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RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/21/2007 6:01:06 PM   
santalia


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*blushes*

thank you both...though, i happen to agree. i am one lucky girl. my Jarl loves me and i love Him. What more could a girl hope for?

-santalia{JR}t

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RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/21/2007 9:14:29 PM   
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Greetings santalia:

you're welcome :)

hehe how very true.. when one has the best Master what more could a girl ask for? .....

Blessed Be
cariad

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RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/23/2007 3:51:32 AM   
Leonidas


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It is the custom.

Some men are more miserly than others when it comes to their stuff, Goreans included.

In the last twenty years I've let someone borrow my slave about as often as I've let someone borrow my car.  I knew the people doing the borrowing equally well in both instances.

It always amuses me when someone approaches me to borrow my slave who probably wouldn't dream of asking to borrow my car.


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RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/23/2007 11:31:24 AM   
cariad


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Greetings Masters and Mistresses
Greetings fellow slaves:

after having read, re-read and re-read this thread some more, i would have to say that if my Master were to share me i would find it a learning experience and share with Him how i felt about it.

i am speaking as a slave who has not been shared by a Master for more than serving them drinks, food and doing housework for Others and would most likely feel a bit ...........

sorry my mind wandered a moment...

i would most likely feel a bit nervous but would strive my very best to be pleasing in all ways.

i hope this day finds you all well and that this post pleases the Masters.

Blessed Be
cariad


< Message edited by cariad -- 3/23/2007 11:32:45 AM >


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RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/23/2007 11:46:22 AM   
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Greetings Masters
Greetings Mistresses
greetings kajirae;

As sabba's Master has posted here, all know how He would respond. What sabba wishes to convey is that just the thought of knowing that Master will do as He pleases, no matter the "issue" is, makes it crystal clear who is the one in charge. The fact that He can is really all that matters, not whether He will or He won't.  It's the acceptance of that reality, that sabba isn't the one with the choice, and serves to remind sabba she is owned.

One of those Master things, sabba guesses....

well wishes,
sabba{CB}

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RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 10:13:44 AM   
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Rapture,

I guess you missed my statement on your definition of philosophy... I will provide a snipet for your conveinance.

quote:

  Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.
American Heritage Dictionary - Cite This Source



phi·los·o·phy       (fĭ-lŏs'ə-fē)  Pronunciation Key 
n.   pl. phi·los·o·phies



  • Love and pursuit of wisdom by intellectual means and moral self-discipline.
  • Investigation of the nature, causes, or principles of reality, knowledge, or values, based on logical reasoning rather than empirical methods.
  • A system of thought based on or involving such inquiry: the philosophy of Hume.
  • The critical analysis of fundamental assumptions or beliefs.
  • The disciplines presented in university curriculums of science and the liberal arts, except medicine, law, and theology.
  • The discipline comprising logic, ethics, aesthetics, metaphysics, and epistemology.
  • A set of ideas or beliefs relating to a particular field or activity; an underlying theory: an original philosophy of advertising.
  • A system of values by which one lives: has an unusual philosophy of life.


  • The rest of it can be found in the Customs and Philosophies thread, where you originally posted your definition.

    quote:

      A short response... what are you comparing to, to determine if that if Customs and Philosophies (which are the same see the defination of the same at the end of this post).

    "Ah but I didn't say incorrect, I asked for a part of the philosophy that was illegal.  You are asking me to prove a double negative which is a rather illogical thing to do."

    As clearly defined below, I have pointed out in several instance porition of the Gorean philosophy that would otherwise violate the laws of society. You have not defined what philosophy or part thereof that you reference to maintain that the same does not violate societies law or laws (not being illegal). However, you do continue to maintain that the "philosophy" or "philosophies" do not without qualifing your contentions nor providing any example thereof that would otherwise contradict my contentions.


    Asked and answered.

    quote:

      However, you have not made the case that the above does not apply. As to what of the philosophy is legal then about the above? The only thing is the lack of the practice of it, which I do believe I have mentioned. I have further mentioned just because something within the confines of a stated philosophy is illegal does not negate said aspect from the philosophy, but merely makes the practice thereof illegal in the eyes of societies law.



