10:51:07 PM   
Greta75


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ORIGINAL: hlen5


Here's yet another contender:

"do you have a daughter, as you are busy maybe I can cum in her. make sure she looks like dad or the mail man. Let me cum on your daughters face cunt "


Scariest shit here is if he actually met a mom who gets turn on by that.

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