    If a particular act is illegal and part of a philosophy it does not negate that philosophy, I agree with this.  Your contention that any and all acts that can be committed by a man (simply because he is a man) makes it part and parcel of the Gorean philosophy, is where we differ.  Just so we are clear though,  I am simply a man, who is striving to live by and gain a better understanding of the philosophy, in my understanding I have some rituals, protocols, and even some codes.  If I happen to act outside of those codes for whatever reasons, does not mean that the philosophy is what supports those actions.  Most importantly those actions definitively do not become part of the philosophy.

    quote:

      "The question then becomes were these people there as examples of the philosophy, or were there as window dressing to show how the other side of the coin looked.  See if you want to get literal, and look at each spot on the page, sometimes you miss the big picture while counting the dots per inch.  Take it in its entirety and adjust your blinders, any point that is made can be contradicted by another quote, it's kind of funny how they were written that way. "

    Again, generalizations that are kept overly broad, ambigious, vague, and therefore intelligible so that said defination that you are purporting may exist. Again, are you comparing apples with apples, apples with pears, or applies with rhino's to substatitate your conclusion(s)?

    "There are of course things beyond the code, laws, and "natural" behavior; people are funny that way.  When one goes against that natural wiring, is it any surprise that the body begins to reject it, even if they are conditioned to go against that nature?   We as a society wonder why there are so many medical problems?  Perhaps it is because we (the very broad general sense of the word) have stopped living by the way we are wired and imposing that faulty programming on the children of the world.  Just a thought."

    You mean by the myths of society that are inclusive to the laws and codes therein?


    As you enjoy stating, put the pieces together across the now 10 or 11 posts, the puzzle will be complete.  Asked and answered.

    quote:

      "So, unless you can prove that, as you put it, the underlying aspects of the philosophy as a whole are illegal. I will be tossing in the towel on this now pulverized dead horse."

    I never once indicated the entire Gorean philosophy was illegal-not once. Portions of the Gorean philosophy are though illegal, however those illegal portions are not negated out of the Gorean philosophy just because they would otherwise violate societies law or laws.



    A bit general and broad, eh?  I asked in earlier posts for one tenet of the philosophy that was illegal, to which you did not provide an answer, except to say that I should prove that the entire philosophy was not illegal.  As pointed out in other places in this thread and others, there is a difference between a philosophy and the actions that are carried out by folks.  One may attempt to study and live by a given philosophy, but may not always achieve the ideal.  Some folks, even try to convince others that a philosophy is so broad that it includes bombings, murder, rape, pillaging as part of it, and that because they are now acceptible by fathwa (decree) they are now also part of the underlying philosophy. 

    Feel free to disect this post with your (insert color) colored glasses, make whatever assumptions you wish, and feel free to post them here in public.  I have nothing to hide and if there is a negative view of me, so be it.  I will take your opinion with a grain of salt.  The endless arguing in circles is pointless and futile,  I for one am done with this topic, at least for now.  I know call it a hit and run, but if you remember I was ready to finish a few pages ago....

    As always,
    Thadius

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 1:53:38 PM   
    Rapture


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    ....

    and what are you comparing to?????
    You still havent stated any contravening way, ethos, custom, or philospohy that would otherwise contradict what I have said. Though you continue to state the conclusion. I await...

    Rapture

    quote:

    ORIGINAL: Thadius

    Rapture,

    I guess you missed my statement on your definition of philosophy... I will provide a snipet for your conveinance.

    quote:

      Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
    Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.
    American Heritage Dictionary - Cite This Source

    philospohy

    phi·los·o·phy       (fĭ-lŏs'ə-fē)  Pronunciation Key 
    n.   pl. phi·los·o·phies
  • Love and pursuit of wisdom by intellectual means and moral self-discipline.
  • Investigation of the nature, causes, or principles of reality, knowledge, or values, based on logical reasoning rather than empirical methods.
  • A system of thought based on or involving such inquiry: the philosophy of Hume.
  • The critical analysis of fundamental assumptions or beliefs.
  • The disciplines presented in university curriculums of science and the liberal arts, except medicine, law, and theology.
  • The discipline comprising logic, ethics, aesthetics, metaphysics, and epistemology.
  • A set of ideas or beliefs relating to a particular field or activity; an underlying theory: an original philosophy of advertising.
  • A system of values by which one lives: has an unusual philosophy of life.


  • The rest of it can be found in the Customs and Philosophies thread, where you originally posted your definition.

    quote:

      A short response... what are you comparing to, to determine if that if Customs and Philosophies (which are the same see the defination of the same at the end of this post).

    "Ah but I didn't say incorrect, I asked for a part of the philosophy that was illegal.  You are asking me to prove a double negative which is a rather illogical thing to do."

    As clearly defined below, I have pointed out in several instance porition of the Gorean philosophy that would otherwise violate the laws of society. You have not defined what philosophy or part thereof that you reference to maintain that the same does not violate societies law or laws (not being illegal). However, you do continue to maintain that the "philosophy" or "philosophies" do not without qualifing your contentions nor providing any example thereof that would otherwise contradict my contentions.


    Asked and answered.

    quote:

      However, you have not made the case that the above does not apply. As to what of the philosophy is legal then about the above? The only thing is the lack of the practice of it, which I do believe I have mentioned. I have further mentioned just because something within the confines of a stated philosophy is illegal does not negate said aspect from the philosophy, but merely makes the practice thereof illegal in the eyes of societies law.



    If a particular act is illegal and part of a philosophy it does not negate that philosophy, I agree with this.  Your contention that any and all acts that can be committed by a man (simply because he is a man) makes it part and parcel of the Gorean philosophy, is where we differ.  Just so we are clear though,  I am simply a man, who is striving to live by and gain a better understanding of the philosophy, in my understanding I have some rituals, protocols, and even some codes.  If I happen to act outside of those codes for whatever reasons, does not mean that the philosophy is what supports those actions.  Most importantly those actions definitively do not become part of the philosophy.

    quote:

      "The question then becomes were these people there as examples of the philosophy, or were there as window dressing to show how the other side of the coin looked.  See if you want to get literal, and look at each spot on the page, sometimes you miss the big picture while counting the dots per inch.  Take it in its entirety and adjust your blinders, any point that is made can be contradicted by another quote, it's kind of funny how they were written that way. "

    Again, generalizations that are kept overly broad, ambigious, vague, and therefore intelligible so that said defination that you are purporting may exist. Again, are you comparing apples with apples, apples with pears, or applies with rhino's to substatitate your conclusion(s)?

    "There are of course things beyond the code, laws, and "natural" behavior; people are funny that way.  When one goes against that natural wiring, is it any surprise that the body begins to reject it, even if they are conditioned to go against that nature?   We as a society wonder why there are so many medical problems?  Perhaps it is because we (the very broad general sense of the word) have stopped living by the way we are wired and imposing that faulty programming on the children of the world.  Just a thought."

    You mean by the myths of society that are inclusive to the laws and codes therein?


    As you enjoy stating, put the pieces together across the now 10 or 11 posts, the puzzle will be complete.  Asked and answered.

    quote:

      "So, unless you can prove that, as you put it, the underlying aspects of the philosophy as a whole are illegal. I will be tossing in the towel on this now pulverized dead horse."

    I never once indicated the entire Gorean philosophy was illegal-not once. Portions of the Gorean philosophy are though illegal, however those illegal portions are not negated out of the Gorean philosophy just because they would otherwise violate societies law or laws.



    A bit general and broad, eh?  I asked in earlier posts for one tenet of the philosophy that was illegal, to which you did not provide an answer, except to say that I should prove that the entire philosophy was not illegal.  As pointed out in other places in this thread and others, there is a difference between a philosophy and the actions that are carried out by folks.  One may attempt to study and live by a given philosophy, but may not always achieve the ideal.  Some folks, even try to convince others that a philosophy is so broad that it includes bombings, murder, rape, pillaging as part of it, and that because they are now acceptible by fathwa (decree) they are now also part of the underlying philosophy. 

    Feel free to disect this post with your (insert color) colored glasses, make whatever assumptions you wish, and feel free to post them here in public.  I have nothing to hide and if there is a negative view of me, so be it.  I will take your opinion with a grain of salt.  The endless arguing in circles is pointless and futile,  I for one am done with this topic, at least for now.  I know call it a hit and run, but if you remember I was ready to finish a few pages ago....

    As always,
    Thadius

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 5:01:52 PM   
    xBullx


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    Tal Thadius,

    Give me those damn bananas, you aren't responsible enough to have them.

    As Pretty as ever,

    Bull

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    "A Republic, If You Can Keep It."

    Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 5:37:54 PM   
    tangy


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    greetings Master Bull,

    i dont get the whole banana thing, what does that mean exactly?

    well wishes,
    tangy

    < Message edited by tangy -- 3/25/2007 5:38:30 PM >

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 5:47:26 PM   
    Thadius


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    Tal Bull,

    Hell I even read the sign... didn't think it was literal.

    As always,
    Thadius


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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 6:24:44 PM   
    Rapture


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    .....

    "From: Thadius
    Dated:  
    3/25/07 9:17 AM
    Rapture,

    I believe I already admitted that there may be situations where I would break my codes and suffer the consequences of such.  I think I have stated that no less than 4 or 5 times in that thread.  I even gave an example of my children.  To claim that I am avoiding stating as much, is simple false. ......."

    Smiles.

    You indicated that your codes, etc. et. al. and such are dervived from the philosphies (sp) that you have mentioned. You further stated the example of your children, and taking things upon yourself and then suffer the consquences of society.

    Thadius, by your own words, by your hand, and by your own conduct in which you depart your codes at your convience you, yes you have made example of exactly the _evidence_ that proves my point correct. Your contentions Thadius are one large logical fallacy more commonly known as an oxymoron.

    See also:
    http://www.collarchat.com/m_908507/mpage_4/tm.htm
    "Greetings tangy and Rapture,
    I apologize for allowing my emotions to get the better of me this evening.  I should not have resorted to such a petty jab.  I am editing this as it was not something that should be posted here.  While I disagree with the way in which some people do things, I am not going to begin doing it myself.  Tonight shows that yes I make mistakes.
    Sincerely,
    Thadius "

    Enjoy...

    Rapture

    P.s
    Nature tends to win doesnt it, over some self imposed codes, or mythical laws of society dont it?

    < Message edited by Rapture -- 3/25/2007 6:32:16 PM >

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 6:26:15 PM   
    xBullx


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    Tangy the spy slut,

    You don't like me and can't behave remember. I do. Here's an ever so Gorean statement for you. "Curiousity is not becoming in a kajira."

    Serve somewhere well away from me,

    Bull

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    Live well,

    Bull



    I'm not an asshole; I'm simply resolute...

    "A Republic, If You Can Keep It."

    Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 6:29:36 PM   
    xBullx


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    Just smiles..........

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    I'm not an asshole; I'm simply resolute...

    "A Republic, If You Can Keep It."

    Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 6:36:36 PM   
    tangy


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    greetings Master Bull,

    what is a "spy slut"?  in any case, is it cuz who i associate with i get such great opinions from others about myself?

    and as you wish Master, i'll serve away from you ( see i can behave)

    well wishes
    tangy

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    RE: Sharing Slaves - 3/25/2007 6:38:23 PM   
    cariad


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    Greetings Master Bull:

    *smiles*

    i have enjoyed reading Your posts and wish to thank You for the many smiles You have helped me to have while reading them and learning from them.

    i find Your posts very informative and look forward to reading more.

    i hope this evening finds You well Master.

    Blessed Be
    cariad

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